Success Mantra :Pleasing & Magnetic Personalities

- I will pay more for the ability to deal with people than for any other ability under the sun. – John Rockefeller.

Successful people build a pleasing & magnetic personalities which helps in getting friendly cooperation from others. It is apparent in the way a person walks & talks, his tone of voice, the warmth in his behavior & his definitive levels of confidence.

In an organization where you work you need to relate extremely well with all kinds of people irrespective of their positions & status they hold. You need to get the best out of them at all times.

One need to build a pleasing personality & it is a combination of a person’s attitude, behavior, & expressions.

Here under important steps to building a positive & pleasing personality :.

• Accept responsibility.

• Show consideration, courtesy, & politeness.

• Think win/win.

• Choose what you say rather than say what you choose

• Don’t criticize & complain.

• Smile & be kind.

• Put positive interpretation on other people’s behavior

• Be a good listener

• Live while you are alive.

• Give honest & sincere appreciation.

• When we make a mistake, we should accept it immediately & willingly.

• Discuss but don’t argue

• Don’t gossip.

• Turn your promises into commitments.

• Be grateful but do not expect gratitude

• Be dependable & practice loyalty.

• Avoid bearing grudges.

• Practice honesty, integrity & sincerity.

• Practice humility.

• Be understanding & caring.

• Practice courtesy on a daily basis.

• Develop a sense of humor.

•To have a friend, be a friend.

• Show empathy.

Regards

RB

Hi
That is an exhaustive sharing with a host of points that would be an excellent checklist for individuals to focus upon to enhance the quality of their interpersonal skills. For effective results, I would suggest that those keen to leverage the learning from this post identify a couple of points where they perceive they can improve upon. By consciously working on those aspects of their communication and interaction, they will quickly see the change in themselves.
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