Mr. P.S. Dhingra has given sound suggestions. You cannot terminate any employee without conducting a domestic enquiry. Secondly, for termination purposes, "misconduct" has to be defined. The Supreme Court has ruled that any termination that does not fall within the purview of "misconduct" defined in the standing orders of the company is illegal. Therefore, my question is about having an explicit definition of misconduct regarding "using the same room to change the dress by persons of two opposite genders at the same time."
You might have prohibited the entry of either gender into the dress changing room of the other gender. However, is the transgression of this rule sufficient grounds for termination?
While writing the above facts, let me apprise you that I am not taking the side of the delinquent employee. My objective was to apprise you of the legal aspects of termination.
Performance and Reform Considerations
Secondly, how is the performance of the employee? Are the employees good performers? Can they be counseled and given a chance to reform? By using provisions of discipline like a sledgehammer, are we also crushing the option of reforming the employee?
Take a broader view and think twice before you terminate them. Yes, what they have done is wrong, but then by terminating the employee, will you get the same performance? By invoking harsh discipline, are we becoming sanctimonious? We live in the same world in which we have "Saans-bahu" soap operas. Most of these soaps have extramarital affairs as their leitmotif. How can you expect everybody to be free from the influence of the serials?
Changing Social Norms
Indian society is no longer what it used to be. The days of conservatism are gone. Take the case of a live-in relationship. In the last generation, it was unthinkable, but now it is there. Presently, in social media, news is circulating about a 67-year-old widowed politician who has fallen in love with a woman less than half his age. They plan to get married once the woman gets a divorce.
On one side, we are the liberals who cry hoarse for the rights of the LGBT community, and on the other side, we invoke the harshest rules for deviation. Where does workplace romance not happen? Unfortunately, this pair crossed the dividing line. Explore the possibility of bringing them back within the line.
Thanks,
Regards,
Dinesh V. Divekar