Tomorrow you may propose a working woman,
but you should marry with these facts firmly grounded in your mind........
Here is a girl, who is as educated as you are;
who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements. One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name,
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and the kitchen
One, who is expected to make tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition, and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success if you just help her some and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - Your unstinted support, Your sensitivities, and most importantly - Your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate 'HER' ========
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6but you should marry with these facts firmly grounded in your mind........
Here is a girl, who is as educated as you are;
who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements. One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name,
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and the kitchen
One, who is expected to make tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition, and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success if you just help her some and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - Your unstinted support, Your sensitivities, and most importantly - Your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate 'HER' ========
From India, Bangalore
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Dear Seema,
"Working women": I consider my wife, of 26 years, a working woman whom you would call a "housewife". She is a law graduate, erudite, an excellent communicator, but she chose the profession of "stay-at-home mother", and she has made the right choice. A relationship is built on mutual respect, trust, and love for each other.
Thanks for the article.
Col Jude
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"Working women": I consider my wife, of 26 years, a working woman whom you would call a "housewife". She is a law graduate, erudite, an excellent communicator, but she chose the profession of "stay-at-home mother", and she has made the right choice. A relationship is built on mutual respect, trust, and love for each other.
Thanks for the article.
Col Jude
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its really awesome......... thanks a ton for posting it.......... luckily I got a family, especially my husband, who understands it very well and supports me in every deed.
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Seema, with this story, you have touched on so many important issues in one go. There is a need to understand the working women with the correct perspective. She is as hard-pressed as her husband, she contributes to the family income, sometimes more than the husband, supports the husband in difficult times, looks after the kids more than anybody in the family, and last but not least, loses on the career front also if required, for the sake of the family. She needs all our support and salute. Great contribution. Thanks.
Col Virendra
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I am Gifted to Enjoy My Married LIFE,,,,, The BEST Ever Gifted I have got from my Parents is My WIFE...
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Oh, really? When men can comment on women, mock them after marriage... that's absolutely fine, right? We women have learned to make way for ourselves, then the same applies to you. You males, make your own way! 🤬
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Dear Seema, Excellent.Well depicted in words & Reality for sure. A must read for all....... Warm Regards, RGS.
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