Hi Avantika,
Kudos to you for refusing!
I fully endorse Dinesh's comments.
However, I would ask Dinesh (and other members), what amount is considered "too big"?
Surely, it is a question of principle and not amount. For once a bribe is paid, even if it is a small amount, the demands will only escalate over time, and then it is too late to question.
We also need to consider what constitutes a bribe.
Is it only a sum of money or can it also be a material gift, such as those given under the guise of "promotional" or "marketing" material?
Is taking a client out to lunch considered a bribe?
In our organization, we maintain a Register of Gifts where all gifts, received and given, are recorded in detail (including lunches, etc.). This register is maintained by the staff themselves and is located in our reception area for all to see. The record also details what happened to the gift; if it was kept by the employee, kept by the company, or given to charity. While I accept that this system is open to abuse, our experience has shown that, so far, the employees have been honest.
I look forward to further inputs.
Regards,
Harsh