I am not complaining about smoking; even I do smoke. The point I want to make is how can the HR Head/Recruitment Head ask a Recruiter (interviewee) such questions? The interviewee is someone I know; she told me that she had a cool interview and explained how it happened. Despite this, I still have many questions in my mind, but I do not want to make this a big issue.
If the interviewee does not have any problem, there is no harm. I can provide you with two examples:
1. My friend's boss is a chain smoker. When he interviewed a male candidate, he asked, "Do you mind if I smoke?" The candidate refused, and upon selection, he felt that his boss would have offered him a cigar.
2. During another interview, he asked a female candidate if she minded him smoking, to which the female candidate took a cigar from her purse and smoked along with the boss.
Now, consider this situation and what should be done. If an interviewer connects well with a candidate and offers anything to the candidate, male or female, such as tea, coffee, or a cigar, it depends on the culture/atmosphere of the company. Additionally, the candidate must decide whether to join such a culture/atmosphere.