An Interpersonal Skills Lesson-The Triple Filter Test

Jo Verde
In ancient Greece, Socrates was reputed to hold knowledge in high esteem. One day one fellow met the great philosopher and said, "Do you know what I just heard about your friend?”

"Hold on a minute," Socrates replied. "Before telling me anything, I'd like you to pass a little test. It's called the Triple Filter Test." "Triple filter?” "That's right," Socrates continued. "Before you talk to me about my friend, it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you're going to say. That's why I call it the triple filter test.”

“The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?" "No," the man said, "Actually I just heard about it and…." "All right," said Socrates. "So, you don't know if it's true or not…”

“Now let's try the second filter, the filter of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my friend something good?” "No, on the contrary...” "So," Socrates continued, "You want to tell me something bad about him, but you're not certain it's true.”

“You may still pass the test though, because there's one filter left: the filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be useful to me?" "No, not really."

"Well," concluded Socrates, "If what you want to tell me is neither true, nor good, nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?"

This is the reason why Socrates was a great philosopher and held in such high esteem. Friends, use this triple filter each time u hear loose talk about any of your near and dear friends, colleagues and yes, even those you are not fond of.

Regards to all,

JEV
morganrookie
Hi Jev,

It's a good moral, man. Keep it up. Post something like this that helps us to be human by the end of the day.
sdhanaraj
Nice thought! It really made me think! Keep posting! Loved the Triple Filter Test. I will make sure to use it in my life and share it with others!

Don't be afraid of pressure. Remember, pressure is what turns a lump of coal into a diamond.
rkjain29
Thanks for sharing because I have never ever thought like this before. It's magic that can save us from indulging in those disgusting things.
Rajmelkan
Hi JEV, a "gem" of a message you have conveyed. It is worth sharing because it is absolutely true, good, and very useful. Indeed, a great post.
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