In my case, I don't think I need to be judged by anyone. I am someone who believes in self-learning. Even if things cannot be understood, later on, they can be asked to a superior. But first, the superior should be good at giving proper training.
Training should start in such a way that it begins with the basics. Without knowing ABC, you cannot proceed further. The trainer should be knowledgeable and proficient in giving examples. Then, I am sure employees will be properly trained.
Firstly, the employees need to be trained on the hierarchy and then continue further.
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21Training should start in such a way that it begins with the basics. Without knowing ABC, you cannot proceed further. The trainer should be knowledgeable and proficient in giving examples. Then, I am sure employees will be properly trained.
Firstly, the employees need to be trained on the hierarchy and then continue further.
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Dear Meena,
You seem to be a frustrated person. I have seen some of your earlier posts, and they all point towards you being mistreated and wrongly judged. Meena, I think you need to sit down with a peer and work out your frustration. Frustration leads to revolt, which will not be good for anyone.
During my earlier days, I faced the same problem and was a very angry person who went against everything. It did not help me; I lost out on a number of promotions, and in the end, I suffered without gaining anything.
If you feel like freeing your soul and talking about what is troubling you, you can send me a private message or an email to ron.desaran@gmail.com. I am sure many of us on this site will be willing to assist you in overcoming your troubled mind.
Everyone is good at something, and I am sure you are also good, or even very good, at something. Use that skill in your day-to-day life. Please think it over.
Have a great day.
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You seem to be a frustrated person. I have seen some of your earlier posts, and they all point towards you being mistreated and wrongly judged. Meena, I think you need to sit down with a peer and work out your frustration. Frustration leads to revolt, which will not be good for anyone.
During my earlier days, I faced the same problem and was a very angry person who went against everything. It did not help me; I lost out on a number of promotions, and in the end, I suffered without gaining anything.
If you feel like freeing your soul and talking about what is troubling you, you can send me a private message or an email to ron.desaran@gmail.com. I am sure many of us on this site will be willing to assist you in overcoming your troubled mind.
Everyone is good at something, and I am sure you are also good, or even very good, at something. Use that skill in your day-to-day life. Please think it over.
Have a great day.
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Meena,
Now that you have agreed that you are frustrated, what is the next thing to do. Who are the peers you are complaining about? What have you done and why do you want them to contact you directly? I do not understand what you wish to say. Remember one thing, if you are angry, do not write a post. Compose yourself and then write down what you have done and what you expected in return.
Did you contact your peers, and did they cold-shoulder you? Did you ask for specific help or help in general? If someone asks me to help them, what do I do? You must specify what you are looking for and in which direction.
Take a day or two off from work if that is the place that has caused you to be frustrated. Meena, life is not a bed of roses; we all face troubles but have to have the strength to face them and overcome them.
You can still contact me directly by mail, and I will see how best I can help you cope. Say a prayer and be calm.
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From India, Hyderabad
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Now that you have agreed that you are frustrated, what is the next thing to do. Who are the peers you are complaining about? What have you done and why do you want them to contact you directly? I do not understand what you wish to say. Remember one thing, if you are angry, do not write a post. Compose yourself and then write down what you have done and what you expected in return.
Did you contact your peers, and did they cold-shoulder you? Did you ask for specific help or help in general? If someone asks me to help them, what do I do? You must specify what you are looking for and in which direction.
Take a day or two off from work if that is the place that has caused you to be frustrated. Meena, life is not a bed of roses; we all face troubles but have to have the strength to face them and overcome them.
You can still contact me directly by mail, and I will see how best I can help you cope. Say a prayer and be calm.
Regards
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My peers are the people with whom I worked earlier. It's LiveConnections consultancy firm located in Hyderabad and having various branches in other cities too. You can view the company website [Live Connections - We place People First - A Job Portal](http://www.liveconnections.in).
I worked as an office administrator, and Mr. Moses appointed me into his company with a salary of Rs. 3000. I told my manager that my pay is very low. He promised me that he is going to increase my pay after 6 months. After the completion of 6 months, I was expecting an appraisal, but he did not keep up his promise. I also reminded him of the appraisal. By that time, the company was doing well, and he started recruiting a few more employees. As more people were appointed, my workload increased, and they even made me do things not related to my job responsibilities. They always ordered me, and I always followed their orders. My manager was satisfied with my work, and why not, with less pay, he was getting more services from me. Things went on for a year. Again, I approached my manager for either an increase or to place me in another company. He agreed to the replacement and also accepted the company that I was interested in, which suited my skills and profile. Then he appointed another manager in his place, left Hyderabad to open a new branch in Bangalore, and I worked for 3 more months under the new manager without an appraisal. As my father was not doing well, I asked for an increase in my pay until I could get a job in another company. My manager got frustrated and asked me to resign from the company without serving notice period. Before leaving the company, I forwarded my profile to a client place, but my interview was scheduled after 1 month. Until then, I was jobless. After attending the interview, I underwent a few rounds by junior staff, and they informed me that further rounds would be conducted the following month. The next month, I received a call from the client and was asked to attend further rounds. The manager seemed impressed with my interview, and I saw a smile on his face, and at last, I was thanked. A few more days passed, and the client provided my joining date to my colleagues. When I approached my colleague, they informed me that I hadn't been selected. This was the wrong feedback given to me by my company.
Well, this is my story, and many times I have written this on cite hr.
You will get further answers to your queries when you start reading everything.
With regards,
Meena
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My peers are the people with whom I worked earlier. It's LiveConnections consultancy firm located in Hyderabad and having various branches in other cities too. You can view the company website [Live Connections - We place People First - A Job Portal](http://www.liveconnections.in).
I worked as an office administrator, and Mr. Moses appointed me into his company with a salary of Rs. 3000. I told my manager that my pay is very low. He promised me that he is going to increase my pay after 6 months. After the completion of 6 months, I was expecting an appraisal, but he did not keep up his promise. I also reminded him of the appraisal. By that time, the company was doing well, and he started recruiting a few more employees. As more people were appointed, my workload increased, and they even made me do things not related to my job responsibilities. They always ordered me, and I always followed their orders. My manager was satisfied with my work, and why not, with less pay, he was getting more services from me. Things went on for a year. Again, I approached my manager for either an increase or to place me in another company. He agreed to the replacement and also accepted the company that I was interested in, which suited my skills and profile. Then he appointed another manager in his place, left Hyderabad to open a new branch in Bangalore, and I worked for 3 more months under the new manager without an appraisal. As my father was not doing well, I asked for an increase in my pay until I could get a job in another company. My manager got frustrated and asked me to resign from the company without serving notice period. Before leaving the company, I forwarded my profile to a client place, but my interview was scheduled after 1 month. Until then, I was jobless. After attending the interview, I underwent a few rounds by junior staff, and they informed me that further rounds would be conducted the following month. The next month, I received a call from the client and was asked to attend further rounds. The manager seemed impressed with my interview, and I saw a smile on his face, and at last, I was thanked. A few more days passed, and the client provided my joining date to my colleagues. When I approached my colleague, they informed me that I hadn't been selected. This was the wrong feedback given to me by my company.
Well, this is my story, and many times I have written this on cite hr.
You will get further answers to your queries when you start reading everything.
With regards,
Meena
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Dear Meena,
Let us get the main points out in the open.
You joined a recruiting company in an administrative role. You accepted a very low salary due to the situation at that time. This kind of salary is given to people who work in supermarkets.
There is not much you can do. Now that you do not have a job, you have to try and find a job. That is easier said than done.
I am sure some of the people on this site would be able to help you with an administrative job.
Unfortunately, at the moment, I do not know of any vacancies in organizations I know of.
Keep one thing in mind: you have had an outburst of your woes on this site, so many would feel that you are not in the right frame of mind to take up a job right now.
Please remember that these days, what you have experienced happens in almost all small companies. There are too many job seekers and too few jobs.
Send me your CV, and I will try my best to find a decent job for you.
Start posting cool-headed and meaningful posts on this site to show people that you have overcome the bad experience and are now ready to move on.
These things happen to many people, but remember the saying "When the going gets tough, the tough get going."
Pray and build your inner strength and try to keep calm; good things will come your way.
Overcome your frustration by taking up a pastime that you like. Use this opportunity to learn.
Try to improve your skills in English communication.
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From India, Hyderabad
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Let us get the main points out in the open.
You joined a recruiting company in an administrative role. You accepted a very low salary due to the situation at that time. This kind of salary is given to people who work in supermarkets.
There is not much you can do. Now that you do not have a job, you have to try and find a job. That is easier said than done.
I am sure some of the people on this site would be able to help you with an administrative job.
Unfortunately, at the moment, I do not know of any vacancies in organizations I know of.
Keep one thing in mind: you have had an outburst of your woes on this site, so many would feel that you are not in the right frame of mind to take up a job right now.
Please remember that these days, what you have experienced happens in almost all small companies. There are too many job seekers and too few jobs.
Send me your CV, and I will try my best to find a decent job for you.
Start posting cool-headed and meaningful posts on this site to show people that you have overcome the bad experience and are now ready to move on.
These things happen to many people, but remember the saying "When the going gets tough, the tough get going."
Pray and build your inner strength and try to keep calm; good things will come your way.
Overcome your frustration by taking up a pastime that you like. Use this opportunity to learn.
Try to improve your skills in English communication.
Best regards
From India, Hyderabad
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I accepted the salary since I wasn't aware of the market. Moreover, I tried many jobs. I have put my resume in all the job portals and got many calls from recruiters. I attended many interviews, almost up to 100 places, by accepting half the salary which I earned from LiveConnections via conveyance. Later, I came to know that LiveConnections was passing my numbers to other companies and consultancies. They were calling for interviews, doing some headhunting, and influencing recruiters to reject me in the interview. Many times I approached my colleagues, but they aren't accepting it. Now, they can even view my entire system and track my phone calls through some media where changing the phone number is of no use. Opting for a new broadband connection will also be of no use. I am sure they are in touch with you and pretending to be a stranger.
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Hi Meena,
Ronald is trying his best to help and support you; you really should listen to what he has to say. Your posts are extremely confusing and have to be read two or three times to make sense. This is happening because you are frustrated, confused, and angry. But you have to get over it and get a grip so that you can move on. If you have resigned, then you should not contact the company. Take a clean break and start with a fresh mind. I urge you to read Ronald's posts again and take his help, support, and advice.
Ronald, you are doing a great job here. Try and keep it up. Meena needs help, but I fear - in this case - more than one person getting involved will only serve to confuse her, as she is too frustrated, confused, and angry. I will keep an eye on this and only step in if I can add something more constructive to your advice. I wish both of you the very best.
Warm Regards, Harsh
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Ronald is trying his best to help and support you; you really should listen to what he has to say. Your posts are extremely confusing and have to be read two or three times to make sense. This is happening because you are frustrated, confused, and angry. But you have to get over it and get a grip so that you can move on. If you have resigned, then you should not contact the company. Take a clean break and start with a fresh mind. I urge you to read Ronald's posts again and take his help, support, and advice.
Ronald, you are doing a great job here. Try and keep it up. Meena needs help, but I fear - in this case - more than one person getting involved will only serve to confuse her, as she is too frustrated, confused, and angry. I will keep an eye on this and only step in if I can add something more constructive to your advice. I wish both of you the very best.
Warm Regards, Harsh
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Mr. Harsh,
I have not resigned from the company; I was removed from the company. Now, the company wants me to join back. They have presented a situation where I need to make a call to secure the job, which I have already done earlier. However, they are not providing a proper response directly.
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I have not resigned from the company; I was removed from the company. Now, the company wants me to join back. They have presented a situation where I need to make a call to secure the job, which I have already done earlier. However, they are not providing a proper response directly.
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Dear Meena,
Please calm down; everybody is not out to trouble you. I cannot imagine the problems you are facing, but I know it can be very frustrating and will make you angry.
As Harsh has said, take a clean break from your old company. Part with them in good faith and get your relieving letter and experience certificate from them.
Remember, as a person, you cannot fight against a company; don't do a Don Quixote in these times. He failed, and so will you.
You have to take care of yourself and your father.
I still do not know your educational background and work experience. You can send your CV to me as a private message on this site.
I have already tried to explain the situation to you and do not want to repeat myself.
Don't you have friends with whom you can sit and talk about your trouble? You need a shoulder to cry on and a comforting hand to help you through these hard times.
It is difficult to move on when you feel cheated and victimized, but why you and not others in your company?
Think about this, did you do something to make some people unhappy?
I am not judging you, just trying to help you dig deep inside to find out the reason why this is happening. Normally, there is a cause and effect to everything that we do or that happens to us.
I trust you will try to keep calm, retrospect, and try to find an explanation to the problem.
But you must find another job first.
Smile; it does not cost anything.
Regards
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Please calm down; everybody is not out to trouble you. I cannot imagine the problems you are facing, but I know it can be very frustrating and will make you angry.
As Harsh has said, take a clean break from your old company. Part with them in good faith and get your relieving letter and experience certificate from them.
Remember, as a person, you cannot fight against a company; don't do a Don Quixote in these times. He failed, and so will you.
You have to take care of yourself and your father.
I still do not know your educational background and work experience. You can send your CV to me as a private message on this site.
I have already tried to explain the situation to you and do not want to repeat myself.
Don't you have friends with whom you can sit and talk about your trouble? You need a shoulder to cry on and a comforting hand to help you through these hard times.
It is difficult to move on when you feel cheated and victimized, but why you and not others in your company?
Think about this, did you do something to make some people unhappy?
I am not judging you, just trying to help you dig deep inside to find out the reason why this is happening. Normally, there is a cause and effect to everything that we do or that happens to us.
I trust you will try to keep calm, retrospect, and try to find an explanation to the problem.
But you must find another job first.
Smile; it does not cost anything.
Regards
From India, Hyderabad
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I think you can't understand English. Please read the mail twice or thrice. Why don't you understand? My system is hacked by LiveConnections. Phones are getting traced, and some other things also. They have done some things where I am finding it difficult to search for a job. I am cornered from all four sides through various sources, and people are also supporting LiveConnections. Please ask Harsh to forward the message I sent to him and then read it carefully. I do not have any friends; all my friends have cheated me. If you really want to help, give me a home-based job. I am good in finance and MS Excel. Any job relevant to this would be appreciated. I have good communication skills; I can get a job anywhere if LiveConnections do not interfere in my life. Many times I approached them directly in this regard, but they are not ready to accept.
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Meena, You are insulting a person who is trying to help. I think you need medical help and do it quickly. Regards
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Ms. Meena,
Firstly, let me tell you one thing. This is, of course, a big trouble for you, which is in fact not a big deal. Mr. Ronald is doing his best, and I would like to appreciate that. You must learn this good thing from Ronald; directly or indirectly, he has made you aware of who you are and what your problem is.
If you have received your experience letter from your previous company, you are safe. If not, you can just tell about your last job experience and why you did not get any certificates or related documents.
To be frank, I am currently working as a placement officer in a B School. I hold some experience as a Recruiter in a consulting firm and later turned as a Senior Executive HR in a corporate office with an overall experience of around 4 years. So, if you could send me your CV, I cannot assure you that I will find a job for you but will try my best.
Moreover, as Mr. Ronald said, please don't burst out here, which may leave an impression on people about you and may also affect your job search.
Wish you good luck.
Regards,
Sri
Mobile: +91-9989922100
Gmail: "sri.kompella@gmail.com"
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Firstly, let me tell you one thing. This is, of course, a big trouble for you, which is in fact not a big deal. Mr. Ronald is doing his best, and I would like to appreciate that. You must learn this good thing from Ronald; directly or indirectly, he has made you aware of who you are and what your problem is.
If you have received your experience letter from your previous company, you are safe. If not, you can just tell about your last job experience and why you did not get any certificates or related documents.
To be frank, I am currently working as a placement officer in a B School. I hold some experience as a Recruiter in a consulting firm and later turned as a Senior Executive HR in a corporate office with an overall experience of around 4 years. So, if you could send me your CV, I cannot assure you that I will find a job for you but will try my best.
Moreover, as Mr. Ronald said, please don't burst out here, which may leave an impression on people about you and may also affect your job search.
Wish you good luck.
Regards,
Sri
Mobile: +91-9989922100
Gmail: "sri.kompella@gmail.com"
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A focused and specialized training is the foundation of any project. If proper training has been provided to the employees or team, it will surely reduce the time required to successfully complete the project. Additionally, it can enhance and develop employees' skills, enabling them to tackle similar projects successfully without the need for further training.
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may i know from which place u are i am need of help i am sorry for this day by day i going mad
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Dear Madam,
With all due respect to your sanity, it is difficult to digest why your past employer is so after your life and putting hurdles in getting you a job in a vindictive manner. With all sincerity and good wishes, none of us here at Cite will be of help to you. Only a psychotherapist or psychiatrist can effectively help you out. So without wasting further time seeking advice here, approach one quickly and get out of this mental cobwebs.
Hope things will turn brighter soon.
Regards, Vinayak Nagarkar HR-Consultant
From India, Mumbai
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With all due respect to your sanity, it is difficult to digest why your past employer is so after your life and putting hurdles in getting you a job in a vindictive manner. With all sincerity and good wishes, none of us here at Cite will be of help to you. Only a psychotherapist or psychiatrist can effectively help you out. So without wasting further time seeking advice here, approach one quickly and get out of this mental cobwebs.
Hope things will turn brighter soon.
Regards, Vinayak Nagarkar HR-Consultant
From India, Mumbai
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