I have been charged with false sexual harassment by my female manager.
Incident Details
Below are the two incidents on which I have been alleged.
Case 1: Meeting Room Incident
Eleven months ago, I took her inside a meeting room located at the center of the floor, with transparent glass doors, in the middle of the day, in the presence of almost 60-70 employees around, to discuss work-related issues. I "locked" the door to avoid any disturbance to fellow teammates sitting just outside the door. The intent behind locking the door was to prevent any loud noise from reaching outside the meeting room if we got into any arguments because she is very loud and has no manners. I didn't want anyone to make fun of that meeting. After that meeting, she went out normally and smiling. The very same day, I thanked her on WhatsApp for understanding the issues, and she responded with a smiley. I have the screenshots of that. Here, charges were dropped on me because of the locking of the door.
Case 2: Argument with Male Manager
Recently, my new male manager and I had a huge fight. In that argument, I abused him. I admit it is not ethical and should not have happened. He has no manners at all and suppresses everyone, and that day he yelled at me in front of other team members, which was an abuse and harassment for me, and that's where the fight started. The female manager I wrote about above has charged me with sexual harassment as I abused in front of her. She was present there and witnessed the entire scenario with her own consent and awareness. I didn't say anything to her.
HR Involvement and Allegations
The HR called me spontaneously a few days back and started threatening me in the name of police, court, and the MeToo movement, and asked me to write a statement saying that I understand I have been alleged with sexual harassment charges and asked to apologize for the abuse. At that time, due to the way they were talking to me, I could not understand anything and did what they said. This is a conspiracy to fire me as I never bowed down in front of these corrupt managers.
Seeking Advice
Please suggest what I should do. My team members suggested writing an email with WhatsApp screenshots about all this to the higher management from both the team and HR end and include all the team members, and ask the team if they felt anything like that as they were there. Also, to ask for CCTV footage for that day. A few team members are willing to respond to the email telling the truth, which is against the female manager. Is this the right way? Please suggest.
Incident Details
Below are the two incidents on which I have been alleged.
Case 1: Meeting Room Incident
Eleven months ago, I took her inside a meeting room located at the center of the floor, with transparent glass doors, in the middle of the day, in the presence of almost 60-70 employees around, to discuss work-related issues. I "locked" the door to avoid any disturbance to fellow teammates sitting just outside the door. The intent behind locking the door was to prevent any loud noise from reaching outside the meeting room if we got into any arguments because she is very loud and has no manners. I didn't want anyone to make fun of that meeting. After that meeting, she went out normally and smiling. The very same day, I thanked her on WhatsApp for understanding the issues, and she responded with a smiley. I have the screenshots of that. Here, charges were dropped on me because of the locking of the door.
Case 2: Argument with Male Manager
Recently, my new male manager and I had a huge fight. In that argument, I abused him. I admit it is not ethical and should not have happened. He has no manners at all and suppresses everyone, and that day he yelled at me in front of other team members, which was an abuse and harassment for me, and that's where the fight started. The female manager I wrote about above has charged me with sexual harassment as I abused in front of her. She was present there and witnessed the entire scenario with her own consent and awareness. I didn't say anything to her.
HR Involvement and Allegations
The HR called me spontaneously a few days back and started threatening me in the name of police, court, and the MeToo movement, and asked me to write a statement saying that I understand I have been alleged with sexual harassment charges and asked to apologize for the abuse. At that time, due to the way they were talking to me, I could not understand anything and did what they said. This is a conspiracy to fire me as I never bowed down in front of these corrupt managers.
Seeking Advice
Please suggest what I should do. My team members suggested writing an email with WhatsApp screenshots about all this to the higher management from both the team and HR end and include all the team members, and ask the team if they felt anything like that as they were there. Also, to ask for CCTV footage for that day. A few team members are willing to respond to the email telling the truth, which is against the female manager. Is this the right way? Please suggest.