When You are Aware, There is no EGO
HOW are you going to surrender the ego, when it does not exist? Suppose you are sitting in a dark room. You want the darkness to disappear. But can you push it out? Can you fight darkness and force it to leave the room? No! No matter how long you keep trying, you are ultimately going to be defeated — and that too by something which does not exist!
Ego is all about the illusory identity we build about ourselves, around ourselves, so that we can feel secure. A child has no ego. It is free to explore. As we grow, our education and conditioning helps us build this barrier around ourselves. It is an 'unreal', non-existent barrier that separates us from our true Self. It is a barrier that keeps us in bondage.
The ego is like darkness, it has no positive existence. Just like darkness is simply the absence of light, the ego is nothing but the absence of awareness. To struggle to kill the ego is like struggling to push the darkness out of the room.
To really expel the darkness, what you need to do is to forget all about dealing with the darkness. Focus your energy on light instead. Just bring a small lamp into the room, and you will find that darkness has fled on its own! So, I tell you to forget all about the ego. Instead, focus on bringing a lamp of awareness into your being.
When your entire consciousness has become a flame, you will find that the ego is no more.
The ego is an illusion. You cannot surrender it when you are unaware — because you don't know how. Of course, you cannot surrender it when you become aware either — because then you realise that there is nothing left to surrender! What you have heard, read, been taught — "Surrender the ego in order to attain Self-realisation" — this is unworkable. It can happen only the other way round. Self-realisation dawns, and suddenly you cannot find the ego anymore. The surrender has already happened, just like that.
I am glad if the question has arisen in your being. The ego is the root cause for all your anxieties, sorrows, and tensions. It is your doorway to hell. To actively feel that you want to drop the ego, to feel the need to be rid of this burden is itself a step towards awareness. It shows that you are stirring from your sleep!
PRAMAHAMSA SRI NITHYANANDA
EGO = Edging God Out
From India, Coimbatore
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746HOW are you going to surrender the ego, when it does not exist? Suppose you are sitting in a dark room. You want the darkness to disappear. But can you push it out? Can you fight darkness and force it to leave the room? No! No matter how long you keep trying, you are ultimately going to be defeated — and that too by something which does not exist!
Ego is all about the illusory identity we build about ourselves, around ourselves, so that we can feel secure. A child has no ego. It is free to explore. As we grow, our education and conditioning helps us build this barrier around ourselves. It is an 'unreal', non-existent barrier that separates us from our true Self. It is a barrier that keeps us in bondage.
The ego is like darkness, it has no positive existence. Just like darkness is simply the absence of light, the ego is nothing but the absence of awareness. To struggle to kill the ego is like struggling to push the darkness out of the room.
To really expel the darkness, what you need to do is to forget all about dealing with the darkness. Focus your energy on light instead. Just bring a small lamp into the room, and you will find that darkness has fled on its own! So, I tell you to forget all about the ego. Instead, focus on bringing a lamp of awareness into your being.
When your entire consciousness has become a flame, you will find that the ego is no more.
The ego is an illusion. You cannot surrender it when you are unaware — because you don't know how. Of course, you cannot surrender it when you become aware either — because then you realise that there is nothing left to surrender! What you have heard, read, been taught — "Surrender the ego in order to attain Self-realisation" — this is unworkable. It can happen only the other way round. Self-realisation dawns, and suddenly you cannot find the ego anymore. The surrender has already happened, just like that.
I am glad if the question has arisen in your being. The ego is the root cause for all your anxieties, sorrows, and tensions. It is your doorway to hell. To actively feel that you want to drop the ego, to feel the need to be rid of this burden is itself a step towards awareness. It shows that you are stirring from your sleep!
PRAMAHAMSA SRI NITHYANANDA
EGO = Edging God Out
From India, Coimbatore
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u r true... EGO...!! really a gud topic to be discussed. But very tough to put it in practice. we r very much aware of this and also to the clauses behind this.
From India, Hyderabad
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From India, Hyderabad
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EGO is part of everybody’s life, chasing out EGO, very difficult, should work hard to practice. Let us try
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Dear Peer,
I don't think what you have discussed is EGO. It is only that it has come to be known so. EGO is defined as a mindset of a person, and everybody possesses three types of EGO: Child, Adult, and Parent. It is something that a person must have.
Thanks,
Priya
From India
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I don't think what you have discussed is EGO. It is only that it has come to be known so. EGO is defined as a mindset of a person, and everybody possesses three types of EGO: Child, Adult, and Parent. It is something that a person must have.
Thanks,
Priya
From India
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Excellent job! After blogging this great solution for overcoming ego, you have given a great thing to all. Since we, the slaves of ego, are unaware of our existence and unaware of our innate power, this concept is difficult to understand for such people. Actually, one should know that the one and only aim and teaching of all religions is SELF-REALIZATION. Thanks for unveiling this truth! I'm not forcing you, but if you have any spare time, then just check it out at www.sahajayoga.com.
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