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mathew_hr_xlri

Dear all,
For all you people interested in this topic, I reccommend you go through the subject of neuro linguistic programming as almost all the ideas relating to language, visualizing, motivation etc form the core subject matter of NLP. Moreover the methodology and study of NLP is quite scientific giving a structured mode of study for those interested.
Regards,
Mathew.

From India, New Delhi
Dr. Jogeshwar mahanta
174

Dear Mathew,
namaskar.
Do you suggest to close this thread in favour of NLP? I think quite a number of threads on NLP were initiated but due to lack of proper response, the threads could not proceed more. NLP is one of the positive thinking approach and not all. Moreover, it is toxic thinking here. Will you please enlighten on NLP?
regards,
Jogeshwar

From India, Delhi
mathew_hr_xlri

Dear Dr. Jogeshwar,
It was not my intention to close the thread on the subject. I was just letting all those people who wished to study this subject in more detail to approach the subject of NLP. Often many people don't really know what NLP is really about which is probably why many threads don't see fruitful completion.
I would any day be glad to enlighten anyone regarding NLP from what little I know of the same. However, it would be difficult to explain a whole subject due to time and space constraints. I therefore suggest that you could perhaps ask me something specific in NLP which I will be happy to answer.
Of course I'm forever a student of NLP so I'm always a learner first than a teacher. And yes positive thoughts do feature in NLP in the premise that all actions have positive intentions.
So I hope I have cleared any toxic thoughts that I might have inadvertently created in your mind.
Regards,
Mathew

From India, New Delhi
Dr. Jogeshwar mahanta
174

. "I therefore suggest that you could perhaps ask me something specific in NLP which I will be happy to answer."
Namaskar,
Can there be more toxic thoughts than the opening one? what are those?
regards,
jogeshwar

From India, Delhi
aashi
1

Hey,
Thank you so much for sharing this article.. I am surely going to practice this and also share it with as many people, I can..
Thank you very much once again... I am really grateful to you...
God bless....
Best Regards,
Aashi....

From India, Mumbai
Dr. Jogeshwar mahanta
174

As on today toxic thoughts are the biggest killers. But there is NO war against toxic thoughts. It is evident from the fact that in this thread the previous message was posted in August,2005.
Let the world keep get going.
regards

From India, Delhi
unusual_indu
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Respected Dr Jogeshwar
I still cannot believe my eyes that somebody has replied to a topic which was orginally posted in 2005.I am sure the material posted in this topic is so good that this thread of discussion will be revived by members for years to come.
Let me come back to your comments,I think I am still not matured/knowledgable enough to understand all your posts but definitely I will treasure the inputs(whatever I could gather) that I recieved from your post and also from this beautiful article.
Thank you CHR and Dr Jogeshwar for your wonderful contribution.
Thanks and Regards
Indrani Chakraborty

From India, Pune
Dr. Jogeshwar mahanta
174

Thank you Indrani ji,
I am running courses on the subject for very high profile participants. If there will be revival of discussion or war against toxic thoughts then I am ready to contribute.
What are the points of discussion?
regards

From India, Delhi
unusual_indu
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Respected Dr Jogeshwar

Firstly let me admit that I do not have enough knowledge on this subject,I have just started my career as an HR professional 2yrs back and I still have a long way to go and a lot to learn from senior members of the community like you .

I would like to share a thought that crossed my mind after reading this article.If I have understood the article correctly then it says that it is more easy to bring about a change in the behaviour of an individual by showing him the good things about leaving or letting go the things which are adversely affecting his well being as an individual/professional,rather than just giving them a directive to stop something.

For example a peron needs to visualise that he is breathing fresh air if he really wants to give up smoking

Now let me relate this to my workplace,I work as an HR and there is somebody in my organisation who starts crying whenever she is criticized for her work and I do not find anything positive "offhand" to show her when she does this. I know regular counselling on this can boost up her morale but it is a time consuming process and can not happen overnight so what can I do to handle this situation as an HR.? Is it because I have toxic thinking "that I cannot do it " that I am unable to help her or she seriously needs professional help.

All I want to point out is whether this should be practised only by a professional when it is being administered on a third person ? or anybody can master this art with practice and use this as a tool for motivation ?

I dont know how relevant is my question to this topic but I would love to hear from you on the same

Please let me know if I am deviating from the original post

Thanks and Regards

Indrani Chakraborty

From India, Pune
Dr. Jogeshwar mahanta
174

The question is right.But the problem which you have posted is not that easy to solve. In psychoanalysis there is term "release".Have you ever heard it? In behaviourism there is a term "extinction". Have you heard it?

Releasing, extinguishing and substituting which you will have to thoroughly comprehend. For substitution please find a check list for getting by heart as many as possible and reverberating as much as possible.

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Dr.J.Mahanta

Wish you best of luck.

regards

From India, Delhi
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