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Dear Friends
I would like to share a file which I have received earlier. Hope it will the correct time to share because today is the Womens day.
I dedicate the thread to all the women members of CiteHR Team
Wishing all the CiteHR Women members A Happy Women's Day.

From India, Kumbakonam

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File Type: pps TheWoman.pps (256.0 KB, 1830 views)

Do you hate someone in your life?

- Then this is for you. So read on for sure at one stretch.

A long time ago in China, a girl named Li-Li got married & went to live with her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time, Li-Li found that she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law at all.

Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered by many of her mother-in-law's habits. In addition, she criticized Li-Li constantly.

Days passed, and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting.

But what made the situation even worse was that, according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had to bow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing Li-Li's poor husband D great distress.

Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-law's bad temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it! Li-Li went to see her father's good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold herbs.

She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all.

Mr.Huang thought for awhile, and finally said, "Li-Li, I will help you solve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I tell you."

Li-Li said, "Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me to do." Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes with a package of herbs. He told Li-Li, "You can't use a quick-acting poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people to become suspicious. Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving.

Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspects you, when she dies, you must be very careful to act very friendly towards her. "Don't argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen." Li-Li was so happy.

She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law.

Weeks went by, and months went by, and every other day, Li-Li served the specially treated food to her mother-in-law. She remembered what Mr. Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper, obeyed her mother-in-law, and treated her like her own mother.

After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Li-Li had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost never got mad or upset. She hadn't had an argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with.

The mother-in-law's attitude toward Li-Li also changed, and she began to love Li-Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that Li-Li was “The Best” daughter-in- law one could EVER find. Li-Li and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter.

Li-Li's husband was very happy to see what was happening. One day, Li-Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his help again. She said, "Dear Mr.Huang, please help me to keep the poison from killing my mother-in-law. She's changed into such a nice woman, and I love her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her."

Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. "Li-Li, there's nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were vitamins to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind and your attitude toward her, but that has been all washed away by the love which you gave to her."

HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how they will treat you? There is a wise Chinese saying: "The person who loves others will also be loved in return." God might be trying to work in another person's life through share this story with others!

Whatever Happens, Life Must Go on…

Happy Women's Day Friends

From India, Kumbakonam
Wow !!! Superb Story with Powerful Meaning Boss It is True everything depends upon our Attitude Regards varsha
From India, Coimbatore

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Hi Bhaskar, That’s a wonderful Presentation and very good story... Thanks a lot for your warm wishes...I appreciate it a lot.. Take care and Have a nice day!!
From India, Hyderabad
On eve of WOMEN’s DAY, I wish all FEMALE MEMBERS of CITEHR a grand success in both PROFESSIONAL & PERSONAL LIFE. Lets enjoy our life as long as we are ALIVE in this world. With profound regards
From India, Chennai
Dear Mr. Bhaskar,
I learned something which made me pursue my career today that is nothing but TRAINING & MOTIVATING. I am sure in our lives we all had been motivated by our parents, brothers, sisters and more. Even today it should be happening. I thought i could deliver the same on PROFESSIONAL GROUNDS.


I strongly believe, everyone in this world possess TECHNICAL KNOWLEDGE, helping us to earn our bread and butter, but most of us doesn't possess certain extra-ordinary skills that makes us A TRUE HUMAN BEING. If i am not wrong, there is something which is making us FAIL in our LIFE.

Henceforth, lets MOTIVATE for a GOOD CAUSE and i am sure ONLY GOOD WILL HAPPEN TO US and NOTHING ELSE....Keep SMILING which is a therapy for holding HAPPINESS at various levels.


Have a nice day....

From India, Chennai
How the World Womens Day started? I mentioned in the Attachment in Tamil Can anyone translate the same in English for the benefit of our other members.
From India, Kumbakonam

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File Type: doc Womens Day - Tamil Version.doc (41.0 KB, 355 views)

Yes Ms. sweetybanku..
Actually women are very special and they are the real reformers of this world. Without women the world cannot be full in any sense. All Positives and Negatives are happening only due to women power and that is the fact.
Cheer up..............

From India, Kumbakonam
Great story Bhaskar...and its very true.................Most importantly its relevant to all HR professional.................the way we treat our employees the employees will treat us in the same way.................
From India, Kolkata
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