Dinesh,
I apologize for the late response.
Your reply is well-written. I couldn't have done it better.
Yes, "politics" is indeed the number one "killer disease" in organizational relationship management, even at the national level. Sometimes, it even creeps into family settings!
But, say what you want, it is dirty, filthy, and outright unprofessional. It's most unfortunate that it lurks under disguise and false fronts.
It is something everyone detests and loathes, yet, for some ironical reason, accommodates it out of hopelessness and helplessness.
Fait accompli or "raison d'etre," it is an unhealthy phenomenon that undermines motivation, harmony, the spirit of teamwork, and happiness at work. It is one of those unexplained and unwritten hypocritical features that somehow find its way into the very same leaders who hate its indulgence. Ask anyone if it's a healthy trend? Yet, why is it acknowledged? It shares the same paradox as money being the main motivator at work.
Some theorists and realists have given "political awareness" recognition as an essential competency for survival or getting through. It is more so the case for employees planning to grow or progress, either vertically or horizontally, and in dealing with workplace conflicts in relationships or performance, as it was with Salva.
Being an ex-soldier, I do not preach, practice, or condone the game of "politics." As a leader, it is incumbent upon me to facilitate a healthy and harmonious working climate of Teamwork, in the absolute sense of the meaning - to foster openness, proactiveness, empathy, forgiveness, learning, development, inclusiveness, and engagement.
I also believe it is geographically separated "cultural" thing. Asians, by their so-called power-distanced submissive nature, are more accommodative and vulnerable to politics.
Of course, there are very few exceptions, who go against the grain, without fear or favor to what others may think, say, or do. They call a spade a spade in articulating their points or arguments. And, I am one of them.
I would not agree with some of the points you mentioned regarding 'politicking' because I do follow them, such as "support the boss." How can that be read as "politics"? That calls for professionalism in conduct. As a responsible employee or subordinate one must state one's stand when it matters, e.g., a meeting. If the boss differs to decide, then one must rally behind the decision and give one's undivided support to make it a success. If it fails, take responsibility, learn, and try again. The next time, the boss may reconsider ignoring your points.
Life is all about understanding, learning, and moving forward. We should not waste time indulging in politics and the blame game syndrome.
I do agree, not everyone can think alike. Some people need more time and experience to mature into acquiring a higher and deeper level of emotional intelligence to think beyond the superficial flow of communication. That's why Daniel Goleman's (Primal Leadership) says EI has become more important than IQ for leadership performance.
Coming back to Salva's case, there are 2 very important issues at hand. One is at the personal level, Salva's case. Another, which has a contagion effect and more important, is at the organizational or "cultural" level.
Ramesh,
This is a great learning opportunity to redress dysfunctional behavior and put in place a system that reflects healthy communication in relationships. Salva should stand up for her right in knowing the reasons for her transfer. It should not be confrontational but rather inquiry and co-creative, with mutual development in mind (hers and the company's). If this does not occur, the inevitable will be turnover or, worse still, ROAD (retired on active duty).
This sort of thing should be handled with great care and confidentiality. But, in this case, it seems there is much water-cooler talk - everyone knows everything, including bad relationship news. "Gossip" is the resulting consequence of how "politics" impacts organizational communication.
It is important to see the problem at a deeper level beyond the inter and intra-personal level. The management must step in to address the situation before it decays further. Look beneath the hidden iceberg level to effect changes to the values system, communication flow, and cultural impediments. Teamwork, relationship, and workplace harmony must precede above individualistic ego-emotional status. Leadership respect cannot be earned from the authority of positions.
There is an interesting post at HBP on a somewhat similar issue - merits of raising sensitive "strategic" issues in public that could offend bosses. (
When You Think the Strategy is Wrong - Best Practices - Harvard Business Review) Once again, I have commented strongly on our inhibitive Asian-culture biased communication.
If we are becoming borderless and globally connected, how can we continue to hang onto our "cultural" differences in support of international best workplace practices? The East is noted for its collective spirit, so why the sensitivity to more open and courageous communication. Perhaps we are not exactly the people we say we are and prefer to hide behind the mask of "office politics." We would rather not talk of the elephant in the room, but... I rest my case.