An example of how Mr. Dinesh mentored and corrected my mistake. In fact, Mr. Dinesh is my mentor for which I am thankful to ALMIGHTY. Mentoring is not just about motivating or guiding people but also correcting one's mistakes.
1) A mentor can also play the role of a teacher.
2) A father can also be a mentor.
3) Senior successful/experienced employees (broad-minded, true leaders, transparent) of an organization can also deliver the same.
4) All those trainers having wide experience can also be considered for mentoring mentees.
Below is the email which I had received from Mr. Dinesh:
Dear Khadir,
I take reference to your following reply on the subject above:
https://www.citehr.com/326530-develo...ml#post1496384
While your suggestions are good, my comments on a few of your statements are as below:
4) Allow superiors to play the role of mentors, whoever down the line (hierarchy).
It appears that you have not studied books on mentoring. A mentor should preferably be a manager because a mentor is supposed to be a mature person. How far supervisors are mature is a matter of surmise. I recommend a manager because by and large, it is assumed that managers are mature. However, if the person is not mature, he may not be given this assignment.
A mentor's primary job is to interpret the organization's values, philosophy, etc., and not setting goals or targets. Setting goals and targets is their manager's job. In the course of work, youngsters have a lot of questions in their minds. They cannot open up with their managers and seek clarification. They can seek clarification on these issues from their mentor. When the youngsters don't get the answers, they get demotivated and resign. Therefore, the mentor is a buffer between the departmental manager and the youngster. At times, the mentor has to teach the mentee how to handle organizational politics, but it is in the best interest of the organization!
5) One-to-one mentoring process is very tedious. I suggest one mentor to handle a team.
Again, it appears that you have made this opinion without reading books on mentoring. A mentor can never handle a team of mentees. Yes, one-to-one mentoring is a tedious process, but then, to get long-term benefits, you cannot have shortcuts. For this very purpose, not many well-established companies have a mentoring program in their organization. When organizations opt for CMM certification, CMM level 4 demands instituting a mentoring program. Thus, these organizations make a virtue of necessity and go for a mentoring program because of CMM and not as a willing introduction of some intervention on organizational development.
Mentoring is a secondary duty and not primary. Against this backdrop, if you wish to remain true to the spirit of mentoring, then a mentor can be assigned with one mentee or two or a maximum of three. Any assignments more than this would certainly dilute the spirit behind the mentoring program.
For Ms. Hina KQ: - On the above topic, you have raised certain questions on Citehr several times. It appears that you too have several misconceptions about mentoring. When you read books on mentoring, all your questions or misconceptions will get removed. A prominent book on this subject is "The Mentoring Manager" by Mr. Gareth Lewis, Pitman Publishing.
Dinesh V Divekar
With profound regards