I already owe an answer to spv 88, and your query has hastened my reply. Thank you for seeking my views. For the purpose of this discussion and ease of writing, let us christen the Appraisee as A, his boss as B, and the super boss as C. We will also have a D who is the Training in-charge.
I would like to explain the different possibilities from my experience. As rightly pointed out by you, I am not dwelling on a case where all three are in full unison about the training area.
Case 1
A wrote that he has to improve his communication. Seeing this, B wrote that A has to have training in oral and written communication. C examined and wrote that written communication was the area to be trained. A was supposed to log all the shift activities as a written report, and hence C made his recommendation accordingly.
Case 2
A wanted to learn a particular 'SAP' module. B thought if A gets this training, he might leave his department and so suggested some other topic as he did not want to lose him. Seeing that the organization would benefit from A's suggestion, C recommended A for SAP module training to D for doing the needful.
Case 3
A expressed his desire to get trained in Emotional Intelligence. B strongly recommended his case. C was not convinced and rejected the idea. B persuaded C and prevailed, explaining the advantages of such training for the concerned individual and the department. C recommended A's training as A wanted.
Case 4
A was a rising star and wanted to attend a two-day in-house program. B recommended him for a three-day outdoor program. C, who knew A's potential, recommended A for a special six-week course in one of the premier institutions.
Case 5
A was a workaholic. In his own training requirement column, he did not mention anything. B spoke to him, and he was still firm. C called both and advised A to take a break and attend the external program, explaining to him the merits of such programs. Reluctantly, A agreed, and after attending the program, A was very happy and realized the importance of training.
Several more combinations can be recalled, but I think this sufficiently brings out the different possibilities that one comes across in a real-life scenario.
General Thinking Process
In general, the thinking process that goes on in the minds of A, B, C, and D can be as follows:
A asks himself this question: "What is in it for me?" – the well-known WIIFM.
B asks himself, "How will my department benefit from this training?"
C asks himself, "In what way will the organization stand to gain?"
D thinks of fulfilling his duty by arranging the training.
Before the finalization of the training, there are several communications that take place in specific cases like the above when the need arises.
We can also summarize in a lighter vein.
BOSS IS ALWAYS RIGHT.
SUPER BOSS IS EVEN MORE RIGHT.
Regards, V.Raghunathan