M.Peer Mohamed Sardhar
733

10.Qualities.Of Women

Women can teach men a thing or two! Some celeb women tell us exactly where men can use the help, to make the world a better place to live in ...

Lesson No. 1:
Emotional quotient
They might call us overtly emotional, but that’s one thing that adds meaning to life. Ace director Kalpana Lajmi says, “Men lack that maternal perspective. They can’t see things the way a woman does, enriching every relationship with depth, a healing touch and compassion. If men learn that, then the relationship between men and women would be quite easy.”
Suchitra Pillai, actor, says, "One thing that men should learn from women is to be more in touch with their emotions. This would include being aware of mood swings the partner faces. It would make questions like ‘Are you upset?’ redundant. Women can teach men by not hiding their own emotions."
Rakhi Sawant, item girl, says, "Women have a lot of emotional strength. They can do a lot that men can’t even dream of. It’s wrongly believed that men are stronger than women. Whenever there is a crisis, it's men get depressed, lose their confidence and approach their lady for comfort.

Lesson No. 2:
Think about the other’s pleasure as well
Now, this one goes for men who are obsessed with their own single-minded pursuit of happiness.
Alka Pandey, author, Kamasutra for Women says, “Treating the other as equal becomes all the more important when it comes to your chemistry in bed. Men must understand that a woman’s pleasure is as important as a man’s.”

Lesson No. 3:
Endurance
Well, you’ll never tag us as constant cribbers once you learn this art, which we are quite good at.
Singer Shibani Kashyap says, “They might be physically stronger than us, but when it comes to emotional endurance, men still have a long way to go.”
Mehar Bhasin, says, “Men certainly need to learn the ability to be patient in any situation – be it workplace pressure, ego clashes, selfishness, pride, etc. Women take longer to react because they know that men are impulsive. She knows how to be patient in all walks of life. Be it a mother waiting for her child’s results, a wife waiting for her husband to apologise for harsh words, or a girlfriend waiting for a commitment – men need that inner patience to deal with trying situations.”

Lesson No. 4:
Respect woman
Guys, you better remember to dish it out otherwise you know where your relationship is heading!
Actress Mahima Choudhary says, “They expect us to respect their clan, while they can’t even respect us. So, this is one lesson men should learn from women, particularly Indian men!”

Lesson No: 5:
To multitask & balance
Now, this one’s a hit! Most women would love their men getting into the multitasking groove just like themselves.
Actress Shefali Shah says, “Men can focus on just one subject at a time and that’s so irritating at times. And to add to the irritation they either focus on cricket, work or buddies. So, I think they should learn the art of balancing it well.”
Gurdip Kohli, TV actor, says, "A sense of balance is the biggest quality that a man can pick up from a woman. A man must discover the experience of trying to juggle personal and professional lives. Since I'm married now, I can see how important it is to achieve a balance between your work and home. Unfortunately, men don’t really understand this, so they need to be more efficient at balancing priorities."

Lesson No: 6:
Forgive
This otherwise not so emotional breed will suddenly become the worst emotional blackmailers the moment they catch you on the wrong foot. They would either not forgive you and if at all they do, they’ll make you feel guilty forever!
TV actress Tina Parekh says, “The day men learn to forgive and move on, there won’t be any fights between husbands and wives.”

Lesson No. 7:
There’s more to sex than just being physical
Well, all the women who have been there and done that would agree that men get into the act for the act’s sake, while a woman gets into the act for sheer togetherness.
Sandhya Mulchandani, author, Indian Erotica says, “Women give their whole self to the experience, while men just consider it a physical thing. So, if men learn to get more generous when it comes to foreplay and let emotions seep in while having sex rather than getting anxious about performance, bedroom relations will be much better.”

Lesson No. 8:
Sense of commitment
It won’t be wrong to say that men are almost allergic to commitment. Be it sticking to a job, a partner or for that matter anything, they need a great deal of perseverance to make up their mind.
Playback singer Alka Yagnik says, “Apparently, a man needs to learn everything from a woman – with commitment topping the list. Women exhibit a higher level of efficiency in everything they attach themselves to. So, I feel a man can learn this ‘sense of commitment’ in whatever they do from a woman.”

Lesson No: 9:
Devotion
Truly, hopelessly devoted — now, that’s a tough one for men!
Director Tanuja Chandra says, “Women have this innate ability to be generous when it comes to devoting themselves to their near ones. They are impeccable when it comes to investing emotionally to the other’s concerns. Unfortunately, men lack that.”

Lesson No: 10:
Kill that ego
They’ll definitely find this one hard to digest. After all, they think they’re always right!
Actress Juhi Babbar says, “It’s high time they realised that they are dependent upon their wives and mothers. So, better kill that ego and love each other for whatever roles God has made us.”

From India, Coimbatore
Rose_S
10

Dear M. Peer Mohammed Sardhar
You have hit the nail on the head.... Bulls eye.!
The world would be a much better place if women were in charge.
:)
BTW, Do you actually believe what you have posted?
regards
Rose S

From India, Mumbai
Rashid Ahmed
78

Please, find my comments in red.

10.Qualities.Of Women

Women can teach men a thing or two (Men can teach women a thousand things) ! Some celeb women tell us exactly where men can use the help, to make the world a better place to live in ... (If you see history Women have been always a cause of fight and restlessness).

Lesson No. 1:
Emotional quotient
They might call us overtly emotional, but that’s one thing that adds meaning to life. Ace director Kalpana Lajmi says, “Men lack that maternal perspective (Ofcourse). They can’t see things the way a woman does (Thank God, otherwise the scenerio of world would be changed), enriching every relationship with depth, a healing touch and compassion. If men learn that, then the relationship between men and women would be quite easy.”
Suchitra Pillai, actor, says, "One thing that men should learn from women is to be more in touch with their emotions.(This is a nice idea but it applies on women too) This would include being aware of mood swings the partner faces. It would make questions like ‘Are you upset?’ redundant. Women can teach men by not hiding their own emotions."
Rakhi Sawant, item girl, says, "Women have a lot of emotional strength. They can do a lot that men can’t even dream of (We all know what Rakhi can do even many of women can't dream of). It’s wrongly believed that men are stronger than women. (Mica can give better answer of this) Whenever there is a crisis, it's men get depressed, lose their confidence and approach their lady for comfort.

Lesson No. 2:
Think about the other’s pleasure as well
Now, this one goes for men who are obsessed with their own single-minded pursuit of happiness.
Alka Pandey, author, Kamasutra for Women says, “Treating the other as equal becomes all the more important when it comes to your chemistry in bed. Men must understand that a woman’s pleasure is as important as a man’s.” (Oh my God! till now I was understanding that the pleasure of women are more important, thanks for realising the importance of men too).

Lesson No. 3:
Endurance
Well, you’ll never tag us as constant cribbers once you learn this art, which we are quite good at.
Singer Shibani Kashyap says, “They might be physically stronger than us, but when it comes to emotional endurance, men still have a long way to go.”
Mehar Bhasin, says, “Men certainly need to learn the ability to be patient in any situation – be it workplace pressure, ego clashes, selfishness, pride, etc (In fact, These all are the quality of women) Women take longer to react because they know that men are impulsive (If you do not purchase make up things for your wife, immediately she will stop to give you even your dinner). She knows how to be patient in all walks of life. Be it a mother waiting for her child’s results, a wife waiting for her husband to apologise (Ya, she will wait untill the husband will himself apologise) for harsh words, or a girlfriend waiting for a commitment – men need that inner patience to deal with trying situations.”

Lesson No. 4:
Respect woman
Guys, you better remember to dish it out otherwise you know where your relationship is heading!
Actress Mahima Choudhary says, “They expect us to respect their clan, while they can’t even respect us. So, this is one lesson men should learn from women, particularly Indian men!” (I am totaly agree, by the way todays women know how to get respect from the men).
**This article is very long, I will comment later.

Thank you for sharing

With regards

Rashid

Lesson No: 5:
To multitask & balance
Now, this one’s a hit! Most women would love their men getting into the multitasking groove just like themselves.
Actress Shefali Shah says, “Men can focus on just one subject at a time and that’s so irritating at times. And to add to the irritation they either focus on cricket, work or buddies. So, I think they should learn the art of balancing it well.”
Gurdip Kohli, TV actor, says, "A sense of balance is the biggest quality that a man can pick up from a woman. A man must discover the experience of trying to juggle personal and professional lives. Since I'm married now, I can see how important it is to achieve a balance between your work and home. Unfortunately, men don’t really understand this, so they need to be more efficient at balancing priorities."

Lesson No: 6:
Forgive
This otherwise not so emotional breed will suddenly become the worst emotional blackmailers the moment they catch you on the wrong foot. They would either not forgive you and if at all they do, they’ll make you feel guilty forever!
TV actress Tina Parekh says, “The day men learn to forgive and move on, there won’t be any fights between husbands and wives.”

Lesson No. 7:
There’s more to sex than just being physical
Well, all the women who have been there and done that would agree that men get into the act for the act’s sake, while a woman gets into the act for sheer togetherness.
Sandhya Mulchandani, author, Indian Erotica says, “Women give their whole self to the experience, while men just consider it a physical thing. So, if men learn to get more generous when it comes to foreplay and let emotions seep in while having sex rather than getting anxious about performance, bedroom relations will be much better.”

Lesson No. 8:
Sense of commitment
It won’t be wrong to say that men are almost allergic to commitment. Be it sticking to a job, a partner or for that matter anything, they need a great deal of perseverance to make up their mind.
Playback singer Alka Yagnik says, “Apparently, a man needs to learn everything from a woman – with commitment topping the list. Women exhibit a higher level of efficiency in everything they attach themselves to. So, I feel a man can learn this ‘sense of commitment’ in whatever they do from a woman.”

Lesson No: 9:
Devotion
Truly, hopelessly devoted — now, that’s a tough one for men!
Director Tanuja Chandra says, “Women have this innate ability to be generous when it comes to devoting themselves to their near ones. They are impeccable when it comes to investing emotionally to the other’s concerns. Unfortunately, men lack that.”

Lesson No: 10:
Kill that ego
They’ll definitely find this one hard to digest. After all, they think they’re always right!
Actress Juhi Babbar says, “It’s high time they realised that they are dependent upon their wives and mothers. So, better kill that ego and love each other for whatever roles God has made us.”



From Saudi Arabia, Riyadh
YGeeta
13

Hi,
I wonder how come this kind of things are getting into professional forums like CIte HR ? There is endless arguments on men-women issues,people can go on and on...best justified would be never to post or allow such articles on this site - my humble request to moderators and members.
Thanks
Geeta

From Korea, Seoul
ashlesha.dere@yahoo.co.in
24

I totally agree with YGeeta... such posts have no ending... this is a professional cite, one shldnt post such issues (even if wit good intentions)....
Both genders need to learn frm each other... no favouring for nebody...
And, BTW, Rashid, u sound as if this is the rite time for u to teach women a lesson..... u shld have been on the censor board man!!
Regards,
Ashlesha

From India, Mumbai
biswadeep.gupta
2

Respect for all is what we have learned in our House I hope. Its better to keep the discussion a professional one in a forum like that.

gamerman86
2

More than all..........
Women are always carriers, men are sufferers
sorry i didn't want to criticize any women,instead this is the fact.
I'm sure most of you guys want to erase or delete this,but since its a fact everybody knows but nobody wants to tell or yell.

From India, Bangalore
kals_hr
Hi,

Womens has a power to Construct or Destruct the world. Though the womens are more powerful but still they will give respect to others emotions,value and try to adjust with in that in whatever situation. Without women we can't even imagine a world. Even we respect womens and show the respect in different ways like for a child they will ask mothers name, Mother-Father, Radha-Krishna, Sita-Ram etc. different examples are there.

Womens sacrifices as a daughter, sister, wife, mother, grand-mother, friends etc. At each and every step of her life she use to sacrifices but she will not express. The sacrifices a women can do , a men can't do. We can't compare men to women. Mother is respected in every caste and religion.

If mens feel that womens are just like inviting worries then y they follow a girl, get marry. Mens can stay alone and enjoy there life. But they can't. Womens can live there life alone without out any ones help.

Overall if you don't respect womens that means your not respecting your Mother, Sister,Wife and Daughter.

THIS IS A SITE WHERE WE CAME FOR KNOWLEDGE SHARING NOT TO BLAME SOMEONE OR NOT TO MAKE FUN OF SOMEONE.

From India, Madras
Mom2u
The post by itself is ok. After all it's a post. However the debate that follows is a never-ending one and can go on and on. I truly believe it was an unpalatable inclusion, which just opens the door for nit picking.
While everyone has a right to his opinion....I'm sure this page isn't the place to air it.

From India, Gurgaon
prachi2909
2

DEAR Mr. Rashid Ahmed,

Please, find my comments in blue.

10.Qualities.Of Women

Women can teach men a thing or two (Men can teach women a thousand things-– I BET YOU CAN’T, & EVEN IF THIS WILL BE THE CASE WE ARE ALWAYS EAGER TO LEARN.) ! Some celeb women tell us exactly where men can use the help, to make the world a better place to live in ... (If you see history Women have been always a cause of fight and restlessness- – IS THAT SO, DON’T THE PROUD MEN FORCE HAVE THEIR OWN BRAIN TO USE?).

Lesson No. 1:
Emotional quotient
They might call us overtly emotional, but that’s one thing that adds meaning to life. Ace director Kalpana Lajmi says, “Men lack that maternal perspective (Ofcourse). They can’t see things the way a woman does (Thank God, otherwise the scenerio of world would be changed, – IN A POSITIVE MANNER, WITH LESSER TERRORISM AND CRIMES), enriching every relationship with depth, a healing touch and compassion. If men learn that, then the relationship between men and women would be quite easy.”
Suchitra Pillai, actor, says, "One thing that men should learn from women is to be more in touch with their emotions.(This is a nice idea but it applies on women too, – WE NEVER DENIED THIS) This would include being aware of mood swings the partner faces. It would make questions like ‘Are you upset?’ redundant. Women can teach men by not hiding their own emotions."
Rakhi Sawant, item girl, says, "Women have a lot of emotional strength. They can do a lot that men can’t even dream of (We all know what Rakhi can do even many of women can't dream of ). It’s wrongly believed that men are stronger than women. (Mica can give better answer of this - – CANT YOU GUYS GROW UP AND THINK ABOUT SOME MORE LOGICAL THINGS IN LIFE?, ATLEAST SOMETIMES) Whenever there is a crisis, it's men get depressed, lose their confidence and approach their lady for comfort.

Lesson No. 2:
Think about the other’s pleasure as well
Now, this one goes for men who are obsessed with their own single-minded pursuit of happiness.
Alka Pandey, author, Kamasutra for Women says, “Treating the other as equal becomes all the more important when it comes to your chemistry in bed. Men must understand that a woman’s pleasure is as important as a man’s.” (Oh my God! till now I was understanding that the pleasure of women are more important, thanks for realising the importance of men too – THERE IS NO MORE OR LESS BOTH ARE IMPORTAT IN ALL THE ASPECTS OF LIFE, AND WE ATLEAST ACCEPT THIS PROUDLY. BUT YOU CAN’T, THANKS TO THE MALE EGO).

Lesson No. 3:
Endurance
Well, you’ll never tag us as constant cribbers once you learn this art, which we are quite good at.
Singer Shibani Kashyap says, “They might be physically stronger than us, but when it comes to emotional endurance, men still have a long way to go.”
Mehar Bhasin, says, “Men certainly need to learn the ability to be patient in any situation – be it workplace pressure, ego clashes, selfishness, pride, etc (In fact, These all are the quality of women) Women take longer to react because they know that men are impulsive (If you do not purchase make up things for your wife, immediately she will stop to give you even your dinner - – I WANT TO KNOW, FROM WHERE HAVE YOU GATHERED THIS INFORMATION, IS YOUR WIFE/MOTHER/SISTER LIKE THIS, OR THEY ARE NOT WOMEN..??). She knows how to be patient in all walks of life. Be it a mother waiting for her child’s results, a wife waiting for her husband to apologise (Ya, she will wait untill the husband will himself apologise) for harsh words, or a girlfriend waiting for a commitment – men need that inner patience to deal with trying situations.”

Lesson No. 4:
Respect woman
Guys, you better remember to dish it out otherwise you know where your relationship is heading!
Actress Mahima Choudhary says, “They expect us to respect their clan, while they can’t even respect us. So, this is one lesson men should learn from women, particularly Indian men!” (I am totaly agree, by the way todays women know how to get respect from the men – THANKS TO THE FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE, NOW YOU VALUE US EVEN MORE THAN BEFORE..!!)
**This article is very long, I will comment later.
** I’LL WAIT FOR REST OF YOUR COMMENTS.




AND TO MR. KAPILDEVBAKSHI,

“A WIFE IS A WORRY FOR EVER….” BUT STILL YOU WILL MARRY A NICE LOOKING, HOMELY, WORKING, SMART, AND BLA BLA BLA GIRL……MAY I ASK WHY…?

LIVE IN PEACE AND LET US ALSO LEAD OUR LIVES HAPPILY.

ANYWAYS FOR ALL THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE SO DISTRESSED WITH THE FAIRER SEX, INDIAN GOVT. HAS MADE IT LEGAL, CHOOSE A PARTNER OF YOUR CHOICE, TIME WILL REVEAL LEVEL OF ALL YOUR HAPPINESS SOON.

MAY GOD BLESS ALL, AND PLEASE STOP CRITICISIZING YOUR COUNTERPARTS, WITHOUT THEM YOU YOURSELF KNOW HOW GOOD WILL BE YOUR LIFE. I AM NOBODY TO TELL THIS.


From India, Mumbai
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