Suggestions for Delivering Feedback
This is one of the difficult conversations for HR to carry on. Few suggestions can be:
1) First, do not call it 'negative feedback.' Call it only 'feedback' since every feedback ultimately is constructive in its purpose. If it is positive, it motivates the employees. If it is negative, it develops the employee.
2) Many times, the person—be it a manager, team leader, HR, or HOD—himself is found to be a misfit to deliver the feedback. If he is biased against the employee, the delivery will focus on fault-finding. If he has ego hassles or is power-centric, the delivery will be authoritarian and instructional. If he is a weak manager, the delivery of feedback will be vague and indirect. In all these cases, the feedback does not achieve what it intends to. So, the person delivering the feedback should be free from all these negatives first and should have a growth mindset. If the beginning is good, the end will be better.
3) Timing of the delivery is key to making the feedback successful. Don't deliver it too late, making it difficult for the employee to recall the incident under discussion. At the same time, don't deliver it in the heat of the situation. The employee may turn defensive and defiant to feedback. Only iron will bend if it is hit when it is hot, but not a person who may break or bounce when hit when he is hot.
4) They say the surrounding environment determines the state of mind. So, choose a relaxed ambiance to deliver the feedback where it is informal and casual, as it relaxes the mind of the employee, making him more receptive. Avoid office cabins, which may interrupt conversations with intermittent calls or intruders.
5) Tell the employee that you would like to have a meeting with him to discuss something important, but don't tell him that you want to give him negative feedback or discuss his performance, etc. That makes him anxious.
6) The feedback should not be a one-way street. It should be a two-way conversation between the employee and the manager, who can invite suggestions from the employee for a solution. If the employee is not able to give any, then the manager can suggest solutions and seek his views so that a commonly agreed solution is easier to implement.
You can think of more ways that suit your culture and environment. This is only to trigger thinking on the matter.
Regards, B. Saikumar HR & Labour Relations Adviser Navi Mumbai.