Loose Canon And High Performer - How To Balance This Problem In Me

ajitu2012
What ever task i assigned myselves either its professional or personal i am having problems in that.I start the task very enthusiastically and after some period i lose interest in that i attempt half heartidely or stop it .Also advice how to get rid of laziness and bring discipline in life
phaniacp
you have two dogs within you. one is good, willing to run towards you goals another is with lack of discipline and determination.
You choose to which you would like to feed.
bharathi1990
Dear Ajithu,
Don't get depresses, every one will face this problem, be positive always..........
Rather being Enthusiastic, you first love whatever you do.
Then surely your enthusiasm will continue till the end,don't worry..............:)
skhadir
Dear Mr. Ajitu
1) Your Unstable mind is making you a looser. Its not that easy to gain control over yourself or your mind unless to figure out what exactly you are looking for.
2) What you lack is CONFIDENCE LEVELS within yourself. This is the one of the reasons as why you are not able to FOCUS and CONCENTRATE on ONE THING AT A TIME.
3) Don't you work along with MOTIVATORS or POSITIVE MINDSET GUYS?
There is something else in your mind which you want to achieve or you love something to do but, you are unable to do it. What makes you feel happy or what is that, which can you give happiness as per your expectations.....Can you share this with us or you can mail it to my id.
With profound regards
Hussain Zulfikar
Dear Ajitu
How old are you ? My friend ! your moody behavior can be amended. Let life wack you hard, let there be no money in your pockets, no job in hand, no food on your plate, no designer cloths to flaunt.
Then everything will be very interesting, and you will finish everything till it ends, and will be eager to begin next, there will be immense satisfaction in what you complete, let life whip you hard, you will always remain disciplined.
And don't worry, what I mentioned, happens in life, so once this things will happen to you, you will be rehabilitated from your current syndromes of laziness and indiscipline.
Or you can learn from the world around you and, buckle up !!
Take my words in light spirits !! want to help, don't feel bad !!
Thanks
ajitu2012
Thanks for suggestion.Problem is that there is no clarity of thoughts.While attempting one task i think of other task so both task go uncomplete and i become lazy.I have huge ambition and expectation i.e through which channel i want my life to pass on.But unable intiate the actual process because of this
ajitu2012
i find it very difficult to manage my life because of this.i am very depressed .i always thinks i am born loser as i have this kind of thinking
boss2966
Dear Ajitu2012
Always be in one place. (One Place means not for your body it is for your mind)
Take one Task at a time. (Complete one task fully upto your satisfaction, then have a break for 10 to 20 minutes and take up the second task and proceed)
Never let your morale Down (Always think you are a born achiever and move ahead)
Before concluding I would like to tell you one thing. Whoever took birth in this world are really a successful man because "in mother's womb One or Two eggs only will be available, but from the Sperm millions of semen will attack the egg. But only one or two semens will make successful entry inside the Egg. That successfully entered semen only becomes Bhaskar, Ajit, and others. So, always Keep it in mind that we all are born achievers.
All the best
Veena Dhaneria
Dear Ajitu, no need to worry yaar....dont get depressed....it happens sometimes...donot take this as a serious matter....try to accompany those who keeps you confident & enthusiatic...just avoid beign with demotivators & plz donot share ur this prob wit ur colleagues or frnds coz...i feel 90 cent people will just listen ur prob & 5 cent will make fun & rest remaining 5 cent can help you but ur luck also should get such people in ur life.....nothing is impossible yaar in life.....see yaar 1thing is sure tht either u r personally disturbed or professionally....trust me hv guts n lead ur life nicely......
Gaurav Sareen
Dear Ajitu,
You are not a loser. Do you want to know why?
Because you have the courage to come on to this forum and write what is going through your mind. Do you know what this means?
This means that in spite of all what you claim is happening in your mind, you have had the brilliance to tear through it, and identify a critical issue. And, this is my absolute favourite -
Once you identified those issues, you didn't sweep them under the carpet. Instead, you have faced them head on. And, that my friend, is more than 50% of your solution already!
So, don't despair. You are definitely different - but 'good' different.
So, I have an offer for you:
Do you live in or near Gurgaon? Are you willing to travel to Gurgaon for 2 or 3 free success coaching sessions?
Send me an email (address is in signature block below) and we'll take it from there.
Take care & keep those horses in check - until you need their 'FULL HORSE POWER'!
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