HIE ALL DUDES... PLEASE TELL ME SOME INNOVATIVE MEANS OF OVERCOMING HEARTBREAK.....VERY URJENT...PLEASE TREAT THIS AS PRIORITY... :cry: :cry: :cry: regards yours friendly neighbourhood scare_crow
From India, Mumbai
From India, Mumbai
Hi Scarecrow,
How about putting some advertisements on dating sites? One more sure-shot idea: send all of us food coupons for ice cream. The total bill will make you forget your heartbreak. By the way, what happened? Are you serious, or should this post have been in the humor section? If you are serious, reply, and you will get a scientific response to it, like a doctor's advice. 😂🤪
From India, Ahmadabad
How about putting some advertisements on dating sites? One more sure-shot idea: send all of us food coupons for ice cream. The total bill will make you forget your heartbreak. By the way, what happened? Are you serious, or should this post have been in the humor section? If you are serious, reply, and you will get a scientific response to it, like a doctor's advice. 😂🤪
From India, Ahmadabad
Hi Ajmal... Dude,
Serious, yarr... suggest something fast... my signature line says it all:
LOVE FADES... BUT NEVER DIES.... LIKE STARS DISAPPEAR... BUT STILL EXIST.... HOLD THE ONE YOU LOVE WITH ALL YOUR HEART... YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT TOMORROW MIGHT BRING........
What say????
Regards,
scare_crow
From India, Mumbai
Serious, yarr... suggest something fast... my signature line says it all:
LOVE FADES... BUT NEVER DIES.... LIKE STARS DISAPPEAR... BUT STILL EXIST.... HOLD THE ONE YOU LOVE WITH ALL YOUR HEART... YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT TOMORROW MIGHT BRING........
What say????
Regards,
scare_crow
From India, Mumbai
This is really a serious post... no jokes... so if serious, try to practice it; it will definitely help. And don't go finding a new partner very soon; the old one may want to come back to you. Give her some time. All the Best.
Tips for activities you can do alone
* Sweat exercise: Engage in any form of aerobic exercise - such as brisk walking, biking, or running in place - until you work up a healthy sweat.
* Turn on your favorite music and dance, dance, dance - until you work up a sweat.
* Sing in the shower.
* Instead of listening to the radio or talking on your cell phone, roll up the car windows and sing loudly.
* Get a dog or other pet.
* Plant and tend a garden - an herb garden takes up very little space.
* If you are really upset, take a brisk walk and focus exclusively on the physical and emotional sensations you experience in your body. Stay out of your head - no thoughts allowed!
* Rent funny videos or watch funny movies and plays.
* Go to the store and read all the humorous greeting cards.
* Treat yourself to a great cup of coffee - if you take half-decaf and half regular, you can have two cups a day (too much caffeine can bring you down, but one cup is safe enough).
* Let nature bring you up - walk by the ocean or other waterways, hike the hills and forests.
* Draw, paint, or write.
* Avoid foods that zap your energy - for most people, sugar and pasta can be downers.
* Give yourself a hand or foot massage, or go get a back rub or body massage.
* Take a hot bubble bath, with candles and music in the room.
Tips for activities you can do with others
* Strike up conversations with strangers - in line at the market, walking in your neighborhood, at the local park, with someone who calls you on the wrong number, etc.
* Pet the animals or walk dogs at a local animal shelter.
* Become a big brother or sister to a lonely child.
* Turn off your cell phone when having lunch with friends.
* Ask your friends to turn off their cell phones when they are with you.
* Volunteer at a soup kitchen.
* Set up at least three dates with friends or acquaintances at the beginning of each week.
* Take an acting, singing, or dancing class - even if you have no talent whatsoever!
* Avoid people who make you feel bad.
Tips to improve your environment
* Cut and arrange flowers.
* Clean up your room (or start with one small shelf, drawer, or corner).
* Wash your clothes.
* Paint your walls in shades of yellow.
* Try different kinds of music in your home - peppy, mellow, Country, opera, pop, etc.
* Try aromatherapy - use different scents of candles, incense, or oils.
* Rearrange the furniture to create a different feeling in a room.
* Change the lighting - try opening windows or curtains; get full-spectrum light tubes.
From India, Ahmadabad
Tips for activities you can do alone
* Sweat exercise: Engage in any form of aerobic exercise - such as brisk walking, biking, or running in place - until you work up a healthy sweat.
* Turn on your favorite music and dance, dance, dance - until you work up a sweat.
* Sing in the shower.
* Instead of listening to the radio or talking on your cell phone, roll up the car windows and sing loudly.
* Get a dog or other pet.
* Plant and tend a garden - an herb garden takes up very little space.
* If you are really upset, take a brisk walk and focus exclusively on the physical and emotional sensations you experience in your body. Stay out of your head - no thoughts allowed!
* Rent funny videos or watch funny movies and plays.
* Go to the store and read all the humorous greeting cards.
* Treat yourself to a great cup of coffee - if you take half-decaf and half regular, you can have two cups a day (too much caffeine can bring you down, but one cup is safe enough).
* Let nature bring you up - walk by the ocean or other waterways, hike the hills and forests.
* Draw, paint, or write.
* Avoid foods that zap your energy - for most people, sugar and pasta can be downers.
* Give yourself a hand or foot massage, or go get a back rub or body massage.
* Take a hot bubble bath, with candles and music in the room.
Tips for activities you can do with others
* Strike up conversations with strangers - in line at the market, walking in your neighborhood, at the local park, with someone who calls you on the wrong number, etc.
* Pet the animals or walk dogs at a local animal shelter.
* Become a big brother or sister to a lonely child.
* Turn off your cell phone when having lunch with friends.
* Ask your friends to turn off their cell phones when they are with you.
* Volunteer at a soup kitchen.
* Set up at least three dates with friends or acquaintances at the beginning of each week.
* Take an acting, singing, or dancing class - even if you have no talent whatsoever!
* Avoid people who make you feel bad.
Tips to improve your environment
* Cut and arrange flowers.
* Clean up your room (or start with one small shelf, drawer, or corner).
* Wash your clothes.
* Paint your walls in shades of yellow.
* Try different kinds of music in your home - peppy, mellow, Country, opera, pop, etc.
* Try aromatherapy - use different scents of candles, incense, or oils.
* Rearrange the furniture to create a different feeling in a room.
* Change the lighting - try opening windows or curtains; get full-spectrum light tubes.
From India, Ahmadabad
dear ajmal all doorz closed.... shz married... maybe next life...what say... :lol: let me practice ur post first... regards scare_crow
From India, Mumbai
From India, Mumbai
In that case, propose to Aishwarya Rai. Only two things can happen:
1. She will reject the proposal.
2. She will accept the proposal.
In the case of the first, you are no worse, but in the case of the second... Enjoy!
From India, Ahmadabad
1. She will reject the proposal.
2. She will accept the proposal.
In the case of the first, you are no worse, but in the case of the second... Enjoy!
From India, Ahmadabad
i prefer RANI MUKERJEE....THAN ASH... rani is the choosen one...only problem is how do i approach her....any data on that.... what say.. regards scare_crow
From India, Mumbai
From India, Mumbai
Hi,
Dear Vishal, what have you done to yourself... Best of luck for your next effort!
Dear Ajmal,
Thanks. I was closely following this discussion and will use your tips to get quick recovery from fatigue and stress. I know it will work! (You are an expert man; this is a PD if not OD!)
Regards,
Thesysthink
From India, Pune
Dear Vishal, what have you done to yourself... Best of luck for your next effort!
Dear Ajmal,
Thanks. I was closely following this discussion and will use your tips to get quick recovery from fatigue and stress. I know it will work! (You are an expert man; this is a PD if not OD!)
Regards,
Thesysthink
From India, Pune
Hi Thesysthink,
"You are an expert, man. This is a PD if not OD!"
I was not able to understand that. The tips given are to reduce depression but can be used for stress as well. By the way, I go out and have chocolate whenever I feel low. It really helps me.
From India, Ahmadabad
"You are an expert, man. This is a PD if not OD!"
I was not able to understand that. The tips given are to reduce depression but can be used for stress as well. By the way, I go out and have chocolate whenever I feel low. It really helps me.
From India, Ahmadabad
Dear Ajmal,
I read about OD, which stands for Organization Development. I just wanted to convey my appreciation by saying it can indeed be used in PD (Personality Development) or Group Games. Nice reply, please keep posting.
And I am really sorry for Vishal, "the pain of silence traces for my soul, the luminous path across her sorrow." But never mind.
Regards,
Thesysthink
From India, Pune
I read about OD, which stands for Organization Development. I just wanted to convey my appreciation by saying it can indeed be used in PD (Personality Development) or Group Games. Nice reply, please keep posting.
And I am really sorry for Vishal, "the pain of silence traces for my soul, the luminous path across her sorrow." But never mind.
Regards,
Thesysthink
From India, Pune
Hi Dips
Bad Luck... Vishal is into Rani Mukherjee......
Hi Vishal
One good news... one bad.....
First the good news, I found address of Rani Mukherjee [Magic of Google]
BIO-DATA:
Name Rani Mukherjee
Address B/405,
Shakti Apartments,
Kalyani Complex,
Yari Road,
Versova,
Mumbai - 400 061
Date of Birth 21st March 1978
Nationality Indian
Profession Actress, Model
Family Cousin to Kajol(Actress)
Favourite hangouts My bedroom and my friend’s place.
Favourtie car The Opel Astra I bought with my hard earned money.
Life’s fundas Sincerity and hard work. They’ll take you a long way.
Favourite holiday spot Europe.
First film Raja Ki Aayegi Baraat
Rani Mukherjee's films list
Filmography
Film.......... Co-Stars ..........Director
Bichhoo ..........Bobby Deol ..........Ashok Gaikwad
Kahi Pyar Na Ho Jaye ..........Salman Khan ---
Chalo Isqh Ladayen ..........Govinda,Mink ---
Hadh Kar Di Aapne ..........Govinda,Ritu Shivpuri Manoj Agrawal
Har Dil Jo Pyar Karenga ..........Salman Khan, Kaishma Kapoor ---
Hello Brother ..........Salman Khan ---
Josh Shah Rukh Khan, ..........Aishwarya Rai Yash Chopra, Mansoor Khan
Hey Ram ..........Kamalhasan Kamalhasan
Mulaqat ..........Akshay Kumar ---
Pyar Deewana Hota Hai ..........Govinda ---
Mann ..........Amir Khan Indra Kumar
Badal ..........Bobby Deol Raj Kanwar
Yeh Rasta Hai Kyar Ka ..........Madhuri Dixit, Ajay Devgan ---
Ghulam ..........Aamir Khan Vikram Bhatt
Kuch Kuch Hota Hai ..........Shah Rukh Khan, Kajol Karan Johar
Mehendi ..........Faraaz Khan, Himani Shivpuri Hamid Ali Khan
Raja Ki Aayegi Baaraat ..........Shadaab Khan Ashok Gaikwad
Ab Tujhe Palkon Mein Chupa Lo ..........Salman Khan ---
Bus Itan Sa Khawab Hai ..........Abhishek Bachchan,Sushmitha Sen Shrishti Behl
Chori Chori Chupke Chupke ..........Salmaan Khan,Preity Zinta ---
Dekha Jaayega ..........Chandrachur Singh ---
Tumko Meri Kasam ..........Anil Kapoor ---
Yudh - The War ..........Govinda ---
_________________
Now the Bad News... You have competition.....
Page 3 rumours say "Abhishek and Rani are very much into each other"
So you will have to fight quite a tough competitor
Best of Luck :D
From India, Ahmadabad
Bad Luck... Vishal is into Rani Mukherjee......
Hi Vishal
One good news... one bad.....
First the good news, I found address of Rani Mukherjee [Magic of Google]
BIO-DATA:
Name Rani Mukherjee
Address B/405,
Shakti Apartments,
Kalyani Complex,
Yari Road,
Versova,
Mumbai - 400 061
Date of Birth 21st March 1978
Nationality Indian
Profession Actress, Model
Family Cousin to Kajol(Actress)
Favourite hangouts My bedroom and my friend’s place.
Favourtie car The Opel Astra I bought with my hard earned money.
Life’s fundas Sincerity and hard work. They’ll take you a long way.
Favourite holiday spot Europe.
First film Raja Ki Aayegi Baraat
Rani Mukherjee's films list
Filmography
Film.......... Co-Stars ..........Director
Bichhoo ..........Bobby Deol ..........Ashok Gaikwad
Kahi Pyar Na Ho Jaye ..........Salman Khan ---
Chalo Isqh Ladayen ..........Govinda,Mink ---
Hadh Kar Di Aapne ..........Govinda,Ritu Shivpuri Manoj Agrawal
Har Dil Jo Pyar Karenga ..........Salman Khan, Kaishma Kapoor ---
Hello Brother ..........Salman Khan ---
Josh Shah Rukh Khan, ..........Aishwarya Rai Yash Chopra, Mansoor Khan
Hey Ram ..........Kamalhasan Kamalhasan
Mulaqat ..........Akshay Kumar ---
Pyar Deewana Hota Hai ..........Govinda ---
Mann ..........Amir Khan Indra Kumar
Badal ..........Bobby Deol Raj Kanwar
Yeh Rasta Hai Kyar Ka ..........Madhuri Dixit, Ajay Devgan ---
Ghulam ..........Aamir Khan Vikram Bhatt
Kuch Kuch Hota Hai ..........Shah Rukh Khan, Kajol Karan Johar
Mehendi ..........Faraaz Khan, Himani Shivpuri Hamid Ali Khan
Raja Ki Aayegi Baaraat ..........Shadaab Khan Ashok Gaikwad
Ab Tujhe Palkon Mein Chupa Lo ..........Salman Khan ---
Bus Itan Sa Khawab Hai ..........Abhishek Bachchan,Sushmitha Sen Shrishti Behl
Chori Chori Chupke Chupke ..........Salmaan Khan,Preity Zinta ---
Dekha Jaayega ..........Chandrachur Singh ---
Tumko Meri Kasam ..........Anil Kapoor ---
Yudh - The War ..........Govinda ---
_________________
Now the Bad News... You have competition.....
Page 3 rumours say "Abhishek and Rani are very much into each other"
So you will have to fight quite a tough competitor
Best of Luck :D
From India, Ahmadabad
Hey Vishal, is Dips correct?
If it's true: Please remember, you will meet her once in your lifetime, with whom you can trust, share, care, fight, sit together having looooong chats, go on long drives, have ice creams, etc. Till then, try considering the wrong ones! :D
If false: Try challenging a Martial Art black belt, the more skilled the person, the better. Fight a duel, and you won't be in a position to be depressed! :shock:
Regards,
Thesysthink
From India, Pune
If it's true: Please remember, you will meet her once in your lifetime, with whom you can trust, share, care, fight, sit together having looooong chats, go on long drives, have ice creams, etc. Till then, try considering the wrong ones! :D
If false: Try challenging a Martial Art black belt, the more skilled the person, the better. Fight a duel, and you won't be in a position to be depressed! :shock:
Regards,
Thesysthink
From India, Pune
:D Hey Ajmal .. My workplace is very near to that of Yari Road, Versova .. I won’t mind being a messenger for Vishal :wink: .. (just give me bodyguards) .. Regards, Thesysthink
From India, Pune
From India, Pune
One of my favorite love songs by John Mayer:
"A Love Song for No One"
Staying home alone on a Friday, flat on the floor looking back on old love or lack thereof. After all the crushes have faded and all my wishful thinking was wrong, I'm jaded. I hate it. I'm tired of being alone, so hurry up and get here. So tired of being alone,
From India, Gurgaon
"A Love Song for No One"
Staying home alone on a Friday, flat on the floor looking back on old love or lack thereof. After all the crushes have faded and all my wishful thinking was wrong, I'm jaded. I hate it. I'm tired of being alone, so hurry up and get here. So tired of being alone,
From India, Gurgaon
Thanks CHR,
I got this one (forwarded to me by a friend) ..
You can lock me up
And throw away the key,
You can cover my eyes
So I cannot see
You can order me around
And tell me how to walk,
You can tell me to shut up
You can tell me not to talk
You can say that I was an accident
That I wasn’t meant to be,
You can take away my possessions
Till all I have left is me
You can tell me that life
Isn’t as it seems,
You can take all this from me
But I’ve still got my Dreams
.. Just because you can not see me,
Doesn't mean that I'm not there
Always by your side I'll be,
Through laughter and through tear
Just because the smell of me
Has begun to fade away,
Doesn't mean you'll never breath
My sweetness in again,
Forever this will be,
Forever it has been
Just because you lay alone,
Me absent from your side,
Doesn't mean I've left your dreams,
As you sleep into the night.
I come with whispered words of comfort
To help your fears subside
My love gently rocks you,
From darkness into light ..
From India, Pune
I got this one (forwarded to me by a friend) ..
You can lock me up
And throw away the key,
You can cover my eyes
So I cannot see
You can order me around
And tell me how to walk,
You can tell me to shut up
You can tell me not to talk
You can say that I was an accident
That I wasn’t meant to be,
You can take away my possessions
Till all I have left is me
You can tell me that life
Isn’t as it seems,
You can take all this from me
But I’ve still got my Dreams
.. Just because you can not see me,
Doesn't mean that I'm not there
Always by your side I'll be,
Through laughter and through tear
Just because the smell of me
Has begun to fade away,
Doesn't mean you'll never breath
My sweetness in again,
Forever this will be,
Forever it has been
Just because you lay alone,
Me absent from your side,
Doesn't mean I've left your dreams,
As you sleep into the night.
I come with whispered words of comfort
To help your fears subside
My love gently rocks you,
From darkness into light ..
From India, Pune
Hi Scarecrow,
You sound serious. Forget this lady. Believe me - there's so much love in the world. Don't waste time crying over someone who's already found someone else. Move on and create another life. Remember, life is for living every moment.
May all the broken hearts mend.
Peace,
Maliha
From India, Ghaziabad
You sound serious. Forget this lady. Believe me - there's so much love in the world. Don't waste time crying over someone who's already found someone else. Move on and create another life. Remember, life is for living every moment.
May all the broken hearts mend.
Peace,
Maliha
From India, Ghaziabad
Dear AJMAL/THESYSTHINK/DIPS/CHR/MALIHA (ALL YOU LOVELY DUDES :icon12: :icon12: :icon12:) :lol:
I AM VERY HAPPY FOR ALL THE SUPPORT IN TERMS OF POEMS, INFO & COMMENTS POSTED BY ALL YOU DUDES... CITEHR-DUDES ARE THE FIRST ONES TO KNOW ABOUT MY HEARTBREAK.... ALL THE OTHER DUDES IN THE LOOP STILL DON'T KNOW.... YESTERDAY NIGHT WAS PATHETIC & HARD TO BIDE.... FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE I EXPERIENCED REAL PAIN... EVEN THOUGH I WAS NOT HURT PHYSICALLY..... I HOPE THIS PAIN WOULD GO AWAY SOMEHOW.... THAT IS IF I GET RANI MUKERJEE....
THIS GOES TO MY ONCE-UPON-A-TIME LOVE:
SIRF YAADON KA SILSILA REH GAYA.....
KHUDA JAANE UNSE HAMARA KYA RISHTA REH GAYA....
EK CHAND CHHUP GAYA JAANE KAHAN...
EK SITARA USE DHOONDTA REH GAYA......
THIS IS FOR ALL THOSE WHO PLAN TO FALL IN LOVE:
RAAT HOGI TO CHAND BHI DIKHAI DEGA
KHABON MEIN TUMHE WOH CHEHRA DIKHAI DEGA
YEH MOHHABAT HAI YAARON... ZARA SOCH KE KARNA...
EK AANSU BHI GIRA TO SUNAI DEGA
LOVE YOU ALL, STAY IN THE LOOP...
Regards,
Your friendly neighborhood,
scare_crow 8)
From India, Mumbai
I AM VERY HAPPY FOR ALL THE SUPPORT IN TERMS OF POEMS, INFO & COMMENTS POSTED BY ALL YOU DUDES... CITEHR-DUDES ARE THE FIRST ONES TO KNOW ABOUT MY HEARTBREAK.... ALL THE OTHER DUDES IN THE LOOP STILL DON'T KNOW.... YESTERDAY NIGHT WAS PATHETIC & HARD TO BIDE.... FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE I EXPERIENCED REAL PAIN... EVEN THOUGH I WAS NOT HURT PHYSICALLY..... I HOPE THIS PAIN WOULD GO AWAY SOMEHOW.... THAT IS IF I GET RANI MUKERJEE....
THIS GOES TO MY ONCE-UPON-A-TIME LOVE:
SIRF YAADON KA SILSILA REH GAYA.....
KHUDA JAANE UNSE HAMARA KYA RISHTA REH GAYA....
EK CHAND CHHUP GAYA JAANE KAHAN...
EK SITARA USE DHOONDTA REH GAYA......
THIS IS FOR ALL THOSE WHO PLAN TO FALL IN LOVE:
RAAT HOGI TO CHAND BHI DIKHAI DEGA
KHABON MEIN TUMHE WOH CHEHRA DIKHAI DEGA
YEH MOHHABAT HAI YAARON... ZARA SOCH KE KARNA...
EK AANSU BHI GIRA TO SUNAI DEGA
LOVE YOU ALL, STAY IN THE LOOP...
Regards,
Your friendly neighborhood,
scare_crow 8)
From India, Mumbai
hi vishal,
found this peom on a site. it may provide a source of motivation to u.
Reena
BIGGEST MISTAKE
I thought you liked me, I thought you cared.
I've just been wasting time, wishing u were here and there...
You drove me crazy, made everything around me hazy.
But now I've come to realize, everything you said was lie
What makes you think you can treat me this way?
You act like you like me, you swear you'll stay.
But don't worry; I'm way past moving on.
The feelings that I had for you, are fading - almost completely gone.
Those days I used to talk about you, constantly; nonstop.
And how my eyes ran dry, till the very last teardrop.
I used to listen close when the conversations mentioned your name.
Even though it was just how you scored points at the basketball game.
Now I don't care anymore, I’m almost over you.
I've mended my heart to 1 piece, instead of two.
I can't love you anymore... this is more than I can take...
Now I move on just thinking that you were my biggest mistake!!!
From India, Mumbai
found this peom on a site. it may provide a source of motivation to u.
Reena
BIGGEST MISTAKE
I thought you liked me, I thought you cared.
I've just been wasting time, wishing u were here and there...
You drove me crazy, made everything around me hazy.
But now I've come to realize, everything you said was lie
What makes you think you can treat me this way?
You act like you like me, you swear you'll stay.
But don't worry; I'm way past moving on.
The feelings that I had for you, are fading - almost completely gone.
Those days I used to talk about you, constantly; nonstop.
And how my eyes ran dry, till the very last teardrop.
I used to listen close when the conversations mentioned your name.
Even though it was just how you scored points at the basketball game.
Now I don't care anymore, I’m almost over you.
I've mended my heart to 1 piece, instead of two.
I can't love you anymore... this is more than I can take...
Now I move on just thinking that you were my biggest mistake!!!
From India, Mumbai
Hey Vishal,
How about singing her this song... At least she will feel guilty of her conduct 😈
Careless Whispers
Time can never mend the careless whispers of a good friend
To the heart and mind, ignorance is kind
There's no comfort in the truth, pain is all you'll find
Should've known better
I feel so unsure as I take your hand and lead
From India, Ahmadabad
How about singing her this song... At least she will feel guilty of her conduct 😈
Careless Whispers
Time can never mend the careless whispers of a good friend
To the heart and mind, ignorance is kind
There's no comfort in the truth, pain is all you'll find
Should've known better
I feel so unsure as I take your hand and lead
From India, Ahmadabad
Hi Scarecrow,
I don't know how I missed this post. How are you doing now? Well, my theory is "it will happen if it is meant to be." Give all your efforts to make it happen, give it your 101%, and pray. But if it doesn't happen, chuck it and move on. There are so many doors that open when one door closes, but we stare at the closed one for so long that we miss the other opportunities. MOVE ON. Haven't you heard: buses, trains, and gals... don't run behind them. If one leaves, the second one will come your way. Chill, have fun until then. Spend some time alone for a while, organize your thoughts. Do let us know what's up.
From India, Mumbai
I don't know how I missed this post. How are you doing now? Well, my theory is "it will happen if it is meant to be." Give all your efforts to make it happen, give it your 101%, and pray. But if it doesn't happen, chuck it and move on. There are so many doors that open when one door closes, but we stare at the closed one for so long that we miss the other opportunities. MOVE ON. Haven't you heard: buses, trains, and gals... don't run behind them. If one leaves, the second one will come your way. Chill, have fun until then. Spend some time alone for a while, organize your thoughts. Do let us know what's up.
From India, Mumbai
Hi,
Cheer up! 😊 Life has lots of colors. Go out and explore it. Going by what Aamir Khan said in the movie Ishq - "Life mein do cheezo ke peeche kabhi nahin jaana chahiye; bus aur chokri. Ek gayi toh doosri aayegi, doosri gayi toh teesri aayegi..."
Probably, she was not worth it. What do you say?
Regards,
Soumya Shankar
From India, Bangalore
Cheer up! 😊 Life has lots of colors. Go out and explore it. Going by what Aamir Khan said in the movie Ishq - "Life mein do cheezo ke peeche kabhi nahin jaana chahiye; bus aur chokri. Ek gayi toh doosri aayegi, doosri gayi toh teesri aayegi..."
Probably, she was not worth it. What do you say?
Regards,
Soumya Shankar
From India, Bangalore
Dear Soms, 😂
She was more than worth to me. I hope I get her in the next life. Let's see. Though I have moved on in life, sometimes I get haunted by the memories. But I know time is a big healer. Thanks for showing concern. I am grateful for that.
Regards,
Scare_crow 8)
From India, Mumbai
She was more than worth to me. I hope I get her in the next life. Let's see. Though I have moved on in life, sometimes I get haunted by the memories. But I know time is a big healer. Thanks for showing concern. I am grateful for that.
Regards,
Scare_crow 8)
From India, Mumbai
Hey,
Since almost everyone posted a song, here's one:
Love is on the way (make this your motto and get over it already).
Don't you know... if you stand sulking at a closed door, you're missing out on the other doors opening?
Waking up alone in a room that still reminds me
My heart has got to learn to forget
Starting on my own
With every breath, I'm getting stronger
This is not the time for regret
'Cause
From India, Mumbai
Since almost everyone posted a song, here's one:
Love is on the way (make this your motto and get over it already).
Don't you know... if you stand sulking at a closed door, you're missing out on the other doors opening?
Waking up alone in a room that still reminds me
My heart has got to learn to forget
Starting on my own
With every breath, I'm getting stronger
This is not the time for regret
'Cause
From India, Mumbai
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance, and you find out you still care for the person!
"LOVE IS...!"
LOVE IS WHEN you wake up, she is already on your mind. LOVE IS WHEN you lost your heart, she is all that you can find. LOVE IS WHEN you want to be the one to dry her eyes. LOVE IS WHEN you see the truth in every one of her lies. LOVE IS WHEN you want to listen to all her whims and woes, LOVE IS WHEN you want her to take care everywhere she goes. LOVE IS WHEN she calls you, your heart goes a flutter..... LOVE IS WHEN you see her: "I LOVE HER", you silently shutter. LOVE IS WHEN you tell the world that you love her so. LOVE IS WHEN you have told the world but "SHE" does not know.
LOVE IS WHEN your eyes light up when you see her there... LOVE IS ALSO WHEN you hear your heart breaks when she held hands with "you". LOVE IS ALSO WHEN you crumbled inside when they say it will LAST FOREVER. LOVE IS ALSO WHEN you cry inside yet smile outside when they say "HI" to you. LOVE IS ALSO WHEN you held your breath & said: "How do you do..?"
LOVE IS ALSO WHEN you let her go... you know she is happy now. LOVE IS ALSO WHEN you know you will get over her somehow. LOVE IS ALSO WHEN her happiness is what matters to you. LOVE IS ALSO WHEN you let her love him... and not love you true. LOVE IS WHEN you will still love her and still she will never know... LOVE IS WHEN you will swallow the pain and slowly let go... yet... love is a funny thing...
LOVE IS WHEN you smile when you hear it's "her and her" no more. LOVE IS WHEN you hear she sent him through the door. LOVE IS WHEN you try to "BUMP" into her again... LOVE IS WHEN she will say "HI" to you and there is no more pain. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when she says she loves you too. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when her life revolves around you. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when she says, she has always loved you but she didn't dare. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when she says, she always loved you but thought you didn't care. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when now it's all coming true. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when you love her and she loves you...!
LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when now your life is nearly complete. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when every day it's her you meet. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when your friends accept her too. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when you can have time for them and her and you. LOVE is a combination of many splendid things... and a really complex feeling.
From India, Mumbai
"LOVE IS...!"
LOVE IS WHEN you wake up, she is already on your mind. LOVE IS WHEN you lost your heart, she is all that you can find. LOVE IS WHEN you want to be the one to dry her eyes. LOVE IS WHEN you see the truth in every one of her lies. LOVE IS WHEN you want to listen to all her whims and woes, LOVE IS WHEN you want her to take care everywhere she goes. LOVE IS WHEN she calls you, your heart goes a flutter..... LOVE IS WHEN you see her: "I LOVE HER", you silently shutter. LOVE IS WHEN you tell the world that you love her so. LOVE IS WHEN you have told the world but "SHE" does not know.
LOVE IS WHEN your eyes light up when you see her there... LOVE IS ALSO WHEN you hear your heart breaks when she held hands with "you". LOVE IS ALSO WHEN you crumbled inside when they say it will LAST FOREVER. LOVE IS ALSO WHEN you cry inside yet smile outside when they say "HI" to you. LOVE IS ALSO WHEN you held your breath & said: "How do you do..?"
LOVE IS ALSO WHEN you let her go... you know she is happy now. LOVE IS ALSO WHEN you know you will get over her somehow. LOVE IS ALSO WHEN her happiness is what matters to you. LOVE IS ALSO WHEN you let her love him... and not love you true. LOVE IS WHEN you will still love her and still she will never know... LOVE IS WHEN you will swallow the pain and slowly let go... yet... love is a funny thing...
LOVE IS WHEN you smile when you hear it's "her and her" no more. LOVE IS WHEN you hear she sent him through the door. LOVE IS WHEN you try to "BUMP" into her again... LOVE IS WHEN she will say "HI" to you and there is no more pain. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when she says she loves you too. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when her life revolves around you. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when she says, she has always loved you but she didn't dare. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when she says, she always loved you but thought you didn't care. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when now it's all coming true. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when you love her and she loves you...!
LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when now your life is nearly complete. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when every day it's her you meet. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when your friends accept her too. LOVE IS SUDDENLY REAL LOVE when you can have time for them and her and you. LOVE is a combination of many splendid things... and a really complex feeling.
From India, Mumbai
Scarecrow
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Karunadas
From Oman, Muscat
Here are some engineering ideas. Take Araldite compound, mix hardener and resin in a 1:1 combination, beat it for a minute until the mix turns milky white, then apply with an applicator. Keep the broken piece for 24 hours and observe the result. You can also try using M Seal as an alternative remedy.
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Karunadas
From Oman, Muscat
Hi Scarecrow,
I really missed your post, maybe because I too am experiencing heartbreak. In my case, it's interesting that after all is said and done, we both loved each other. Now she called and told me that she wants to be a good friend of mine. The reason she gives is that her friends say I am too career-oriented. What do you think I should reply to her? I gave her a smile and resumed my life. I thought it would be easy to divert my thoughts, but it didn't help. Sometimes, certain events and past memories will always haunt.
What she didn't understand is how can a final year MBA student not be more inclined towards his career. I never said that my career is more important than her or my family, but still, at this point in life, I feel it is very important. I don't know whether she didn't understand or what, but still... After a long two-year relationship, my first one, ended last Friday where I was not even able to see her departure. I am really sorry to post this. I know this is a forum where we discuss and interchange knowledge and not emotions, but still, I never told this to anyone. When I keep it within me, it's burning inside, so that is why I outpoured. Sorry, sorry.
Sachu
(Hey, the PD post was really good. I am trying and practicing it.)
From India, New Delhi
I really missed your post, maybe because I too am experiencing heartbreak. In my case, it's interesting that after all is said and done, we both loved each other. Now she called and told me that she wants to be a good friend of mine. The reason she gives is that her friends say I am too career-oriented. What do you think I should reply to her? I gave her a smile and resumed my life. I thought it would be easy to divert my thoughts, but it didn't help. Sometimes, certain events and past memories will always haunt.
What she didn't understand is how can a final year MBA student not be more inclined towards his career. I never said that my career is more important than her or my family, but still, at this point in life, I feel it is very important. I don't know whether she didn't understand or what, but still... After a long two-year relationship, my first one, ended last Friday where I was not even able to see her departure. I am really sorry to post this. I know this is a forum where we discuss and interchange knowledge and not emotions, but still, I never told this to anyone. When I keep it within me, it's burning inside, so that is why I outpoured. Sorry, sorry.
Sachu
(Hey, the PD post was really good. I am trying and practicing it.)
From India, New Delhi
DEAR SACHU... i have very few words to say....but just understand that time is a big healer....if shz happy, then you should be happy...love is all about sacrifice..... regards scare_crow
From India, Mumbai
From India, Mumbai
So I think we are here:
1. High-velocity cases respond to no therapy.
2. Time is the best healer, if at all.
3. Time is the best teacher too, who neither charges a fee nor takes guru dakshina.
Regards
From India, Delhi
1. High-velocity cases respond to no therapy.
2. Time is the best healer, if at all.
3. Time is the best teacher too, who neither charges a fee nor takes guru dakshina.
Regards
From India, Delhi
Hi Pallavi,
I think keeping yourself busy is the best way to cope with this situation. I believe that if you have had the strength to make the decision of letting her go, you have proven that you have enough love for her and strength, which few possess. So I am sure you will pull through this phase of your life too.
I am in a similar problem. I don't want to fight my family, and I don't want to let my love go. At least you did not have to make the terrible decision; you were just told the decision! I need to be very strong to make any decision, on any side. Please pray for me!
Regards,
Pallavi
From India, Pune
I think keeping yourself busy is the best way to cope with this situation. I believe that if you have had the strength to make the decision of letting her go, you have proven that you have enough love for her and strength, which few possess. So I am sure you will pull through this phase of your life too.
I am in a similar problem. I don't want to fight my family, and I don't want to let my love go. At least you did not have to make the terrible decision; you were just told the decision! I need to be very strong to make any decision, on any side. Please pray for me!
Regards,
Pallavi
From India, Pune
Dear Swatiji and Pallaviji, Namaskar. High velocity cases respond to no therapy. Am I right? regards, jogeshwar
From India, Delhi
From India, Delhi
Hi,
I feel laws and rules do not apply to heartbreaks. Heartbreaks are really unpredictable; sometimes they make you alright, and sometimes they can break you totally. So, depending on the situation, the result can be seen. And this is not something like an exception to the rule or law; there is no rule... all cases are unique!
Cheers, Pallavi
From India, Pune
I feel laws and rules do not apply to heartbreaks. Heartbreaks are really unpredictable; sometimes they make you alright, and sometimes they can break you totally. So, depending on the situation, the result can be seen. And this is not something like an exception to the rule or law; there is no rule... all cases are unique!
Cheers, Pallavi
From India, Pune
In cosmos everything is governed by laws. Whether or not we know those laws is a different matter. Not seeing law in nature is a state of mind. regards, jogeshwar
From India, Delhi
From India, Delhi
Hi,
Yes, I agree there are laws, but these laws are known to no one, so how can anyone say that this law applies to a particular situation or not. In physics and chemistry, I can still accept the presence and existence of laws, but in life, definitely not! I guess I am in a state of denial and am saying stuff contrary to what everyone seems to say, but I am in a situation that forces me to say this. All that I have seen in recent times in my life tells me that "life is a mystery, everyone must stand alone," so no laws exist when you are in a mystery and no friends when you are alone!
I am really sorry that I always say stuff that is sad, grim, and gray. I guess I should take a break and come back when I have happy things to say!
By the way, this site has really helped me a lot! I have never been so truthful to myself or to others ever! Thanks to all the people here!
Regards,
Pallavi
From India, Pune
Yes, I agree there are laws, but these laws are known to no one, so how can anyone say that this law applies to a particular situation or not. In physics and chemistry, I can still accept the presence and existence of laws, but in life, definitely not! I guess I am in a state of denial and am saying stuff contrary to what everyone seems to say, but I am in a situation that forces me to say this. All that I have seen in recent times in my life tells me that "life is a mystery, everyone must stand alone," so no laws exist when you are in a mystery and no friends when you are alone!
I am really sorry that I always say stuff that is sad, grim, and gray. I guess I should take a break and come back when I have happy things to say!
By the way, this site has really helped me a lot! I have never been so truthful to myself or to others ever! Thanks to all the people here!
Regards,
Pallavi
From India, Pune
Hi Scarecrow,
Sorry to have missed your post for so long. Better late than never... Here are my inputs to the situation:
"Heartbreaks are a Unique Learning Experience in Life!! They test you Emotionally and Mentally!!"
You not only need to cope with them but also need to learn from them. I know it is never easy (or for that matter possible) to learn when you are in a disturbed state of mind, but I guess I can still suggest something to you that can really help you. Some efforts will be required on your behalf.
And yes, besides the learning part, it's more of therapy! You may call it "shoOOonya therapy." Try it!
A suggestion before the therapy - catch a close friend! See if you can catch hold of a close friend with whom you can talk. Someone who can understand you and listen to you for long. Talk your heart out to him/her. A heart-to-heart talk is often a great therapy in itself.
Coming to shoOOonya's Therapy - start a diary!
Yes, I am actually asking you to write/type a diary! This will be your own personal memoir/record of your very deep personal feelings. Make it a point to write down your heart into the diary. Speak to the diary as you would have spoken to yourself or your friend in whom you could confide.
This diary will play the role of your 'friend' right now and in the future. Over a period of time, as you slowly migrate out of your depression/heartbreak, the diary will provide you with precious insights into life and your own personality. It will be a great thing for you to read.
Remember, it is meant to be your personal diary and it should be for your eyes only. This is to ensure that you can truly, completely, and honestly pour your heart into it.
I am not sure if I have been able to communicate clearly to you the intent of the diary or its overall significance. In case the idea appeals to you and you want to know more about this further, you can contact me at shoOOonya@gmail.com, and we could take the discussion further offline via email or phone.
Take care, and yes, keep smiling. (It might be difficult, but not impossible).
...shoOOonya...
I read impossible as I'm Possible!!
From Switzerland, Geneva
Sorry to have missed your post for so long. Better late than never... Here are my inputs to the situation:
"Heartbreaks are a Unique Learning Experience in Life!! They test you Emotionally and Mentally!!"
You not only need to cope with them but also need to learn from them. I know it is never easy (or for that matter possible) to learn when you are in a disturbed state of mind, but I guess I can still suggest something to you that can really help you. Some efforts will be required on your behalf.
And yes, besides the learning part, it's more of therapy! You may call it "shoOOonya therapy." Try it!
A suggestion before the therapy - catch a close friend! See if you can catch hold of a close friend with whom you can talk. Someone who can understand you and listen to you for long. Talk your heart out to him/her. A heart-to-heart talk is often a great therapy in itself.
Coming to shoOOonya's Therapy - start a diary!
Yes, I am actually asking you to write/type a diary! This will be your own personal memoir/record of your very deep personal feelings. Make it a point to write down your heart into the diary. Speak to the diary as you would have spoken to yourself or your friend in whom you could confide.
This diary will play the role of your 'friend' right now and in the future. Over a period of time, as you slowly migrate out of your depression/heartbreak, the diary will provide you with precious insights into life and your own personality. It will be a great thing for you to read.
Remember, it is meant to be your personal diary and it should be for your eyes only. This is to ensure that you can truly, completely, and honestly pour your heart into it.
I am not sure if I have been able to communicate clearly to you the intent of the diary or its overall significance. In case the idea appeals to you and you want to know more about this further, you can contact me at shoOOonya@gmail.com, and we could take the discussion further offline via email or phone.
Take care, and yes, keep smiling. (It might be difficult, but not impossible).
...shoOOonya...
I read impossible as I'm Possible!!
From Switzerland, Geneva
dear shoonya, i have sent you a personalised mail through your my official id. waitin for some insights from your side...... reagrds scare_crow
From India, Mumbai
From India, Mumbai
A poetry piece which touched me
Quote:
I will arise and go now, and go to Innisfree,
And a small cabin built there, of clay and wattles made:
Nine bean-rows will I have there, a hive for the honeybee,
And live alone in the bee-loud glade.
And I shall have some peace there, for peace comes dropping slow,
Dropping from the veils of the morning to where the cricket sings;
There midnight’s all a glimmer, and noon a purple glow,
And evening full of the linnet’s wings.
I will arise and go now, for always night and day
I hear lake water lapping with low sounds by the shore;
While I stand on the roadway, or on the pavements grey,
I hear it in the deep heart’s core.
Unquote
From India, Madras
Quote:
I will arise and go now, and go to Innisfree,
And a small cabin built there, of clay and wattles made:
Nine bean-rows will I have there, a hive for the honeybee,
And live alone in the bee-loud glade.
And I shall have some peace there, for peace comes dropping slow,
Dropping from the veils of the morning to where the cricket sings;
There midnight’s all a glimmer, and noon a purple glow,
And evening full of the linnet’s wings.
I will arise and go now, for always night and day
I hear lake water lapping with low sounds by the shore;
While I stand on the roadway, or on the pavements grey,
I hear it in the deep heart’s core.
Unquote
From India, Madras
Hi Vishal,
I kind of agree with the diary idea. It's a way of venting your feelings. I like writing in my diary. I religiously write in my diary. If every day isn't possible, I make time for it on alternate days.
Think about it, ok - 20 years from now, feeling low, you can read it. Remember so many lost memories...wonder if you could redo those things, smile with joy. Sounds good, right? For this, you have to start writing :P
Have fun and do let us know what's up.
From India, Mumbai
I kind of agree with the diary idea. It's a way of venting your feelings. I like writing in my diary. I religiously write in my diary. If every day isn't possible, I make time for it on alternate days.
Think about it, ok - 20 years from now, feeling low, you can read it. Remember so many lost memories...wonder if you could redo those things, smile with joy. Sounds good, right? For this, you have to start writing :P
Have fun and do let us know what's up.
From India, Mumbai
Hi Sunaina,
Till the day I saw Shoonyaz's post and his personalized mail, I used to think that psychos write diaries. But now I am thinking of starting this soon. Let me see how successful I will be with that. Let's hope for the best.
Regards,
Scarecrow
From India, Mumbai
Till the day I saw Shoonyaz's post and his personalized mail, I used to think that psychos write diaries. But now I am thinking of starting this soon. Let me see how successful I will be with that. Let's hope for the best.
Regards,
Scarecrow
From India, Mumbai
Namaskar.
Interested viewers may like to go through today's The Tribune, September 21, 2005, page 15 to read an article "The 'broken heart' syndrome" authored by Dr. Harinder Singh Bedi, former senior consultant of Escorts Heart Institute.
Regards
From India, Delhi
Interested viewers may like to go through today's The Tribune, September 21, 2005, page 15 to read an article "The 'broken heart' syndrome" authored by Dr. Harinder Singh Bedi, former senior consultant of Escorts Heart Institute.
Regards
From India, Delhi
dear sir... please refer to the origin of the topic...before posing the info.... regards scare_crow
From India, Mumbai
From India, Mumbai
Namaskar.
Syndrome connotes a conglomeration of symptoms. Whether it is "heartbreak" or "broken heart," the core symptom is the feeling of the loss of social support. Dil toot jana. I think the rest too match. Any difference, please?
Regards
From India, Delhi
Syndrome connotes a conglomeration of symptoms. Whether it is "heartbreak" or "broken heart," the core symptom is the feeling of the loss of social support. Dil toot jana. I think the rest too match. Any difference, please?
Regards
From India, Delhi
Namaskar Dr, Apt answer. But can you put what is written in Tribune since I can’t get that newspaper here! bala
From India, Madras
From India, Madras
Namaskar, Dr.
Apt answer. But can you put what is written in Tribune since I can't get that newspaper here!
bala
Thank you, Balaji. My steno is not with me now. Let him return, and I shall get it typed, put on a floppy, and then I can post it. This is a very learned article.
But there is one problem. You can see the citehr instruction below. The whole article cannot be posted. What to do, please suggest.
Regards
From India, Delhi
Apt answer. But can you put what is written in Tribune since I can't get that newspaper here!
bala
Thank you, Balaji. My steno is not with me now. Let him return, and I shall get it typed, put on a floppy, and then I can post it. This is a very learned article.
But there is one problem. You can see the citehr instruction below. The whole article cannot be posted. What to do, please suggest.
Regards
From India, Delhi
I do not think exeptionally we can infringe copy right. Let us think of alternatives. regards
From India, Delhi
From India, Delhi
Till date, I have not understood what Dr. Jogeshwar Mahanta posts... guys, please help me out.
Regards,
Scare_crow
From India, Mumbai
Regards,
Scare_crow
From India, Mumbai
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