Dear member,
The senior member, Mr. Madhu TK, has provided two replies, both from a legal standpoint. My response is oriented towards your career perspective. I may not have all the details of the incident, but my interpretation is based on your post.
Understanding Managerial Pressure
Managers often operate under pressure, and at times, they may inadvertently pass down their frustrations. While this behavior is not ideal, it can occasionally occur. In such situations, it would have been beneficial if you could have filtered out your manager's emotions and grasped the underlying message in her communication. However, it seems that you reacted with equal intensity, and now, in a moment of frustration, you are contemplating leaving your job.
Career Advancement Considerations
While finding another job is a possibility, for career advancement, it is advisable not to make decisions impulsively in moments of annoyance. As junior employees, making certain compromises is necessary. Adopting a combative stance does not lead to constructive outcomes but rather impedes our progress.
Following this incident, continuing in the same company may prove challenging. Nevertheless, I suggest delving into literature on interpersonal skills, conflict management, etc., and reflecting on the event. Consider if there could have been a better approach to handling the situation. In connection to this incident, let me share a renowned quote from Herodotus: "force has no place where there is need of skill."
General Comments
The incident aptly demonstrates how a negative interpersonal environment within a company can affect its employees. In many organizations, managers are tasked with achieving departmental targets. However, they are not typically assigned objectives related to maintaining their team's motivation or reducing attrition rates. Managers should not view their subordinates as expendable assets. Recruiting suitable candidates is a challenging process, as individuals do not simply queue up at a company's doorstep. Even when the right candidate is hired, it takes time for them to acclimate to a new role. Given these circumstances, managers should receive training on managerial competencies in general, with a specific focus on motivation skills.
Thanks,
Dinesh Divekar