Requested to please read my comments again. I do not like it when those who call themselves professionals behave inappropriately. I did not know you would be offended by it. Make sure you read my comments again. If you are not able to understand, call me or send an SMS, and I will call you.
I will definitely share your comments with at least 1,000 people as a specimen. This is a perfect example, though I do not wish to comment on what type of example it is.
I never qualify for high standards like yours to abuse and write paragraphs since I am working in an isolated development sector. Apologies for writing these comments. What can I do? Those who taught me (must have been foolish, I guess now) years back used to start the day with peace and harmony and forcefully made me believe that such an environment should be maintained in an organization.
A Call for Clarity and Respect
One more thing, this is to all: I have been working for 12 years and did not get a clue in the initial question. In the future, please explain things so that people like us (or maybe just me, I am afraid) do not fall behind those smart sharp shooters who joined this forum in 2007. Since then, politeness and respect have also vanished. It looks like we backbenchers are left behind in progress.
On Debates and Professionalism
And lastly, how come after commenting on someone's capability, abusing, and harassing, you are running away from a debate? Well, enough of cursing and abusing. It looks like I am being dragged down to the same level to write paragraphs.
I still like to quote again that the lady, instead of being given a written warning, should be informed by someone mature. I still want to know from HRDTIN: will you be able to fire her if she comes again in improper dress?
Apologies and Policy Considerations
And HRTN, please do not take it otherwise. If you feel hurt, I am really sorry (I read mine and should have avoided saying Taliban or Khap).
As I said in an earlier comment, sort out this issue ASAP. If you have not, I am afraid by now the atmosphere will be very bad in your organization.
In this case, what I feel is that the HR Manager acted on his own (I agree now as it is as per your policy, but please change such policies if you can; this is very harsh). But is it not that HR, policy, rules, law, and manuals are to make things better and organized rather than a hateful HR Department?
Examples from Other Organizations
For example, many organizations do not like their employees to go on Facebook during working hours. Agreed, they mention this in their manual, and if the employer or management sees such a thing, they call him or his reporting manager separately and notify him. Even such activities are discouraged in the manual, but there is no provision of a warning letter in the manual.
It is left for the employee to read manuals and understand, and if they don't, help them out. I mean, if I wear a T-shirt last week, how come I will damage the culture of the organization? What if, due to a whitewash, I did not get a shirt, and what if I was on leave and called for urgent work by my boss? Can we be more polite in our working, and can't we restrict warning letters to serious matters?
All up to you. I did not like to offend you or BSSV, but as I have seen and did such mistakes in the past, I do not like others to do it. See, HR is not a post office and not a police; it is a person wanted (for all good reasons) by the employees (workers, managers, employers).
Thanks
Regards,
Rupendra Chahar
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