There are two types of dreams. One is a daydream, and another is one that takes you to reality. Which dream would you like to pursue? The former or the latter? The former does not require any hard work, whereas the latter requires a lot of hard work and, above all, strong willpower.
Concentration power is absolutely linked to one's motivation. The higher the motivation, the higher the power to absorb knowledge.
Imagine if another woman writes posts like this: "I am a working woman, not a student. But still, my dream is to complete my Ex. MBA in Finance. I do not like anyone disturbing me in my studies. When a family member disturbs me, I start shouting at them. How to handle this situation?"
I recommend setting a target for yourself - "I will complete Chapter No ___ in the coming one hour." This target will bring focus to your studies. Secondly, keep your mobile off. Keep it in silent mode and in another room. Also, keep the TV off. If another family member is watching TV, then close the door of your room and tell others to keep the TV volume low.
The Importance of Self-Discipline
Why do we observe fasts? Why do we pray to God? Indirectly, these are the means of bringing self-discipline. Abstinence is a virtue. Loosely, it can be called "Sanyam" in Marathi. A person attains or retains success because of this "Sanyam."
I appreciate your openness. You have asked for a solution to your weakness. Identifying the weakness itself is a strength. Other members have given valuable advice. Start working on it.
Make a strong determination, come what may, I am not going to deviate from the target for the day. Attainment of these small targets will start motivating you. It will increase self-confidence in you. With this very confidence, you will be able to complete your MBA with very good marks. In the future, when you look back, you will possibly be astounded at your success. But today, what matters is the development of this strong willpower.
Examples of Strong Determination
Remember you are from a place where examples of strong determination are replete. Gopal Ganesh Agarkar had walked from Karad to Pune to complete his M.A. Bal Gangadhar Tilak raised the building of his English School himself, which was made of mud and cow dung. Dr. Babasaheb Ambedkar studied under streetlights. While in prison, instead of wasting time, Bal Gangadhar Tilak wrote "Geetarahasya." It is this determination that makes a person extraordinary from ordinary.
All the best, and I will wait for a post from you, say after 2-3 years, telling that you have completed your Ex MBA. Not only me but all the members of this forum will be glad to hear this news.
Regards,
Dinesh V Divekar