Hello Mr Dilip,
it is a good article.
The author( Mr Dileep Ranjekar) has echoed a common misgiving in Indian Societies.
One of the latest movies "English Vringlish" portrays actress Sridevi in a similar plight.
Everyone in her house seem to take her for granted, whereas an unknown French man,
nevertheless, a nice human being, gives her the recognition that she deserves.
There is also a contra view to the subject.Traditional Indian families do not seem to mind it.
There are many who feel that within a house it would be too formal and if stretched might look
even artificial.
The midway approach should possibly be the best in which the warmth within the family is not lost
as much as some is not taken for granted all the time.
V.Raghunathan..................................... ....................................... Navi Mumbai