Dear member,
Replies to Post No 8 & 9
Post No 8: The complainant is one of the acquaintances. The charges being of sexual harassment cannot provide much detail about her, and I do not wish to state the name of the company for whom the accused has been hired. All information is crystal clear, nothing hidden. As an HR person, I was surprised that despite such charges, the accused was placed in a big giant, though the company follows BGV. Thanks.
Reply: "Complainant is one of the acquaintances," but of whom? Is he/she an acquaintance of the victim or the accused? For the first time, you have revealed that the accused is facing sexual harassment charges. Neither do we wish to know the details of the survivor of the harassment nor the company. However, we need the facts of the case to know what exactly happened.
Merely being accused in a criminal case cannot be the criteria for disqualification. The reply on this point has been given already.
If you are an HR professional, then we, the members of this forum in general, and the seniors in particular, are also surprised at your inability to provide the facts of the case in the very first instance. Alas, you could have done some study on how to write a post in a public forum!
Post No 9: It’s not related to a matrimonial issue. Please understand the gravity of the case under sexual assault. Kindly be sensitive before judging someone. There’s no jealousy of any form, but the hiring process, which is faulty, is the main point that we have diverted from.
Reply: To emphasize the point of how the law is being misused, I had given an example of matrimonial disputes. Telling us that it is not a matrimonial issue is the height of getting oneself misunderstood.
The posts on a public forum are bound to come under public scrutiny. We, the members of this forum, are third parties and cannot take the side of either party. We see all the cases dispassionately.
Final Comments: Keeping the issue aside, you deserve feedback. It is high time you invest your time in understanding the concept of "communication." Your style, ability to put forth the points in sequence, and descriptiveness all merit a big improvement. Your inability to understand the examples given as metaphors is also shocking. If the weakness is not addressed, it could withhold the growth of your career.
All the best!
Dinesh Divekar