my Gosh, sorry but does this stuff still exists-are they for real-, there is all kind of abuse present here if i am not wrong. i would say that being 29 years old with a job, you should not have quit your job in the first place. you should not have a DCA - this is abortion right. why for a shameless person whom you are trying to protect.you should make yourself strong and acknowledge that he lied to you and his whole life is a lie may be. if he is accusing you of being unfaithful in the first few months of marriage itself consider what would happen later. i feel that if you happened to die, he will be happy to remarry again with pomp, getting all sympathetic- seeking sympathy from others. my cousin died of cancer two years ago, her husband is a jerk, before her first death anniversary he had gone through several girlfriends and a marriage and a divorce in the process and now another wedding in the planning. Sorry guys but we should not lose ourselves in the hope that they will do same. like they say in the US ""SUCK IT AND PLAY BALL"" lose him get a job stay with your parents or get a flat and live your life. i am not from india and do not want to be especially with the recent rape scandal, but i am a woman and i understand your pain. take care my dear sister.