Hi!
I was once told this story about the Pygmalion effect -
A boy named Johnny and his parents were to visit some relatives' place. As part of their preparations, the parents dressed up Johnny nicely and then advised him:
"Johnny, do not ask for cookies from the hosts. If offered, accept only one piece from the plate. DO NOT PUT YOUR HAND IN THE COOKIE JAR."
"Johnny, don't play with decorative items in the drawing room. DO NOT TOUCH THE FISH BOWL."
"Johnny, don't touch the piano at our host's house."
When they actually went to the relative's residence, the first thing Johnny did was to play around with the fishbowl, which eventually fell down and crashed. To divert his attention, the host asked, "Johnny, would you like to have some cookies?" Upon this, Johnny went to the dining table, opened the jar, and helped himself to a handful of cookies. With one hand full of cookies, he decided to let his parents and the hosts talk amongst themselves and went to the piano to play some music.
According to the narrator of this story, Johnny acted this way because his parents had made him aware that he could play with the fishbowl, put his hand in the cookie jar, and play the piano. He realized that it was possible for him to play the piano, have cookies, and play with the fishbowl. He did not care about the desirability of his actions; he only noticed the possibilities of the actions - "I can have the cookies, I can touch the fishbowl, I can go to the piano myself." He never bothered about the "should not" part of it.
Your views, please.
- Hiten