Dear Nims,
I can understand your difficulties. But, one thing needs to be understood well - there is a great difference between fact and fiction. The fiction is the work-life balance, which is a personal affair of an employee and the personal responsibility of the employee to give that a practical shape by making appropriate adjustments between his/her daily chores of family life and the schedules of official life. If some organization ethically takes care of the personal needs and affairs of its employees, that can be treated as an ideal organization, which is quite rare on this earth.
Contrarily, the fact is that, irrespective of the personal or family life affairs of an employee, every individual is destined to work in the interest of the organization, which pays him/her with the sole aim of taking care of the interests of the organization. Only a few individual officers/managers of some organizations can be expected to take care of the work-life balance of their team members, provided the team member also takes enough care to help the boss discharge his organizational duties and responsibilities well towards the achievement of official targets by maintaining utmost performance efficiency of the team in general and the boss in specific.
So, work-life balance cannot be claimed as a matter of right from the employer by any employee, nor does any rule or act of law bind an employer to ensure work-life balance of the employees against the interest of the organization. If he does so, that can be taken as a matter of grace and gratitude on the part of the employer or the management.
So far as your suspension is concerned, in Government/PSU system, suspension is not treated as a punishment. Rather, suspension is resorted to restrain the employee from taking part in official work and also to avoid him/her from tampering with the evidence against him/her. Suspension is a common practice in the workplace for being in violation of an organization's policy, or major breaches of policy. Work suspensions occur when the administration/management deems an action of an employee, whether intentional or unintentional, to be a violation of policy that should result in a course of punishment, and when the employee's absence during the suspension period does not affect the working of the organization. Although the decision to suspend is not necessarily disciplinary in nature, when suspension takes place it is normally in circumstances involving potential gross misconduct. Alternatively, suspension may happen where relationships have broken down, or where it is considered there are risks to your employer's property/records to be tampered with.
About your query, "when the case is in the court, can a company suspend an employee when the company had agreed in the court that no action will be taken," in the absence of any stay order, the company can suspend an employee to restrain him from participating in the day-to-day activity of the company. If the company agreed not to take action, that means, although due, the company would avoid taking any disciplinary action against you till the pendency of the court case. But if you think seriously, that also goes against your own interest. The court proceedings may take a very long time, whereas the company withholds (not canceled) its decision to take action against you till the court case is decided. The company, if suspended you, can be considered to have determined to take disciplinary action against you any time after the verdict of the court in your case comes. The finalization of the disciplinary case taken thereafter is also likely to take years together. So, till both the cases are finalized and also the punishment period is over, if punished in the disciplinary case, your career/promotions will surely be affected adversely.
So, you will have the need to fight both the cases wisely and effectively.
Please don't think that I am trying to terrify you. I am simply trying to make you aware of the facts of official life and to make you alert about the likely future dilemma to happen for you to face and to plan your activities tactfully and wisely to tackle that.