Dear All Seniors, I am working as a product manager with a leading pharmaceutical company based in Mumbai.
i have recently joined these organisation , after completion of my induction and orientation programme i am on-field job with my senior manager .my senior manager is the profit centre for my company and next to the director in the hierarchy, but during the work i analysed that he is more interested to make a personal relationship with me instead of professional.
I am already married women and don't like any loose talks and any physical contacts, the same message I already passed on to that person but he is not ready to understand and pressurising a lot to me for friendship. Several times he expressed his feelings about me that he has a kind of affection towards me.
he crossed jis almost 55 years of age and a well settled married person, now during the talk with him several times he tries to touch me and hug me, that felt uncomfortable during the work, my problem is that I already expalined my problem to him and told him that I dont want any personal realtionship with anyone in the industry I am here for professionalism and for a career but what he told me that if he starts professional behaviour with me then it's very difficult for me to survive in the industry and now he starts doing politics against me to take me out from the company, now he came up with several unsual problems which affect my work.
Now I am mentally disturbed and depressed. this is the prime opportunity of my career and don't want to lose my job just because of that womaniser. He already indicated me that if I don't follow what he likes and he wishes then I will lose my job. my problem is that he is the authorised person in the company after director and he is the profit centre for the company and if I will raise a complaint against him then I am sure there is no action taken placed by the company because he is very close to the director and he is profit centre.
I don't want to lose my job in this recession period. I need the job but I am not going to compromise with my ethics. May I request to all seniors kindly give me some suggestion that what can I do now to make hin understand because now as the professional way he troubles me a lot because he wants a personal relationship with me?
Please give me some tips.
i have recently joined these organisation , after completion of my induction and orientation programme i am on-field job with my senior manager .my senior manager is the profit centre for my company and next to the director in the hierarchy, but during the work i analysed that he is more interested to make a personal relationship with me instead of professional.
I am already married women and don't like any loose talks and any physical contacts, the same message I already passed on to that person but he is not ready to understand and pressurising a lot to me for friendship. Several times he expressed his feelings about me that he has a kind of affection towards me.
he crossed jis almost 55 years of age and a well settled married person, now during the talk with him several times he tries to touch me and hug me, that felt uncomfortable during the work, my problem is that I already expalined my problem to him and told him that I dont want any personal realtionship with anyone in the industry I am here for professionalism and for a career but what he told me that if he starts professional behaviour with me then it's very difficult for me to survive in the industry and now he starts doing politics against me to take me out from the company, now he came up with several unsual problems which affect my work.
Now I am mentally disturbed and depressed. this is the prime opportunity of my career and don't want to lose my job just because of that womaniser. He already indicated me that if I don't follow what he likes and he wishes then I will lose my job. my problem is that he is the authorised person in the company after director and he is the profit centre for the company and if I will raise a complaint against him then I am sure there is no action taken placed by the company because he is very close to the director and he is profit centre.
I don't want to lose my job in this recession period. I need the job but I am not going to compromise with my ethics. May I request to all seniors kindly give me some suggestion that what can I do now to make hin understand because now as the professional way he troubles me a lot because he wants a personal relationship with me?
Please give me some tips.