Please read the full message. A very thought-provoking speech by Sundar Pichai, an IIT-MIT alumnus and Global Head of Google Chrome:
The Cockroach Theory for Self Development:
At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and landed on a lady. She started screaming out of fear. With a panic-stricken face and trembling voice, she began jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach. Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also became panicky. The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away, but it landed on another lady in the group. Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama. The waiter rushed forward to their rescue. In the relay of throwing, the cockroach then fell upon the waiter. The waiter stood firm, composed himself, and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt. When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.
Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering: was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behavior? If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed? He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos. It is not the cockroach, but the inability of the ladies to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach that disturbed them. I realized that it is not the shouting of my father, my boss, or my wife that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me. It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturb me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me. More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.
Lessons Learned from the Story:
I understood that I should not react in life. I should always respond. The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded. Reactions are always instinctive, whereas responses are always well thought out, just, and right to save a situation from going out of hand, to avoid cracks in relationships, to prevent making decisions in anger, anxiety, stress, or hurry.
A beautiful way to understand... LIFE.
From India, Bhimavaram
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127The Cockroach Theory for Self Development:
At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and landed on a lady. She started screaming out of fear. With a panic-stricken face and trembling voice, she began jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach. Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also became panicky. The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away, but it landed on another lady in the group. Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama. The waiter rushed forward to their rescue. In the relay of throwing, the cockroach then fell upon the waiter. The waiter stood firm, composed himself, and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt. When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.
Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering: was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behavior? If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed? He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos. It is not the cockroach, but the inability of the ladies to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach that disturbed them. I realized that it is not the shouting of my father, my boss, or my wife that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me. It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturb me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me. More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.
Lessons Learned from the Story:
I understood that I should not react in life. I should always respond. The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded. Reactions are always instinctive, whereas responses are always well thought out, just, and right to save a situation from going out of hand, to avoid cracks in relationships, to prevent making decisions in anger, anxiety, stress, or hurry.
A beautiful way to understand... LIFE.
From India, Bhimavaram
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