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A Guide To Memory Increase

By Rocco Oppedisano

Index

1 - Eight Laws Of Memory

2 - Help Relieve Two Memory Invaders

3 - How Good Is Your Memory?

4 - Is Sugar A Memory Killer?

5 - The Secret Principles For A Super Power Memory

6 - Happiness Is Important For A Good Memory

7 - Remembering Names And Faces

8 - Discovering The Success Mechanism (Within You)

9 - How To Remember (Speeches, Jokes, Books, Poems, Dramatic Parts, Articles and Examinations)

10 - For A Clear Memory (You Must Stop Emotional Disorders)

11 - Healing Foods (For The Mind And A Sharper Memory)

12 - Memory And It's History

13 - The Link System

14 - The Roman Room System

15 - Re-remembering (Remembering What You Have Forgotten)

16 - Frustration

17 - Salt-Free Program (Helps To Relieve Tensions Which In Turn Improves Your Memory)

18 - A Bad Temper Will Cut Your Memory

1 - Eight Laws Of Memory

1. The Law Of Comprehension.

This is the simplest, but also the most important. According to the German writer Georg Lichtenberg,

people poorly remember what they read because "they do too little thinking". The more deeply you

grasp what you memorise, the more easily and the more in detail it will remain in your memory.

2. The Law Of Interest.

"For knowledge to be digested, it must be absorbed with relish," wrote Anatole France. The

interesting and "the appetising" is remembered easily as man does not have to make special efforts, as

the ability to spontaneously memorise comes into play.

3. The Law Of Previous Knowledge.

The more one knows on a certain subject, the more easily one memorises everything new pertaining

to it. Everyone must have noticed that when he opens a book read long ago, he reads it as if he had

never read it before. This means that when he read it for the first time he lacked the relevant

experience and information but by this time he has accumulated them. Thus reading forms

connections between the accumulated and the new knowledge. This is the result of memorisation.

4. The Law Of Readiness For Memorisation.

The reader derives the information he sets out to derive from the text. The same goes for the duration

of memorisation. When one wants to remember something for long, one will remember it in any case

better than when one wants to remember something for a brief while.

5. The Law Of Associations.

This was formulated back in the 4th century B.C. by Aristotle. The concepts which arose

simultaneously summon each other up from the memory bank by association. For instance, the

atmosphere of a room evokes recollections about events which took place in it (or recollection of what

you read staying in it, and this is exactly what you need).

6. The Law Of Sequences.

The alphabet is easy to recite in its regular order and difficult in the reverse order. The conceptions

learned in a certain sequence, when recalled, summon each other up in the same sequence.

7. The Law Of Strong Impressions.

The stronger the first impression of what is being memorised, the brighter the image. The greater the

number of information channels, the more strongly the information is retained. Hence, the task is to

achieve the strongest possible initial impression of the material subject.

8. The Law Of Inhibition.

Any subsequent memorisation inhibits the previous. The learned portion of information must "settle"

before the next is taken up. The best way to forget newly memorised material is by trying to memorise

something similar directly afterwards. This is why school children are advised not to learn physics

after mathematics and literature after history and to learn poetry before going to bed.

Memorisation Advice

Before you set about reading a book, article or document, try to guess from its title what is written in

it (or what you would write in the author's place). The same "forecasting" applies to the heads of

chapters and the first paragraphs of the text.

Before reading (listening and glancing through) think of what information you want to derive, and

what for. This will stimulate your interest and prepare you for its cognition.

Where the author, citing a number of arguments, is going to draw a conclusion, make a deduction

yourself first and only then continue to read.

Before reading recall all relevant information known to you. In other words, "brush up" your

knowledge.

Try to imitate Ancient Roman orators, who learned their speeches pacing up and down and

"establishing connections" between the text and the atmosphere of their homes and then would recall

the speech by taking "mental strolls".

If you want to memorise a text in detail don't learn it piecemeal. Learn the whole text, and learn it in

its natural sequence.

To avoid forgetting the name of a new acquaintance, strengthen the first impression left by him by

repeating his name aloud ("Excuse me, have I heard you right?"), using it in the conversation and

when parting. Write down this name, if only with your finger in the air. imagine in whose honour this

man may have been named, etc.

Try to evoke the strongest possible emotions connected with the information you memorise.

Incidentally, this is exactly what Lenin did. The margins of the books he read bristle with categorical

and profoundly emotional notes: "True!", "What nonsense!", "Ha-ha!", and "You've hit the nail on the

head!"

When preparing for intensive mental efforts consider the state you are in at the moment. Sadness,

irritation, uncertainty and fear are enemies of memory.

Never write down things without an attempt to grasp and memorise them!

To these rules you may add a host of your own, based on the laws of memory. In short, the knowledge

of these laws will enable you to memorise much more than before even if you had complaints about

your memory.

Abridged from the Russian magazine EKO

2 - Help Relieve Two Memory Invaders

Two leading causes of emotional unrest and mental breakdown are mental depression and hysteria.

Where chemotherapy was once used exclusively to treat them, now doctors are beginning to use

nutritional therapy.

To understand how proper nutrition can help us meet the emotional challenges of daily living, we

need to understand the nature of these two distressing conditions:

(1) Mental Depression.

Known as "the blues" or "hanging on", this is a melancholy and downcast mood. When extreme and

prolonged, it may lead to more serious disorders. Typical emotional symptoms include fear, anxiety,

worry, indecision, pessimism, brooding and unwillingness to co-operate.

Involutional melancholia is a form of mental depression seen in late middle-age, more commonly in

women than in men, and appears to have some relationship with the change in the endocrine pattern

that follows the middle years. Here is where proper nutrition may help to boost endocrine substances

and maintain a healthful glandular balance.

To a certain extent, depression is also a psychosomatic illness. When a depressed person comes to the

doctor and says he aches here or there, he is constipated, he can't taste his food, he may not be

imagining it. Many emotionally depressed people do have endocrine and neuromuscular or autonomic

system dysfunctions.

During emotional depression there is a major functional disruption of the autonomic nerves, the

adrenal, the thyroid, which upsets the homeostasis (body balance) of the organism. Prolonged

depression may lead to tissue depletion, forms of arthritis and ulcers. To tell the individual "it's all in

your mind" is to do him a disservice. These days many doctors are seeking nutritional means to help

restore body homeostasis and ease depression.

Hysteria.

Usually regarded as a "neurosis", this emotional disruption is often marked by shouting, gesticulating,

wild weeping and other similar behaviour. Often a temper tantrum is a good example of hysteria. The

hysterical person often converts his emotional conflicts into physical symptoms.

Because of prolonged stress and neurological abuse, hysteria can lead to visual disturbances, hearing

defects, paralysis, choking, convulsions, pains and fever. A number of doctors have found that

corrective food programs with emphasis on certain vitamins, minerals, proteins can help boost

resistance to stress and ease the problem. Let's see what has been reported:

A Doctor's Plan For "Mind Food".

Dr. George A. Wilson spent over 40 years in practice, testing some thousands of patients who were

victims of depression and hysteria and who had physical ailments induced by the emotional upsets. He

believes that a delicate acid-alkaline balance is necessary to boost healthful metabolism and to feed

the body the nutrients that then work to feed the mind.

Writing in A New Slant to Diet, Dr. Wilson reports that (1) the more alkaline in the digestive system,

the more nervous the person is; (2) the more acid, the more he is able to digest nutrients and be able to

fight problems of stress. He feels that a balance — which he terms "bio-electric force" — would help

the body withstand tensions and strains and help heal emotional disorders.

Dr. Wilson lists six stress-tension disorders that disturb the acid balance and lead to alkalinity.

Furthermore, such stresses destroy the body supply of Vitamin C — ascorbic acid — needed by the

adrenal glands to help boost emotional health. The key to better health, Dr. Wilson believes, is to

avoid these six stress-tension situations: shocks, keen disappointments, intense emotional upsets,

excess fear and worry, overwork and inadequate rest. Dr. Wilson also notes that most people have:

(1) More acid in the afternoon, more alkaline in early morning.

(2) More acid in summer, more alkaline in winter.

(3) More acid during exercise, more alkaline during rest.

(4) More alkaline when chilled, tired, chronically sick or at the onset of illness.

To boost the acid-reserves in the early morning, in winter, during prolonged rest and during the onset

of an illness, Dr. Wilson suggests taking a "tonic" of one tablespoon of apple cider vinegar and honey

in a glass of water at those times. He also recommends it when a person feels tired, irritable, has cold

hands and feet (often a symptom of choked-up, tension-induced poor circulation); for aches and

stiffness, and digestive upset.

Also, any fresh fruit juice will provide a good supply of vital nutrients as well as the acid needed to

maintain a proper balance. Needless to say, Dr. Wilson's tonic should get your own doctor's okay

before you take it. There may be some other reason for your symptoms.

Dr. Wilson further suggests eating properly balanced meals to help stabilise metabolism. He suggests

the reduction or elimination of starches and sweets, and he offers this program to his patients:

(1) Meat once a day. Other proteins were acceptable at other meals.

(2) One slice of whole-grain, unbleached bread daily.

(3) Select vegetables whose leaves are exposed to the sun's rays. Examples: alfalfa, celery (stalks and

leaves), dandelion greens, endive, kale, mustard greens, turnip leaves, watercress, parsley, asparagus,

red-beet leaves and carrot leaves.

(4) Eat fruit between meals rather than with meals. Dr. Wilson's theory: fruits do not necessarily

energise but they do cleanse and are important between meals to help prepare the digestive system for

the next meal. (Note: Other findings indicate that natural fruit sugar helps promote energy, but Dr.

Wilson feels that in combination with other foods, the energising effect is somewhat abated.)

Dr. Wilson also warns his nervous and tense patients NOT to eat a heavy meal at night. This leads to

tossing and turning and prolonged emotional stress.

The doctor may well be on the threshold of healing mental depression and hysteria through corrective

nutrition. At any rate, he reports being able to "emotionally strengthen" hundreds of patients with his

natural foods program.

How Magnesium Helps Ease Nervous Tremors.

The mineral magnesium has been hailed as a "nerve food" by leading physicians. A team of doctors

reported to the Journal of the American Medical Association on its emotion-healing power. Here are

some of its reported benefits.

Magnesium therapy soothed such emotion-based problems as irritability, anxiety, muscle weakness,

unsteady gait, staggering, vertigo-twitching, numbness, and cramps in hands and feet. It was also

suggested for anyone feeling depression, or hysteria, or some other related emotional upsets coming

on, as a soothing and all-natural relaxer.

Food sources of magnesium include green leafy vegetables, liver, meat, eggs, whole grain products.

Blackstrap molasses and whole wheat products like wheat germ are other good sources.

According to Mildred S. Seelig, M.D., in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, patients with

emotional disorders who need magnesium should have this minimum intake: 385 milligrams daily for

a 140-lb. woman; 500 milligrams daily for a 185-lb. man. Says Dr. Seelig: "The diet should be

supplemented with magnesium at least until equilibrium is noted and then possibly reduced to meet

the body need." Correct dosage, of course, is up to the physician.

That magnesium therapy can work is pointed up in the case of a 68-year-old man, who, following an

abdominal operation, suddenly became irrational, noisy, wildly restless, confused and combative. His

case, reported in the American Journal of Internal Medicine (1955), describes how he experienced

hallucinations, was depressed and also-showed symptoms of hysteria. His brain and heart pattern were

abnormal.

Vitamins, dextrose, potassium and calcium were prescribed without much help. Then the doctors gave

him magnesium and calcium. In 18 hours, after he received the magnesium prescription, the man was

rational, oriented and reported to be completely free of neuro-muscular disorder. In three days, he was

up and around.

Calcium To Calm The Nervous System.

Researcher Catharyn Elwood in Feel Like a Million, lauds the use of calcium to help calm the nervous

system. She explains:

"Without calcium, in solution in the blood, the nerves cannot send messages. The nerves become

tense. They cannot relax. In children, this shows in unpleasant dispositions, temper tantrums and easy,

fretful crying. In serious deficiencies, the muscles twitch, have spasms and even convulsions. In

adults, they show calcium deficiencies with nervous habits such as finger tapping and tensing of the

foot, or swinging it when the leg is crossed. They are impatient and snap at their loved ones when they

really want to be patient and kind. They are easily annoyed, jump at slight noises and often are

grouchy. They become restless and cannot sit still very long. They usually suffer from insomnia."

Dairy products, turnip and mustard greens, collards, kale, broccoli are natural food sources of

calcium. Calcium tablets are available. Catharyn Elwood suggests:

"For nerves to relax and to send your impulses, you need calcium. No calcium can be absorbed unless

phosphorus and Vitamin D are also on the job. See that you get at least two grams of calcium and

never less than one hour of sunbathing or 800 to 4000 units of Vitamin D daily. Use a safe, raw milk

and unrefined vegetable oils."

She also recommends magnesium, Vitamins B1 and B6 as mineral-vitamin emotion "soothers":

"Vitamin BI is the most important nerve relaxer of all the B-complex vitamins ... Lack of Vitamin B1

indirectly starves the nerves, for their one and only food is sugar. Sugar comes from completely

digesting carbohydrates, which is impossible if B1 is lacking ... Vitamin B6 (pyridoxine) is gaining

fame as another important member of the family for calm and steady nerves."

The "Nerve-Building Vitamin".

To meet the challenge of emotional stress with proper nutrition, doctors have found that one nutrient

— Vitamin B12 — has an amazing power to insulate the nervous system against emotional upset.

A deficiency of Vitamin B12 may adversely affect the nervous system, writes J. MacDonald Holmes,

M.D. in Medical News (4:67). Dr. Holmes makes note of the fact that Vitamin B12 helps to maintain

the integrity of the "myalin sheath", the fat like substance which forms a protective insulating sleeve

around delicate nerve fibres. A deficiency can cause such emotional symptoms as tingling sensations

in the limbs, numbness, shooting pains and feelings of hot and cold. The limbs feel stiff and weak, and

sensations of touch, pain and temperature are blunted.

3 - How Good Is Your Memory?

Your memory is phenomenal.

1. Most people remember fewer than 10 per cent of the names of those whom they meet.

2. Most people forget more than 99 per cent of the phone numbers given to them.

3. Memory is supposed to decline rapidly with age.

4. Many people drink, and alcohol is reputed to destroy 1000 brain cells per drink.

5. Internationally, across races, cultures, ages and education levels, there is a common experience, and

fear of, having an inadequate or bad memory.

6. Our failures in general, and especially in remembering, are attributed to the fact that we are 'only

human', a statement that implies that our skills are inherently inadequate.

Your memory does decline with age, but only if it is not used. Conversely, if it is used, it will continue

to improve throughout your lifetime.

There is no evidence to suggest that moderate drinking destroys brain cells. This misapprehension

arose because it was found that excessive drinking, and only excessive drinking, did indeed damage

the brain.

Across cultural and international boundaries 'negative experience' with memory can be traced not to

our being 'only human' or in anyway innately inadequate but to two simple, easily changeable factors:

(1) negative mental set and (2) lack of knowledge.

Negative Mental Set

There is a growing and informal international organisation, which I choose to name the 'I've Got an

Increasingly Bad Memory Club'. How often do you hear people in animated and enthusiastic

conversation saying things like, 'You know, my memory's not nearly as good as it used to be when I

was younger; I'm constantly forgetting things'. To which there is an equally enthusiastic reply: 'Yes, I

know exactly what you mean; the same thing's happening to me ...' And off they dodder, arms draped

around each other's shoulders, down the hill to mental oblivion. And such conversations often take

place between thirty-year-olds!

Consider the younger supermemoriser to whom most people romantically refer. If you want to check

for yourself, go back to any school at the end of a day, walk into a classroom of a group of five to

seven-year-old children after they have gone home and ask the teacher what has been left in the

classroom (i.e. forgotten). You will find the following items: watches, pencils, pens, sweets, money,

jackets, physical education equipment, books, coats, glasses, erasers, toys, etc.

The only real difference between the middle-aged executive who has forgotten to phone someone he

was supposed to phone and who has left his briefcase at the office, and the seven-year-old child who

realises on returning home that he's left at school his watch, his pocket-money and his homework is

that the seven-year-old does not collapse into depression, clutching his head and exclaiming, 'Oh,

Christ, I'm seven years old and my memory's going!'

Ask yourself, 'What is the number of things I actually remember each day?' Most people estimate

somewhere between 100 and 10,000. The answer is in fact in the multiple billions. The human

memory is so excellent and runs so smoothly that most people don't even realise that every word they

speak and every word they listen to are instantaneously produced for consideration, recalled,

recognised precisely and placed in their appropriate context.

Nor do they realise that every moment, every perception, every thought, everything that they do

throughout the entire day and throughout their lives is a function of their memories. In fact, its

ongoing accuracy is almost perfect. The few odd things that we do forget are like odd specks on a

gigantic ocean. Ironically, the reason why we notice so dramatically the errors that we make is that

they are so rare.

There is now increasing evidence that our memories may not only be far better than we ever thought

but may in fact be perfect. Consider the following arguments for this case:

1. Dreams

Many people have vivid dreams of acquaintances, friends, family and lovers of whom they have not

thought for as many as twenty to forty years. In their dreams, however, the images are perfectly clear,

all colours and details being exactly as they were in real life. This confirms that somewhere in the

brain there is a vast store of perfect images and associations that does not change with time and that,

with the right trigger, can be recalled.

2. Surprise Random Recall

Practically everyone has had the experience of turning a comer and suddenly recalling people or

events from previous times in his life. This often happens when people revisit their first school. A

single smell, touch, sight or sound can bring back a flood of experiences thought to be forgotten. This

ability of any given sense to reproduce perfect memory images indicates that if there were more

correct 'trigger situations' much more would and could be recollected. We know from such

experiences that the brain has retained the information.

3. The Russian 'S'

In the early part of this century a young Russian journalist (in The Mind of a Mnemonist, by A. R.

Luria, he is referred to as 'S') attended an editorial meeting, and it was noted to the consternation of

others that he was not taking notes. When pressed to explain, he became confused; to everyone's

amazement, it became apparent that he really did not understand why anyone should ever take notes.

The explanation that he gave for not taking notes himself was that he could remember what the editor

was saying, so what was the point? Upon being challenged, 'S' reproduced the entire speech, word for

word, sentence for sentence, and inflection for inflection.

For the next thirty years he was to be tested and examined by Alexander Luria, Russia's leading

psychologist and expert on memory. Luria confirmed that 'S' was in no way abnormal but that his

memory was indeed perfect. Luria also stated that at a very young age 'S' had 'stumbled upon' the

basic mnemonic principles (see pages 39ff.) and that they had become part of his natural functioning.

'S' was not unique. The history of education, medicine and psychology is dotted with similar cases of

perfect memorisers. In every instance, their brains were found to be normal, and in every instance

they had, as young children, 'discovered' the basic principles of their memory's function.

4. Professor Rosensweig's Experiments

Professor Mark Rosensweig, a Californian psychologist and neurophysiologist, spent years studying

the individual brain cell and its capacity for storage. As early as 1974 he stated that if we fed in ten

new items of information every second for an entire lifetime to any normal human brain that brain

would be considerably less than half full. He emphasised that memory problems have nothing to do

with the capacity of the brain but rather with the self-management of that apparently limitless

capacity.

5. Professor Penfield's Experiments

Professor Wilder Penfield of Canada came across his discovery of the capacity of human memory by

mistake. He was stimulating individual brain cells with tiny electrodes for the purpose of locating

areas of the brain that were the cause of patients' epilepsy.

To his amazement he found that when he stimulated certain individual brain cells, his patients were

suddenly recalling experiences from their past. The patients emphasised that it was not simple

memory, but that they actually were reliving the entire experience, including smells, noises, colours,

movement, tastes. These experiences ranged from a few hours before the experimental session to as

much as forty years earlier.

Penfield suggested that hidden within each brain cell or cluster of brain cells lies a perfect store of

every event of our past and that if we could find the right stimulus we could replay the entire film.

6. The Potential Pattern-Making Ability of Your Brain

Professor Pyotr Anokhin, the famous Pavlov's brightest student, spent his last years investigating the

potential pattern-making capabilities of the human brain. His findings were important for memory

researchers. It seems that memory is recorded in separate little patterns, or electromagnetic circuits,

that are formed by the brain's interconnecting cells.

Anokhin already knew that the brain contained a million million (1,000,000,000,000) brain cells but

that even this gigantic number was going to be small in comparison with the number of patterns that

those brain cells could make among themselves. Working with advanced electron microscopes and

computers, he came up with a staggering number.

Anokhin calculated that the number of patterns, or 'degrees of freedom', throughout the brain is, to use

his own words, 'so great that writing it would take a line of figures, in normal manuscript characters,

more than ten and a half million kilometres in length. With such a number of possibilities, the brain is

a keyboard on which hundreds of millions of different melodies can be played'.

Your memory is the music.

7. Near-Death-Type Experiences

Many people have looked up at the surface ripples of a swimming pool from the bottom, knowing that

they were going to drown within the next two minutes; or seen the rapidly disappearing ledge of the

mountain from which they have just fallen; or felt the oncoming grid of the 10-ton lorry bearing down

on them at 60 miles per hour. A common theme runs through the accounts that survivors of such

traumas tell. In such moments of 'final consideration' the brain slows all things down to a standstill,

expanding a fraction of a second into a lifetime, and reviews the total experience of the individual.

When pressed to admit that what they had really experienced were a few highlights, the individuals

concerned insisted that what they had experienced was their entire lire, including all things they had

completely forgotten until that instant of time. 'My whole life flashed before me' has almost become a

clich้ that goes with the near-death experience. Such a commonality of experience again argues for a

storage capacity of the brain that we have only just begun to tap.

8. Photographic Memory

Photographic, or eidetic, memory is a specific phenomenon in which people can remember, usually

for a very short time, perfectly and exactly anything they have seen. This memory usually fades, but it

can be so accurate as to enable somebody, after seeing a picture of 1000 randomly sprayed dots on a

white sheet, to reproduce them perfectly. This suggests that in addition to the deep, long-term storage

capacity, we also have a shorter-term and immediate photographic ability. It is argued that children

often have this ability as a natural part of their mental functioning and that we train it away by forcing

them to concentrate too much on logic and language and too little on imagination and their other

range of mental skills.

9. The 1000 Photographs

In recent experiments people were shown 1000 photographs, one after the other, at a pace of about

one photograph per second. The psychologists then mixed 100 photographs with the original 1000,

and asked the people to select those they had not seen the first time through. Everyone, regardless of

how he described his normal memory, was able to identify almost every photograph he had seen — as

well as each one that he had not seen previously. They were not necessarily able to remember the

order in which the photographs had been presented, but they could definitely remember the image —

an example that confirms the common human experience of being better able to remember a face than

the name attached to it. This particular problem is easily dealt with by applying the Memory

Techniques.

10. The Memory Techniques

The Memory techniques, or mnemonics, were a system of 'memory codes' that enabled people to

remember perfectly whatever it was they wished to remember. Experiments with these techniques

have shown that if a person scores 9 out of 10 when using such a technique, that same person will

score 900 out of 1000, 9000 out of 10,000, 900,000 out of 1,000,000 and so on. Similarly, one who

scores perfectly out of 10 will score perfectly out of 1,000,000. These techniques help us to delve into

that phenomenal storage capacity we have and to pull out whatever it is that we need.

4 - Is Sugar A Memory Killer?

Sugar is a non-food. It is a pure carbohydrate that offers illusion of energy, only to cause a downhill

slump after the initial burst has worn off. Sugar further contributes to emotional upset because it "sops

up" the Vitamin B-complex during metabolism.

These vitamins nourish the nervous system. As has been pointed out, a deficiency may lead to

emotional upset. Sugar, by its depleting action, may cause a deficiency. By upsetting the delicate

blood-sugar levels, it may cause a mind-bending, mind-destroying action. It has been reported to

distort mentality, trigger erratic behaviour and memory loss.

Joseph Wilder, M.D., writing in The Nervous Child, blames excess sugar consumption for the fact

that so many children display neurotic symptoms. Youngsters, according to Dr. Wilder, consume a lot

of sugar in their cravings for sweets and so are more susceptible to these emotional disorders. Because

of this, they face a serious threat in their mental health "for the importance of nutrition for mental (and

physical) functioning is much greater in children than in adults".

An excess of sugar, says Dr. Wilder, is emotionally hazardous. "In adults faulty or insufficient

nutrition may alter or impair specific or general mental functions, and eventually cause reparable or

even irreparable structural damage of the central nervous system. In children, we face a serious

additional factor. The development of the brain may be retarded, stopped, altered, and thus the mental

functions may become impaired in indirect and not less serious ways".

Sugar metabolism leaches out the nerve-breeding vitamins and distress signals are noted. The person

overeats or does not want to eat at all. Often, memory is impaired. Nightmares, sleepwalking, poor

learning, absent-mindedness, mischievousness, inability to get things done — all these may result.

"Laziness may be caused by hypoglycemia (low blood sugar)," says Dr. Wilder, "with mental fatigue,

dullness, indifference, lack of initiative and above all, severe inability to make decisions".

A serious condition of an overloaded sugar system may lead to violence. Dr. Wilder explains, "The

child may be neurotic, psychopathic or have criminal tendencies and be subject to anxiety, running

away tendencies, aggressiveness, a blind urge to activity and destructiveness, with impairment of

moral sensibilities like shame.

"In its simplest form, it is the tendency to deny everything, contradict everything, refuse everything at

any price ... It is no wonder that a considerable number of criminal and semi-criminal acts have been

observed in children in ... [low blood sugar] states, ranging from destructiveness or violation of traffic

regulations all the way to arson and homicide".

Dr. Wilder also says that "the well-known problem of the relation of poverty to crime calls for an

investigation from the angle of hypoglycemia ... In such an investigation, we must also keep in mind

the possible irreparable anatomical damage and arrest of development in young brains caused by

malnutrition in childhood, even if the patient or criminal does not present any metabolic abnormalities

at the time of investigation".

In an article in The Handbook of Correctional Psychology, Dr. Joseph Wilder offers a number of

cases of criminal acts performed by individuals who had a history of high sugar intake and showed

symptoms of hypoglycemia. The crimes included homicide, arson, mutilation.

Throughout Dr. Wilder's report are statements like this:

"After the patient's arrest, his family physician notified the defense that two years prior to the crime, a

sugar tolerance curve (blood sugar test) had shown a tendency to hypoglycemia".

Hitler has been called a "sugar drunkard" and this may have been one reason for his being a triggerbrained,

raving, rabble-rousing maniac. His over consumption of sugar may have created a low blood

sugar condition and the consequent screaming fits of rage.

Hitler's Love for Sweets. Ernst Hanfstaengl, the Fuhrer's personal pianist, in his book, Unheard

Witness, tells how Hitler loved sweets and favoured whipped-cream cakes. There was always a box of

candy around. The pianist writes that Hitler could not drink wine unless he put sugar Into it! In his

early years, when he was in jail, his friends deluged him with boxes of candy, knowing of his

addiction.

Hanfstaengl writes, "Hitler ... had the most incredibly sweet tooth of any man I have ever met ..."

While there certainly were many other factors involved in Hitler's distorted mind, his sugar

consumption may have been the hypoglycemia "trigger" that exploded other symptoms.

Sugar is an artificial creation. The sugar molecule is something like Cn H<2>n On (Carbon, hydrogen

and oxygen). It has no nutrients. It is water soluble and rushes into the bloodstream, spending little

time in the digestive system. It is regarded as a chemical compound and disrupts normal health

patterns of the biological system. It could well cause an abnormal strain on the mental processes.

H. Stutte, M.D., a court physician to officials in Marburg, Germany writing on the problems of excess

sugar in Das Neue Zeitalter, alerts us to the possibility of a connection between low blood sugar

(hypoglycemia) and some auto accidents:

"A person with hypoglycemia who is suddenly overcome in the thickest of the traffic in a large city

with disorders of his vision or a state of weakness ... who reacts incorrectly as a result of loss of

initiative or blurred consciousness, this person can easily provoke an accident in which he himself or

another person can be the victim."

This condition "threatens special danger when it overcomes the driver at the steering wheel and — as

is often the case — this person is not conscious of the fact that he is disturbed and continues to drive

... When a car suddenly cuts out into the opposite lane and has a collision where there are good

lighting conditions on a curve that can be seen well or for that matter even on a straight highway, one

should not satisfy himself with the laconic statement 'going too fast', but also think about the

possibility of hypoglycemia ..."

Dr. Sutte would like to see medical tests given in such cases:

"An intensification of the investigation of the causes (in the area of medicine as well as in the area of

technology) would probably be of essentially greater value for the prevention of accidents than the

continual increase of punitory regulations."

The Sugar Energy Fallacy.

There is a popular -and erroneous— theory that sugar supplies energy. Here is what Dr. Michael J.

Walsh, a nutritionist, has to say about this, in Modern Nutrition.

"Acting on the false-to-fact identification that sugar is energy, people eat more and more sugar in the

naive belief that they are going to get more and more energy. Instead of more and more, they are

likely to get less and less energy — if the more and more sugar is in the form of the 'concentrated,

refined, fermentable carbohydrates' which includes sugar out of the sugar bowl, sweetened gelatin

desserts, sweetened breads, rolls, doughnuts, pastries, cookies, pies, cakes, sweetened alcoholic

beverages, sweetened processed cereals, syrup from canned fruits, etc."

Dr. Michael Walsh explains that this type of sugar reduces energy because it is "not likely to be

accompanied by sufficient quantities of other factors (such as Vitamin B1) which are needed to ensure

the completion of the intermediate stages of carbohydrate metabolism ... A consequence of failure to

complete the energy transformation is fatigue ..."

Consumer Bulletin had the following item of interest regarding the so-called energy power of sugar:

"The 'quick energy' that comes from carbohydrates and is so much praised in advertising of the sugar

interests is short-lived. The malnourished Child who is fed much sugar will quickly lose interest in

activity after his bottle of soft drink or an ice cream soda, and soon sink back into his prior passive

state".

Many parents may be guilty of inducing mental sluggishness in a child by allowing him to overload

his system with sugar-containing foods.

A Sugar-Free Program For Marital Problems.

A California physician has suggested that many marital conflicts could be resolved if the couple went

on a sugar-free diet. Cecelia Rosenfeld, M.D., writing in the medical journal New Medical Materia

declares:

"One of the prime causes of marital discord — nutritional deficiency — is too often overlooked. In

my own practice, I have found that a surprising number of 'broken marriage' spouses suffered from a

blood-sugar imbalance.

"Many of these husbands and wives showed symptoms of irritability, violent temper, abnormal

sensitivity and extreme fatigue. In most cases, there was no evidence of organic disease. Corrective

nutritional guidance dispelled these unpleasant symptoms for many spouses and in the process often

bolstered their crumbling marriages."

The doctor tells of the case of Mrs. R.L, a 34-year-old secretary. The woman was tired, showed poor

concentration and suffered from chronic emotional depression. Her home life had deteriorated, and

she was separated from her husband. Dr. Rosenfeld treated her with nutritional-therapy. It was four

months before any improvement was noted, but soon after she was able to rejoin her husband and try

again for a happy life. It is believed she still follows the natural food program and has eliminated

sugar from her food program.

Mr. T.E., a 53-year-old business executive, suffered from nervous tensions, including pounding

migraine headaches. The man's wife said he was the victim of such chronic irritability and nervous

unrest that no one could live with him. They were on the verge of a divorce.

Dr. Rosenfeld put them both on an all-natural nutritional program — with no white sugar. In two

months, the husband's headaches ended and he became easier to live with. He and his wife not only

didn't get a divorce, they took a six-month voyage around the world!

Obviously many other factors may enter into marital discord. But know that improper sugar

metabolism and resulting hypoglycemia can make an individual emotionally unstable, incapable of

reasoning out basic differences. It is gratifying that more and more doctors are checking out the

possibility of low blood sugar as a contributing factor when an unhappy man and wife seek help.

Only a healthy body can build a healthy mind. Together, they add up to a healthy marriage!

Sugar And Psycho-Neurotic Disorders.

In his book, Body, Mind and Sugar, Dr. E.M. Abrahamson tells the story of a 48-year-old woman,

P.J., who suffered from claustrophobia, loss of memory and other emotional disorders. She had

undergone expensive psychoanalysis, shock treatments, injections of insulin. She was so depressed,

she no longer wanted to live.

When she came to Dr. Abrahamson he noted from various tests that she was a sugar-holic. He put her

on a high-protein, low-starch and very low-sugar program.

"Within a week, she began to feel better, both physically and emotionally. In two weeks she was able

to travel alone, which had been impossible for her for years."

Through nutritional therapy, P.J. was able to recover from emotional distress when other, more

traditional, treatments failed.

Remember, sugar is not an energy-builder, it is an energy destroyer.

Play it safe. To satisfy your sweet tooth, select fresh fruits. To sweeten a beverage, try honey,

molasses, maple syrup. With some minor and tasty adjustments, you too can help feed yourself a

healthful personality.

5 - The Secret Principles For A Super Power Memory

The Greeks so worshipped memory that they made a goddess out of her — Mnemosyne. It was her

name from which was derived the current word mnemonics, used to describe memory techniques such

as those you are about to learn. In Greek and Roman times, senators would learn these techniques in

order to impress other politicians and the public with their phenomenal powers of learning and

memory. Using these simple but sophisticated methods, the

Romans were able to remember, without fault, thousands of items, including statistics relating to their

empire, and became the rulers of their time.

Long before we had discovered the physiological breakdown of the functions in the left and right

hemispheres of our brains, the Greeks had intuitively realised that there are two underlying principles

that ensure perfect memory:

1. Imagination

2. Association

Whereas, in current times, most of us are actively discouraged from using our imaginative abilities,

and consequently learn very little about the nature of mental association, the Greeks emphasised these

two foundation stones of mental functioning and opened the way for us to develop the techniques

even further.

Quite simply, if you want to remember anything, all you have to do is to associate (link) it with some

known or fixed item.

The Rules

The rules for perfect memory laid down by the Greeks fit in exactly with the information recently

discovered about the left and right brains. Without a scientific basis, the Greeks realised that in order

to remember well, you have to use every aspect of your mind.

In order to remember well, you must include in your associated and linked mental landscape the

following:

1. Colour. The more colours you use, and the more vivid they are, the better. Using colour alone can

improve your memory by as much as 50 per cent.

2. Imagination. Your imagination is the powerhouse of your memory. The more vividly you can

imagine, the more easily you will remember. Sub-areas within imagination include the following:

a. Expansion: the more gigantic and enormous you can make your mental images, the better.

b. Contraction: if you can clearly imagine your picture as extremely tiny, you will remember it well.

c. Absurdity: the more ridiculous, zany and absurd your mental images are, the more they will be

outstanding and thus the more they will be remembered.

3. Rhythm. The more rhythm and variation of rhythm in your mental picture, the more that picture

will weave itself into your memory.

4. Movement. As often as possible, try to make your mental images move. Moving objects are

usually remembered better than still ones.

5. The Senses:

Tasting

Touching

Smelling

Seeing

Hearing

The more you can involve all your senses in your memory image, the more you will remember it. For

example, if you have to remember that you have to buy bananas, you stand a far better chance of not

forgetting your task if you can actually imagine smelling a banana as you touch it with your hands,

bite into it with your mouth and taste it, see it as it is approaching your face, and hear yourself

munching it.

6. Sex. Sex is one of your strongest drives, and if you apply this aspect of yourself to your magnificent

daydreaming ability, your memory will improve.

7. Sequencing and Ordering. Imagination alone is not enough for memory. In order to function well,

your mind needs order and sequence. This helps it to categorise and structure things in such a way as

to make them more easily accessible, much in the same way as an ordered filing system allows easier

retrieval of information than if that same information were simply dumped randomly on the floor.

8. Number. To make ordering and sequencing easier, it is often advisable to use numbers.

9. Dimension. Use your right-brain ability to see your memory images in 3-D.

Key Memory Image Words

In each memory system there is a Key Word. This word is the 'Key Memory Word' in that it is the

constant peg on which the reader will hang other items he or she wishes to remember. This Key

Memory Word is specifically designed to be an 'Image Word' in that it must produce a picture or

image in the mind of the person using the memory system. Thus the phrase 'Key Memory Image

Word'.

As you progress through the increasingly sophisticated mnemonic systems, you will realise the

importance of being sure that the pictures you build in your mind contain only the items you want to

remember, and those items must be associated with or connected to Key Memory Images. The

connections between your basic Memory System Images and the things you wish to remember should

be as fundamental and uncomplicated as possible:

1. Crashing things together

2. Sticking things together

3. Placing things on top of each other

4. Placing things underneath each other

5. Placing things inside each other

6. Substituting things for each other

7. Placing things in new situations

By now it will be clear to you that the systems worked out by the Greeks, and for nearly 2000 years

discarded as mere tricks, were in fact based on the way in which the human brain actually functions.

The ancients realised the importance of words, order, sequence and number, now known to be

functions of the left side of the brain; and of imagination, colour, rhythm, dimension and

daydreaming, now known to be right-brain functions.

Mnemosyne was to the Greeks the most beautiful of all the goddesses, proved by the fact that Zeus

spent more time in her bed than in that of any other goddess or mortal. He slept with her for nine days

and nights, and the result of that coupling was the birth of the nine Muses, the goddesses who preside

over love poetry, epic poetry, hymns, dance, comedy, tragedy, music, history and astronomy. For the

Greeks, then, the infusion of energy (Zeus) into memory (Mnemosyne) produced both creativity and

knowledge.

They were correct. If you apply the mnemonic principles and techniques appropriately, not only will

your memory improve in the various areas outlined in this book but your creativity, your overall

mental functioning and assimilation of knowledge will accelerate at the same fantastic pace. In the

process you will be developing a new and dynamic synthesis between the left and right side of your

brain.

6 - Happiness Is Important For A Good Memory

Memories

In living we all create memories, and we store these memories in a mental tape recorder. We can use

these memories constructively or destructively. What should we do with memories? Keep them in

proper perspective.

I remember on one occasion I was asked to attend a reunion of my medical class. I couldn't accept at

that particular time, but fortunately, twenty-five years after graduation, I attended a class reunion. I

put on my tuxedo and went to the hotel to meet my colleagues, but I couldn't find them; I couldn't

recognise them. When the guests finally seated themselves at their respective tables — those who

graduated before me and those who graduated after me — I looked for my table — the Class of 1923

— and there I saw nine people seated around the table and one empty seat, mine.

I sat down, and the man to my right, a short, fat, bald-headed man, suddenly said to me, "Maltz, what

happened to you? Your hair is grey; it used to be black!"

I looked at his bald head and remembered that he had had beautiful blond hair, and I said to myself, "I

wonder what happened to him?" Both of us abused our memories.

We must learn to use memories only to remember happy moments, so that we can utilise them for the

present undertaking. In doing that successfully, we build memories — happy memories — for

tomorrow. The misfortunes of yesterday must be forgotten, lost in the tomb of time. Every day is a

new lifetime that must be lived to the full: Creatively.

Remember the words of Macedonius (sixth century):

Memory and Oblivion, all hail!

Memory for goodness, Oblivion for evil!

Are You Creative?

Many of us are firmly convinced that people are born creative or non-creative, that only a limited

number of people can create in different generations. Leonardo da Vinci, Shakespeare, Beethoven,

Alexander Graham Bell, and Einstein all used their creative gifts widely. Each one had the power to

use his imagination properly, productively.

What are the characteristics of a creative mind? First, a sense of direction, a goal. Then, a problem,

clearly defined, and all the possible solutions. After that, the selection of the best solution and acting

on it. You must have the ability to forget a problem, temporarily, if it defies solution and the capacity

to rise above failures.

I believe that all of us are creative. We have a creative mechanism working for us that steers us

toward success. For example, the simple exercise of picking up a pencil. We forget that as children we

picked it up clumsily, zigzagging in the direction of the pencil until we learned to do it successfully.

This successful performance was registered in the mental tape recorder for future use. This, in a mild

sense, is a creative effort.

We all can create because we all have imagination. We use it daily without raising it. For example,

when we worry, we use imagination in a negative way to create something that doesn't exist. We

project on the screen of the mind scenes that haven't happened as yet because we fear we will fail. On

the other hand, when we are happy we use the imagination constructively. We picture a worthwhile

achievement of the goal we seek by remembering past successes to achieve pleasure in the present.

We are all made up of failures and successes, and to think creatively we must rise above the mistakes

of the past and use the self-confidence from past successes in our present undertaking. We can think

creatively when:

1. We think clearly about a problem.

2. We think of all possible solutions.

3. We accept the best and act upon it.

4. We forget the problem, temporarily, if it defies solution. The servo-mechanism within us will do

the job for us subconsciously by utilising the ingredients of our past successes.

The greatest creative effort for all of us, great or small, is to create the habit of happiness. This we can

all do by making a habit of it every day, by recalling the happiness of past successes and using this

good feeling in our present undertaking. Remember Elbert Hubbard's words, "Happiness is a habit —

cultivate it!"

Ideas

What are ideas? They are the product of the imagination, of thinking and concentrating on a specific

subject. An idea is a brainchild, but what kind of a child is it? Is it a child born of resentment or

hatred? Is it a deformed child born out of deception and trickery? Or is it a beautiful child born out of

love and encouragement, out of hope and belief? These latter children of the mind and spirit are so

desperately needed in these chaotic times when it seems that a cannon is more important than a human

life, that money is more important than good will, that the destructive thought of taking exceeds the

creative thought of giving.

It is now, this very minute, that we have to search for self-respect, for the assurance that peace of

mind can be ours in this lifetime. It is at this very moment when reason and patience are undergoing

an eclipse, when wars are intended to destroy the world forever, that we must live in the hope given us

by creative ideas. We should strive to build ideas on compassion and humility, on love and friendship,

on taking less and giving more while we are alive, if life on this planet is to be sustained for the

future.

It is at this very moment that man's fulfillment demands that we see the good in others not the evil; see

the hope in others not the frustration; see the joy in others not the sorrow; see the faith in others not

the despair.

Great ideas are truths waiting to be fulfilled, and no idea is worth anything unless and until we turn it

into worthwhile performance for the benefit of all humanity.

Oliver Wendell Holmes said, "The ultimate good is better achieved by the free trade in ideas".

Our Impulses

Should we obey an impulse? We should if the impulse is constructive. Impulses can also be

destructive. When we hate we often, through imagination, dispose of the individual. This creates

negative impulses that have no value because they distort the self-image.

We live every day with imagination. Worry is a form of imagination. Here we throw on the screen of

the mind past failures, which inhibit us in our daily tasks of the present. When we are happy, we

throw on the screen of the mind past successes, which give us the confidence we exercise in the daily

tasks for the present. A good impulse is nothing more than imagination that seeks action to improve

the self-image.

When I was a young man I had the impulse, the desire, to be a plastic surgeon. This was during a time

when the specialty was practically unknown. Despite tremendous objections from my family, I

obeyed my impulse.

I know a doctor who, twenty years ago, had the impulse to be a baby specialist. He loved children and

would have been excellent in this specialty. But he was undecided. He said he'd wait until he had

saved enough money, until he could properly provide for his wife and child. One indecision followed

another and he never became a baby specialist.

Indecision is unbelief. Unbelief is fear. And this constant fear prolongs tension and finally puts us in a

state of paralysis. This scars and distorts the self-image, making us less than what we are, preventing

us from reaching our true stature of fulfillment.

I know a married woman who has two children. She suddenly had the impulse to do abstract painting.

She followed her impulse despite objections from her family. Now she sells her paintings. She has

made her family happy and herself happy. The point to remember is to obey your impulse, the good

impulse. It is a challenge to be happy. It is a chance to put the imagination to work, to reach a

worthwhile goal, to fulfill ourselves.

Remember the words of George Herbert, "He begins to die who quits his desires".

Praise

What is praise? It is a varied expression of love and friendship, and we should use it more often to

compliment someone for a deed well done, for a word well spoken. Why be effusive in our praise of

someone when he is put to rest in a cemetery and can't hear a word of it.

What is praise? Something we all need now and then. Every human being, whether he is a beggar or a

tycoon, a peasant or a philosopher, a student or a teacher, whether he is alone or married, searches

desperately for recognition. One of the greatest goals for every human being is to feel needed, wanted

for something somewhere. We deserve this praise not when we demand it or search for it, but when

we receive it naturally in the process of doing something for others, while we are doing something for

ourselves.

On Stubbornness

Life means change. Your image changes every day simply because you are different every day and the

situations of each day are different; and that is the way it should be. Man progresses by change.

Nature progresses by change — spring, summer, winter, fall. Can you imagine if a tree in the spring

were stubborn and refused to bud and bear leaves, if a flower were stubborn and refused to bloom, if a

vegetable or fruit were stubborn and refused to grow and ripen?

Are you stubborn? Do you refuse to change and grow in stature? Are you resistant to creative living,

to a smile, to friendship, to forgiveness, to the Brotherhood of Man?

Michel de Montaigne said, "Obstinacy and heat of opinion are the surest proof of stupidity".

To get more living out of life you must start getting rid of negative feelings that create stubbornness

and obstinacy, envy, indolence; they all give rise to resistance that makes you shrink to the size of a

microbe.

Are you a microbe or a whole human being? You have the answer within you, if you overcome

stubbornness through forgiveness and friendship to yourself.

There is one kind of stubbornness that is creative. If after sharp analysis you find your beliefs worthy

of humanity, fight for these beliefs. That is not pig-headedness, that is constructive determination,

growth for yourself and for others.

Faith And Belief

Often at the beginning of my career as a public speaker, I would be overcome with the panic of doubt,

a lack of belief in myself, just before I got to the platform to deliver my talk. How would I begin?

What would I say? What mistakes would I make? How could I stand there for an hour and face

hundreds of people? How could I get through? But when the time came, I was there. I carried on

because I had something to say. I did the best I could and I came through with flying colours. And I

learned that many of our best actors and actresses are especially nervous just before the curtain goes

up.

All of us have self-doubts at the beginning of some undertakings whether we are doctors, lawyers,

engineers, teachers, students, poets, or salesmen.

Where does faith and belief come from? From within ourselves. We are faith. We are belief. We are

also doubt and unbelief. We as individuals must make the decision where we want to go in life, to be

the big self or the little self. We must think of our faith and our belief as wings that can make us soar

to our destination, to achieve our goals and reach self-fulfillment no matter how crucial our times may

be.

With doubt and unbelief our creative wings are clipped for the moment and we can't get off the

ground to rise above our self-imposed dungeon. We must thank God for doubt and unbelief. It is our

moral responsibility to rise above them to make something of ourselves through faith and belief.

These characteristics are eternally within us waiting to be recognised, waiting for action. Remember

the words of William Blake:

If the sun and moon should doubt,

They'd immediately go out.

On Knowledge

Aristotle said, "All men desire by nature to know". He wrote this over two thousand years ago but it is

still true today. Of course when he said "all men", he meant everybody: men and women, rich and

poor, black and white, young and old. I suppose there are about ten percent of people who never want

to learn, ten percent who know it all; but look at the potentiality of the Brotherhood of Man when

eighty percent of all people want to learn to improve, to get more living out of life, and to share this

good fortune with others.

Man lives in three worlds: the body, the mind, and the spirit. If he stops eating, something happens to

him physically. If he stops wanting to learn, something happens to him mentally and spiritually. No

food, anemia of the body. No learning, anemia of the mind and spirit. In neither instance can you

move in the world creatively and amount to your big self, because you will be working under severe

handicaps.

Aristotle tells us what we already know, that every American — every human being — needs,

deserves, and should have education. It is as natural for people to learn as it is for them to breathe.

Learning is their nucleus of growth and accomplishment. It is also well to remember that the greatest

adventure in learning is in getting to know yourself better, and that envy, hatred, stubbornness,

indecision, indolence, and fear prevent such an experience. We must resolve to educate our minds to

search for and find our big self.

On Vanity

Thomas A. Kempis said, "He is truly great that is little in himself and that maketh no account of any

height of honour". These words are the quintessence of humility, when one is not arrogant of his

successes nor does he complain about his misfortunes. He insists on living creatively every day, every

minute, to give happiness to himself and to share it with others.

The reverse of this characteristic is vanity, a common trait that infects the mind and spirit of

humanity. As a matter of fact, no one can escape it entirely in a lifetime.

When you have vanity, you have conceit; and in both instances you falsely believe you are more than

what you are which, as a matter of fact, you know the truth — that you are less, much less, than what

you can be. Then, in your secret embarrassment, you scratch for attention, but it leads to naught. It's

like scratching on marble. If the truth be known, you wind up disliking yourself, lost to yourself,

neglecting opportunities to find your big self and worthwhile goals. There is nothing in vanity but

defeat. Perhaps you would think twice before being vain if you realised that you are playing a

depression game, a losing game that automatically makes you a member of the opinionated club; that

you become a little dictator who cannot win, who cannot relax, who cannot sleep.

The cure: Think kindly of yourself, but don't gloat over successes. Be a good friend to yourself and

you will be a good friend to others. Like Thomas A. Kempis said, you will be truly great if you don't

make too great an account of your honours.

Being Yourself

Most people who have failed in an undertaking don't like what they see when they look in the mirror.

Young people particularly are affected by this kind of emotional reaction to a problem that seems to

defy solution. Just remember that as long as you live you'll be making mistakes now and then; and

when you do, it is only natural for you not to like yourself, not to like the image you see of yourself in

the mirror, not to like your little self. The point to remember on being yourself is that you must rise

above your little self. You must rise above mistakes and misfortunes of yesterday. You must try to

reach your big self.

People are mistake makers, but they are also mistake breakers. The business of being yourself — your

big self — is to accept yourself for what you are when you make mistakes. Look at yourself in the

mirror with kind eyes and realise that you are much bigger than any error, any blunder, any

misfortune, any heartache.

You must live beyond your mistakes instead of with them. You must accept your weaknesses, stand

on your feet in moments of crisis, and rely on the confidence from past successes to turn crises into

creative opportunities.

If you don't like what you are, get off your own back. Stop living with this hang-up, because you and

you alone can either like or dislike what you are. Realise now that you can be your better self, your

big self, by rising above your mistakes. That's what successful living is all about. That's what being

yourself is all about.

By Maxwell Mate M.D., E.I.C.S.

America's Wisest Man

7 - Remembering Names And Faces

Remembering names and faces is one of the most important aspects of our lives, and one of the most

difficult. The reason for the difficulty lies in the fact that in most instances the names have no real

'connection' lo the faces. In earlier ages it was exactly the opposite, and the whole system developed

for giving people names was based on memory and association: the man you regularly saw covered in

white flour with dough all over his hands was Mr. Baker; the man you regularly saw in his own and

everyone else's garden was Mr. Gardener; the man who laboured all day over a hot fire pounding

metal was Mr. Blacksmith, and so on.

As the generations changed and the family name became more and more removed from its original

meaning, the task of the memorisation of names and faces became increasingly difficult, reaching the

current situation in which the name is a word with no immediate associations with the face.

Method for Remembering Names and Faces

You will never again find yourself in a situation where you are introduced rapidly to five people and

hurriedly repeat, 'Pleased to meet you, pleased to meet you, pleased to meet you, pleased to meet you,

pleased to meet you', having been introduced only to the five pairs of shoes at which you look in

embarrassment because you know you are immediately going to forget all the names anyway (which

you do!).

Memory Steps

1. Mental Set. Before you enter a situation in which you will meet people, mentally prepare yourself

to succeed and not to fail. Many people enter such situations 'knowing' that they have a bad memory

for names and faces and consequently set about proving it to themselves. If you 'know' that your

memory is going to improve, you will notice immediate improvement. When preparing yourself for

meeting people, try to make sure that you are as poised and relaxed as possible and, also, that

wherever possible you have given yourself a two-to five-minute break for p

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