Hi Aneesh,
Marriage is not the end..its only the beginning for the girl. Life is like a boomerang (saying with my own exp). Things come back to u the way u did it to someone else. I am not saying that she wil go thru the same feeling.
Who knows. . the second person must have been the right choice in her life. It would have been ridiculous if she had to marry ur fren and secretly move with some one else. Good that ur fren is saved. Good people are saved even if its the last minute. Pls tell him not be paranoid in future (this must be taken care of) Not all girls are like this. He shuld not treat his future wife with doubt in mind.
Ur fren is angry abt being rejected. . no one likes to feel so. . Just let him know that he is so special and all of us are happy he has been saved much b4 anything culd actually happen.
This depression would be lasting for a while. . make sure he does not do anything to hurt himself. She is gone out of his life. . but that does not mean that his life went with her. Now he has IMPORTANT things to focus on. . . Family, work . . frens..Why shuld he punish all of u who deeply love him? . . jus becos of someone who did not have the maturity to understand wat it would feel like to hurt someone.
Marriage is a one time decision - and God will not let just a girl ruin a mans' sincere love feeling just like that in a second. That is why atleast he gave her the courage to run away b4 marriage... imagine wat would have happened if they after getting everyones acceptance marry and then if she run aways ???
God never gives u those things that u cannot bear . . he knows how much u can bear and how much u cant. Life has just begun for ur fren . . .
For him to forget - All of u celebrate this happiness of having her out of his life. He just needs to call her and say "Thanks dame. . . I am happy u r out of my life and there was one thing I wanted to say - I am much happy now than before . . now I know the meaning of peace."
GUYS - IRRESPECTIVE OF SOMETHING BAD HAPPENING IN UR LIFE .. . BE IT LOSS OF A JOB OR ANYTHING ELSE . . .LEARNING TO COME OUT OF THAT DEPRESSION, IS THE FIRST STEP IN UR LIFE WHERE U R GOING CLOSER TO SUCCESS. ITS WELL SAID THAN DONE. . . BUT DONT THINK THATS THE END.
AND PLS. . .UR LIFE IS NOT SOMETHING TO BE CREATED OVER ONE SINGLE PERSON!!
Marriage is not the end..its only the beginning for the girl. Life is like a boomerang (saying with my own exp). Things come back to u the way u did it to someone else. I am not saying that she wil go thru the same feeling.
Who knows. . the second person must have been the right choice in her life. It would have been ridiculous if she had to marry ur fren and secretly move with some one else. Good that ur fren is saved. Good people are saved even if its the last minute. Pls tell him not be paranoid in future (this must be taken care of) Not all girls are like this. He shuld not treat his future wife with doubt in mind.
Ur fren is angry abt being rejected. . no one likes to feel so. . Just let him know that he is so special and all of us are happy he has been saved much b4 anything culd actually happen.
This depression would be lasting for a while. . make sure he does not do anything to hurt himself. She is gone out of his life. . but that does not mean that his life went with her. Now he has IMPORTANT things to focus on. . . Family, work . . frens..Why shuld he punish all of u who deeply love him? . . jus becos of someone who did not have the maturity to understand wat it would feel like to hurt someone.
Marriage is a one time decision - and God will not let just a girl ruin a mans' sincere love feeling just like that in a second. That is why atleast he gave her the courage to run away b4 marriage... imagine wat would have happened if they after getting everyones acceptance marry and then if she run aways ???
God never gives u those things that u cannot bear . . he knows how much u can bear and how much u cant. Life has just begun for ur fren . . .
For him to forget - All of u celebrate this happiness of having her out of his life. He just needs to call her and say "Thanks dame. . . I am happy u r out of my life and there was one thing I wanted to say - I am much happy now than before . . now I know the meaning of peace."
GUYS - IRRESPECTIVE OF SOMETHING BAD HAPPENING IN UR LIFE .. . BE IT LOSS OF A JOB OR ANYTHING ELSE . . .LEARNING TO COME OUT OF THAT DEPRESSION, IS THE FIRST STEP IN UR LIFE WHERE U R GOING CLOSER TO SUCCESS. ITS WELL SAID THAN DONE. . . BUT DONT THINK THATS THE END.
AND PLS. . .UR LIFE IS NOT SOMETHING TO BE CREATED OVER ONE SINGLE PERSON!!