Hi Friends,
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Here is a girl who is as educated as you are, earning almost as much as you do. She has dreams and aspirations just like you because she is as human as you are. She has never entered the kitchen in her life, just like you or your sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.
She has lived and loved her parents, brothers, and sisters almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life. She bravely agreed to leave behind her home, the people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways, and even your family name.
She is somehow expected to be a master chef from day one, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment, and that kitchen. She is expected to make the tea first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her. She is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding or if she learns faster than you.
She has her own set of friends, including boys and men at her workplace too, those whom she knows from school days, yet she is willing to put all that on the backburners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition, and inherent insecurities.
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise. She can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met.
She is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her.
She just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities, and most importantly - your understanding or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this...
Well, give it a thought now and reply.
Regards,
Sudipta
From India, Gurgaon
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2DO READ WHENEVER YOU HAVE TIME!
Here is a girl who is as educated as you are, earning almost as much as you do. She has dreams and aspirations just like you because she is as human as you are. She has never entered the kitchen in her life, just like you or your sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.
She has lived and loved her parents, brothers, and sisters almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life. She bravely agreed to leave behind her home, the people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways, and even your family name.
She is somehow expected to be a master chef from day one, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment, and that kitchen. She is expected to make the tea first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her. She is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding or if she learns faster than you.
She has her own set of friends, including boys and men at her workplace too, those whom she knows from school days, yet she is willing to put all that on the backburners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition, and inherent insecurities.
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise. She can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met.
She is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her.
She just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities, and most importantly - your understanding or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this...
Well, give it a thought now and reply.
Regards,
Sudipta
From India, Gurgaon
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Girls have their lives more challenging in every step. You, girls, are the mother, the sister, the daughter. I salute you for your contributions to this civilization, lest your sacrifice, we couldn't be here. Thanks for your write-up.
Borhan
From Bangladesh, Dhaka
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Borhan
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that was very well thoght sudipta i wanna thank all women for being their for us as mum sis wife gf n wherever any role was needed they are greatest of all Amit
From India, Mumbai
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From India, Mumbai
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Dear Sudipta,
What a beautiful way to express the feelings. Life's simple mantra is to give respect and you will get the same in return. I agree some gentlemen need to understand the value of relationships further. Thanks for posting.
With Best Regards,
Vivek
From India, Pune
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What a beautiful way to express the feelings. Life's simple mantra is to give respect and you will get the same in return. I agree some gentlemen need to understand the value of relationships further. Thanks for posting.
With Best Regards,
Vivek
From India, Pune
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Hi Supdita,
Yes, your thoughts are very true and I liked them very much. But not every woman in corporate understands how to choose the right man. As they grow professionally, they only look for someone who is at their level or think about "log kiya bolengay" - what will society say? A life partner should not be chosen based solely on professional achievements. Only then can they find the right partner. It's a mistake for a woman to choose a partner who is professionally handsome and highly qualified, as this can lead to future problems when competition for respect and honor arises.
Regards,
Shoaib
From India, Mumbai
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Yes, your thoughts are very true and I liked them very much. But not every woman in corporate understands how to choose the right man. As they grow professionally, they only look for someone who is at their level or think about "log kiya bolengay" - what will society say? A life partner should not be chosen based solely on professional achievements. Only then can they find the right partner. It's a mistake for a woman to choose a partner who is professionally handsome and highly qualified, as this can lead to future problems when competition for respect and honor arises.
Regards,
Shoaib
From India, Mumbai
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