If your company has a unit or a branch in Bangalore, they can accommodate you there. In the public sector, it will be the endeavor of the management to post working spouses, as far as possible, at the same place. You can cite reasons like how it is disturbing your family life and exerting pressure on the finances of the family, having been compelled to maintain two establishments, that too in two costly cities, and the need for security for you. You also want to continue with the present employer. Taking all this into consideration, your request for transfer may be considered.
Regards,
B. Saikumar
HR & Labour Law Advisor
Mumbai