Dear All,
This is a beautiful article:
The woman in your life... very well expressed...
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts as well.
Here is a girl who is as educated as you are; who is earning almost as much as you do; one who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are; one who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.
One who has lived and loved her parents, brothers, and sisters almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life; one who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name.
One who is somehow expected to be a master chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment, and that kitchen; one who is expected to make the tea first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you.
One who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition, and your inherent insecurities.
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise.
One who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met; one who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success if you just help her some and trust her; one who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities, and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate "HER"
I hope you will do....
Regards,
Gururaj.P.
Software Consultant
From India
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1This is a beautiful article:
The woman in your life... very well expressed...
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts as well.
Here is a girl who is as educated as you are; who is earning almost as much as you do; one who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are; one who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.
One who has lived and loved her parents, brothers, and sisters almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life; one who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name.
One who is somehow expected to be a master chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment, and that kitchen; one who is expected to make the tea first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you.
One who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition, and your inherent insecurities.
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise.
One who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met; one who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success if you just help her some and trust her; one who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities, and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate "HER"
I hope you will do....
Regards,
Gururaj.P.
Software Consultant
From India
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Very gud! I think, we should realise these facts.... given the same value/ regard to woman & definitely must be implemented. regds- ranjan
From India, Gurgaon
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Dear All,
I respect both women and men as my mother is a woman, and my father is a man. Nowadays, the role of women has been changing in every sector, especially as corporate professionals. However, I don't understand why people (mostly women) always focus on women's contributions both within and outside the family. Just as I value my father as much as my mother, I believe sacrifices are made by both men and women for their families.
Often, women are referred to as "servants" because they prepare food and maintain a clean and beautiful home. Is it wrong for women to do these things? As a man who frequently cooks for my parents, I don't consider myself a servant hired to cook for the family.
As a man, I also work as a "servant" in the office to earn money for my family. If women label themselves as servants for their kitchen duties, then shouldn't all individuals see themselves as servants in the corporate world, where they must follow the orders of their bosses regardless of how they feel?
I believe that to build a happy family, one must possess the ability to make sacrifices and maintain a positive outlook on everything.
Let's refrain from calling kitchen work servitude because I don't see my mother as a servant; she is a loving and caring mother to us.
Thank you.
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I respect both women and men as my mother is a woman, and my father is a man. Nowadays, the role of women has been changing in every sector, especially as corporate professionals. However, I don't understand why people (mostly women) always focus on women's contributions both within and outside the family. Just as I value my father as much as my mother, I believe sacrifices are made by both men and women for their families.
Often, women are referred to as "servants" because they prepare food and maintain a clean and beautiful home. Is it wrong for women to do these things? As a man who frequently cooks for my parents, I don't consider myself a servant hired to cook for the family.
As a man, I also work as a "servant" in the office to earn money for my family. If women label themselves as servants for their kitchen duties, then shouldn't all individuals see themselves as servants in the corporate world, where they must follow the orders of their bosses regardless of how they feel?
I believe that to build a happy family, one must possess the ability to make sacrifices and maintain a positive outlook on everything.
Let's refrain from calling kitchen work servitude because I don't see my mother as a servant; she is a loving and caring mother to us.
Thank you.
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Dear Sandeep,
Whatever you have said is true to some extent, but then every coin has two sides. There may be people who act foolishly in the manner as you said, but you cannot brand everybody in the same category. There are people who toil from morning to evening without complaining, and it is applicable to both men and women. Whatever one does should be done with full devotion. A word of appreciation really matters, and that applies to both men and women. Ma and Pa are both equally important, and we cannot distinguish between the two as in the case of our two eyes. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sindhu
From India, Delhi
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Whatever you have said is true to some extent, but then every coin has two sides. There may be people who act foolishly in the manner as you said, but you cannot brand everybody in the same category. There are people who toil from morning to evening without complaining, and it is applicable to both men and women. Whatever one does should be done with full devotion. A word of appreciation really matters, and that applies to both men and women. Ma and Pa are both equally important, and we cannot distinguish between the two as in the case of our two eyes. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sindhu
From India, Delhi
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Dear Sandeep/Sindhu,
I didn't post this article to differentiate between men and women. For me, both are equal. We should understand and accept the reality that both are human beings. Just see the good things in the article. One day, I will post about men also... 😀
Regards,
Gururaj
From India
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I didn't post this article to differentiate between men and women. For me, both are equal. We should understand and accept the reality that both are human beings. Just see the good things in the article. One day, I will post about men also... 😀
Regards,
Gururaj
From India
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