Dear All
Mr Balaji has given wonderful tips to overcome jealosy from a colleague - I just add one more point, be honest while implenting all the tips given by him and it works !!
Ms.Shilpa
HR persons are self motivated. However, as a you say, he is also a human being and he also will have his own grievances. If it comes to any official issues, whatever the policies that work for others, applies to him also and he has to obey the same first and work within those boundaries only ! The law is made by him and the first person to respect that is himself !! With this understanding, his 50% grievances are solved !
If any new grievances are there which are not within the scope of the policies that are existing and if it is different, he/she can always approach the ultimate superior - the MD or CEO or ED or Chairman. Beyond that, it is only God who can help him/her.
However, a HR person is the one, who is self-motivated and should ever have hopes that there are INFINITE opportunities for him to overcome his own grievances !!
Regards
K.Ramachandra
Bangalore