Acknowledging the learning and every contribution made by everyone here, I wish to add my cent to the collection. Being in HR, we humans too have our personality, however we wish. When we handle responsibilities in HR, it is to be all that we can be, contributing to our own happiness as well as the happiness of others.
Integrity and Respect
The main trait at the top of my list would be to have integrity and treat people with respect. Being honest and true to your word will bring you the admiration, respect, and gratitude of others. Nothing improves a person's credibility more than integrity and respect - respect for others, as well as respect for yourself.
I recall my father who, as I was beginning my career, gave advice that keeps ringing in my ears always: "If you have integrity, nothing else matters, and if you do not have integrity, nothing else matters." This applies to every aspect of being human, whatever the profession. HR is no exception, yet to me, it's always the first, as everything else you do is shaped alongside this one characteristic.
Other Important Traits
- Be a better listener, always.
- Be supportive of others.
- Read more and expand your interests constantly. The more you read and cultivate new interests, the more interesting you are to others. When you meet new people, it gives you the opportunity to share what you know and to exchange your views with them.
- Be a good conversationalist. This relates to how much you read and know. Once you have much to contribute, learn how to talk about it with others.
- Have an opinion. There is nothing more tiresome than trying to talk to someone who has no opinion on anything. A conversation has nowhere to go if you have nothing to expound on. If, however, you have an uncommon point of view or differing opinion, you are more interesting and stimulating to be with, professionally or socially (unless you're a know-it-all, of course). A unique outlook expands everyone's perspective.
- Never be shy of meeting new people. Make the effort to meet new people, especially those unlike you. It not only exposes you to different cultures and alternative ways of doing things but also broadens your horizons.
- Be yourself. The next most tiresome thing after having no opinions is trying to be something you're not. Molding yourself to fit in or be accepted usually backfires. Since each of us is unique, expressing that uniqueness is what makes us interesting. Attempting to be a carbon copy of someone else not only falls flat but also reveals a lack of authenticity.
- Have a positive outlook and attitude. Who wants to be around people who are negative, complain a lot, or have nothing good to say? In fact, most of us run when we see them coming. Instead, be the kind of upbeat person who lights up a room with your energy when you enter it. Do it by looking for the best in people and things. Smile warmly, spread good cheer, and enliven others with your presence.
- Be fun and see the humorous side of life at times.
Warm regards,
TSK. Raman
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