Understanding the Woman in Your Life: What Every Guy Should Know for a Happy Marriage

Hi Friends,

It's really amazing.... If everyone understands this I think all will have very happy married life... Please take a time to read this!

For guys...Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry withthese facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;

Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements…

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your name and even your ways…

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while yousleep, she tries hard to fit her in new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more…and yet never ever expected to complain; to be, a cook, a mother,

a wife… and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her…

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her..

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this...

Regards

VR Kadam

Dear Mr. Kadam,

It is indeed a wonderful article regarding marrying a working girl. However, before marrying a working girl, a man (presumably mature) must be ready to compromise on many things, set aside any ego factors, and be willing to share in every aspect with his partner. This includes sharing all household responsibilities as mutually agreed upon.

If he is prepared for the above, I don't think he will encounter any problems, and both partners can lead a very happy married life, remaining an ideal couple forever.

With regards,
L. Kumar

Hi Kadam,

Its worth reading and great.....everyone should realise this and support corporate woman who really needs the recognition for the effort she takes to make her family and work life successfull. ....

Regards,

Sharmila

Hi Friends,

It's really amazing.... If everyone understands this I think all will have very happy married life... Please take a time to read this!

For guys...Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry withthese facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;

Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements…

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your name and even your ways…

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while yousleep, she tries hard to fit her in new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more…and yet never ever expected to complain; to be, a cook, a mother,

a wife… and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her…

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her..

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this...

Regards

VR Kadam[/b][/quote]