Navigating HR Challenges Through Excel Downloads: Insights on Employee Relations and Data Management

pooja3545_sharma
Hi All,

I am a fresher as an HR manager. Please guide me on what reports I should be making. My Key Result Areas (KRA) are not defined, and my manager is not supporting me at all. I lack a team and support; all colleagues want me to leave this job. What should I do? I am feeling too much tension.
prasenjit.mitra
Hi Pooja,

What I would suggest first is to go to the link below and take the test. Afterward, please let me know your type.

[Personality test based on Jung and Briggs Myers typology](http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp)

It is free. Then we can discuss and find a solution to your problem. Feel free to write or discuss.

Please remember, the easiest thing to do in life is to quit, but I don't think you would like to end this as a loser. So simply get up, get ready, and hit them hard.
eswaa1979
Hi Pooja,

Don't worry as a fresher; you are starting your career as a manager. You have to define your Key Result Areas (KRA) along with the company's goals. Answer the following for better suggestions:

01. What is your company involved in?
02. Who is reporting to you, and to whom will you be reporting?
03. Is there an HR person in the company already?

Eswar
Manager-HR
08056041800
pooja3545_sharma
Hi,

I am very clear on what I should do. I know all my Key Result Areas (KRAs) and have defined the KRAs of all my colleagues. However, I find myself without any support. I am the only one handling all these responsibilities. It is surprising to note that my manager is not interested in assisting me with my tasks. They show no interest in bringing about any changes within the company. Instead, they constantly criticize me. They always seem ready to undermine my efforts. Unfortunately, I am unable to discuss this situation with my director.

The details of my company are as follows:

Metal Profiles Indore

No one reports to me because my colleagues have yet to accept me. There are two individuals handling administrative tasks, managing attendance, Provident Fund (PF), Employee State Insurance (ESI), and the preparation of salaries, which is done by the accounts department. Despite joining six months ago, they are still not ready to disclose this information. I am feeling very anxious.

You would be surprised to know that I have implemented some changes here, particularly focusing on safety, TS (Total Safety) compliance, customer audits, welfare, and recreational activities. I have been successful in making positive changes within the organization. Although all 400 workers appreciate my efforts, they also seem to be causing me trouble for minor reasons. It is quite confusing for me as I am receiving support only from my director, not from my colleagues, subordinates, or managers.
pooja3545_sharma
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pooja3545_sharma
I don't want to leave, but my account's department head told me directly that everybody wants me to leave this job. All other suppliers like Communic and Eicher appreciate my work and have specifically informed my director. They feel jealous. The last time the head of the accounts department tried physical harassment, but I gave him a slap. Since then, I have not been able to do anything related to my work. I am a fresher as an HR manager but have relevant experience in MNC Intel Technologies in Bangalore. I have around 3.6 months of experience. However, in the manufacturing industry, I am very new. So, I need guidance on how I can establish proper HRM here.
eswaa1979
Hi,

In the organization, physical harassment of an employee is a total offense. Why don't you have a word with your director in a polite way and inform him about the things happening? Don't be afraid of anything. Feel comfortable handling this issue.

Eswar.K
pooja3545_sharma
He knows very well... I already told him. He just told me, "I am with you, I am supporting you, so don't bother about them." But how can I handle this without any team? I used to make sure that twice a week there should be fun activities, and I was doing that, but till date, I am the one who is managing it. If I'm not in the office, nobody will manage it. I started publishing a newsletter, but nobody tells me to update it; I only used to find it, take pics, and publish it. Even they are not in favor of issuing offer letters, salary slips, experience letters at all. I did training needs analysis and made a skill matrix, training plan, and decided the calendar, but they don't want any trainings. Only once did I organize a training session for staff, but after that, my manager didn't allow me to do that.

Firstly, I am a fresher for this post, using only my mind. Secondly, nobody is here to guide me on how I can be a good manager. Thirdly, nobody is accepting me and my work. Fourth, I am alone in all activities. The main thing is my boss didn't accept me and most of the time uses abusive language. I am an extroverted person. I am not feeling free to do anything. I am not happy with my current situation, and for the first time in my life, I am taking it as a burden on me and not enjoying my life and work. You might be laughing at me, but I am feeling like crying. Seriously, I am not able to make it fine. I tried my best here, now I seriously need guidance about work and how I can feel relaxed and start enjoying my life.
SyedFaizan0323
Hi Pooja,

I think you deserve a better job. Go ahead and look for a change. I don't think your present company is appreciating your work, and it also seems like they are adverse to change. So, let them carry on with their current process and work culture.

Faizan.
sreeniknr
Dear Pooja,

Don't worry. At least your director is supporting you. It is a great thing. Some people are like that. Nobody likes changes, but things are not always negative. Definitely, it will come under your control. Fight like a commando. Don't give small hits. Watch and wait for a good chance. Once the ball is in your court, then play as you like. May God bless you.

Sreenivasan KP Manager (Admin)
jitender1061
Hey Pooja,

Be strong. Don't look for change; try to change the scenario. It happens with all newcomers. Use diplomacy.
msureshkumarmba2010
Hi,

When searching for a job, upon receiving an offer letter, please resign from your current company. This is due to official politics, so if you are unable to handle it, please consider moving on as there are plenty of opportunities available. Why not work in a different place?

Suresh
pooja3545_sharma
Thank you very much! I will wait for some time and try to discuss with my director once he is back. Please help me know what reports I should have as an HR manager. Currently, I am working on the absenteeism report, total headcount report, new joiner reports, total salary, overtime, bonus report section-wise, leave report, and advance report. What else should I include? What should be my focused areas? Please share some tips to manage it better. I appreciate your messages; I am feeling much better than yesterday. Thank you very much.
jinovjoseph
Hi,

It is better to do your duty without expecting support and help from others. Do it in your own way and style. One day, you will be accepted by all, and it is a good experience (I mean to handle such difficult situations) which you may not get in other firms. So, be positive and continue with your ideas as they will help you to grow at all levels. All the best.

Jino
jinovjoseph
You have already provided the reports you were working on. For any additional information, please direct your questions to your director or the person to whom you are reporting.
pampa nandy
Dear Pooja,

I believe you are like the Lamb of God... it's good, trust me. But please let them know that a Lamb of God can also give them a strong bite. Please ignore such detractors as if they don't exist. Your director is supportive, and that is more than enough. Do take your go-ahead from him only. Do not leave this job unless and until you lose your total confidence. Do your work with full efforts and be strong enough. Just like in cases of physical harassment, give them a lesson by forwarding an official complaint letter to your super dean and then to your local PS, and confront them firmly. I know that you can do it, so take a deep breath, boost your energy, and just go ahead. May God bless you, DEAR.

Regards
saishreya
Hi Pooja,

I would like to suggest some points for you to consider while working in an engineering company:

1) The work culture between software and engineering companies is different. If you have recently joined, take some time to observe the work nature of your organization. You cannot change an organization in just a day or a month; give it some time to adapt.

2) When following your strategies, do not hesitate to seek guidance from your seniors or colleagues. It is important to gain the confidence of your seniors, whether they are from your department or another, when starting a new activity to avoid any negative perceptions.

3) While you may be focusing on HR aspects, remember that it is an engineering company where production takes priority.

4) Stand firm in your beliefs but also show respect to others. Physical harassment is a serious issue, and violence is never a permanent solution. Strive to create a culture of mutual respect among colleagues.

I hope these suggestions are helpful for your professional journey in the engineering field.

Best regards, [Your Name]
Sharmila Das
Dear Pooja,

I read what you have been undergoing. The best thing that I can suggest to you is to try doing a one-on-one with each employee when you find time. Ask them questions about positive and negative aspects and the changes that they are willing or not willing to make. Make a list and arrange to discuss the same with your director. I'm sure this way you will better understand your planning. However, being a woman, I understand the challenges that may arise in the good deed you are planning. Remember, there may be many who say you are wrong, but even one supporter can help you achieve your goals. The more you stress and label it as a problem, the longer it will persist. Call it "Women power," empower your thoughts. The position you hold as an HR Manager is critical and of utmost value. By now, I'm sure you must have understood my message. Take on the challenge and prove yourself!

If you have any questions, feel free to write. Good Luck!

Cheers...
jdeepak
I have been in IT, Manufacturing, and Retail.

I would suggest that you implement policies that not only strengthen your ability to take disciplinary action but also ensure that they are followed by everyone. Restrict your conversations with your subordinates and other managers. Reduce the workload of your subordinates and bring in new employees - this will create a sense of job insecurity which can help in ensuring compliance with your directives. If this approach does not yield the desired results, your new subordinate will be prepared to take over and replace the existing one with ease.

Ensure compliance with the Factory Act and ID Act as they are necessary for every aspect of your operations.

Regards
Sridhar N
Hello Pooja,

First of all, let us know: Are you being paid higher (salary) than others when comparing your qualifications, experience, etc., with those in a similar position in other departments?

How was the previous HR Manager performing, or is this a new position that you have taken up?

Are there any gender biases present?

Are your co-workers senior or elderly while you are younger in age?

How can you incorporate fun activities twice a week? When will you have time, and what type of employees will be involved in these activities?

Do not lose heart; things will settle down over time, and you can relax after 3 to 6 months.

Best of Luck,
Sridhar N
Senior Manager (HR & ADMN)
Madras Medical Mission
Chennai.
pooja3545_sharma
Hi All,

Thanks a lot! I already told my director to set up a meeting with all of us and clarify our work responsibilities. The director informed my manager, but he said he doesn't have time for these nonsensical things. I will try again. Overall, in my company, we have two sections: commercial, which includes Dispatch, Stores, Finance, and HR. Technical team members are open to these changes, but commercial members are resistant. The main issue is the age gap; all these individuals are older, while I am much younger (23 yrs). They have been here for a minimum of 5 years, and they believe accepting these changes would make me their superior. They prefer that I follow their lead rather than the other way around. They tend to argue over trivial matters such as housekeeping, equipment changes, parking adjustments, and other minor issues. They do not engage in any staff activities. Initially, I used to confront them and handle it, but now I lack the energy. I am not organizing any activities, publishing newsletters, updating notice boards, etc. They give me orders without proper explanation, instructing me to follow without questioning. I have been feeling depressed for the past month. I even took a 3-day break to refresh, but I am struggling to find the positive energy to deal with them. I feel drained daily, experiencing headaches and irritation. I have isolated myself, stopped laughing, and ceased organizing Friday fun days. Last week, my colleagues invited me out, but I declined. This situation is the worst in my life. I considered sharing this with my director but hesitated, fearing his opinion. I acknowledge my role in this negative environment and am unsure how to overcome this depression. I am contemplating seeking help from a psychologist. For the past 3 months, I have been trying to manage and hoping for acceptance in my work. I am typically a charming person but struggle with office politics. It has been 5 months now, and I feel like I am sacrificing my career. I have spent around 155 days in limbo. I question if I am on the right path. I have been away from my family for 2 years solely for my career. I wanted to support them and others, but I feel like I have wasted 5 months. I miss my family but can't express it. Yesterday, I joined a group, perhaps guided by a higher power like Shiva, and found good friends and mentors. Today, a colleague inexplicably shouted at me. I have always been polite, but I am neither able to hate nor love them. I feel like giving up, unable to progress in my career, engage in social activities, make my family happy, or even meet them. I am lost and unsure of what to do. Everything seems to rely on Shiva. I have contemplated if I am at fault somewhere and struggle to self-evaluate. Perhaps, I need to change my nature, but I am not there yet.
pooja3545_sharma
I am the 1st Her manager in this company. All are male members here. I am the only female on staff. My pay is around the same as theirs. My qualification is MBA in HR, and no doubt I have very good knowledge and experience than them. I used to publish a newsletter every Tuesday. I organized activities like Friday Fund where anybody can join us, sing songs, bhajans, and share their experience at lunchtime. Activities include "Saturday is black day," "Funky day," Wednesday is white day, where everybody will be in the same dress. For example, on Saturday, everybody will wear a black dress. I used to organize staff lunches and during lunchtime used to organize some quizzes with basic questions like leave procedure, advance procedure, employee reference scheme, etc. I only started this scheme and successfully got 30 workers when we had absenteeism around 50%. After a very long time, I am the one who joined there as their competitor; otherwise, everybody used to follow them. They are very biased people; they will enjoy all the facilities but never let others use them, they always use rough language towards others. I feel everybody has self-respect, and we should not hurt them; we can talk politely.
pooja3545_sharma
For example, I will share 2 trackers. I myself took initiative to manage a track record for safety items. I made a tracker and sent it to them. But now they sent me another one to update, and didn't tell me what was wrong in the 1st tracker which I offered.
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eswaa1979
Dear Pooja,

There is nothing wrong with your format. In stock out, you are mentioning all departments. My suggestion would be to specifically mention which department you are giving how much instead of listing all departments. This way, you can track month-wise consumption in each department.

Eswar Manager-HR
babisolmanraju
Dear Pooja,

I can suggest that HR send the following reports:

1. Attendance reports
2. Daily reports of department heads and other employees
3. Manpower planning & requisition report
4. Review meeting and minutes of meetings report
5. Suggestions for organizational development report

I also have the formats available.
pooja3545_sharma
Request you to share these formats with me. I have done Manpower planning and have the manpower planning format and requisition format, which I have attached. But please share yours as well, maybe I need more changes. Please share all other formats because, till date, I have not done that. Thanks a lot.

Manpower Planning

Stores Department

S.NO Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 3 1 4

Dispatch Department

S.NO Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 9 2 11

Old Press Shop Department

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 39 2 2

Sharing Department

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 3 8 2 2

Welding Department

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 23 10 13 15

Plating Department (Power Coating Machine)

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 5 9 8 17

Plating Department (Plating Machine)

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 4 1 3 4

Plating Department (Crane Machine)

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 1 0 1 1

New Press Shop Department (Power Press)

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 46 43 13 2

Dooring Department

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 20 20 3 2

Tool Department (Turning Machine)

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 4 2 1 3

Tool Department (Milling Machine)

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 2 1 0 1

Tool Department (Surface Machine)

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 3 0 2 5

Tool Department (Drilling Machine)

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 4 2 0 2

Tool Department (Assembly)

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 0 6 2 8

Tool Department (Wire Cut)

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 1 3 1 3

GP12

S.NO Total Machines Available Manpower Required Manpower Total Manpower

1 0 33 10 43
nejati80
Hi Pooja,

As I got your message, you want to bring some changes in the work system. This is the main reason that people do not like you. I am suggesting that you please read and study some topics about Change Management :)

Please let me know if you need any further assistance.
safety.cfs@triway.in
Hi Pooja,

Kindly read the below message by Dr. Gopalakrishanan Tata Sons.

A lot of people leave their organizations because they are 'unhappy'. What is this so-called unhappiness? I have been working for donkey years, and there has never been a day when I am not unhappy about something in my work environment - boss, rude colleagues, fussy clients, etc.

Unhappiness in a workplace, to a large extent, is transient. If you look hard enough, there is always something to be unhappy about. But, more importantly, do I come to work to be "happy" in the truest sense? If I think hard, the answer is "No". Happiness is something you find with family, friends, maybe a close circle of colleagues who have become friends. What you come to work for is to earn, build a reputation, satisfy your ambitions, be appreciated for your work ethics, face challenges, and get the job done.

"Deserve before you desire."

Regards,
Anand
Cho Cho Myint
Dear Pooja,

It seems like you are facing a difficult situation. However, please note that as a newcomer, you may experience the same kind of situation in your next jobs as well. Remember that resistance is everywhere. Therefore, I would like to encourage you to be strong and patient. If you are doing your best in line with your job description, you have every reason to remain strong, but ensure you are also polite and patient. If you genuinely feel that this place is not the right fit for you, then you can consider exploring other opportunities. In the meantime, please remember that this job could still be the best option for you at the moment.

Cho Cho Myint Managing Director
sunil k chacko
Dear Pooja,

In my opinion, take it as a challenge and face it. An HR manager should have the capability to see and address all problems. Don't worry; all problems must have a solution. This type of problem will help you build your career and strengthen your mind. Best wishes, my dear.
saswatabanerjee
Hi Pooja,

Let me give you a different point of view.

First, I think your company made a big mistake. They have appointed a fresher with no (or very little - 3 months) experience as a manager in a new function. It does not work. They should have given you an Asst Manager position or a Mgt Trainee position, reporting to a manager (an open-minded one) and then upgraded your position as you work and achieve things. That way, the change would have come through an existing manager and a senior, and it would be accepted. By the time you get to an independent position, people would have known what you do and how.

Instead, the way they have done it, especially by giving the same salary to a fresher as to people with 5-7 years of experience, you are doomed to face this kind of problem.

You said you are HR Manager.

Then you said your manager is not supporting you. Who do you report to? There is a mismatch here. Is he actually your manager?

Further, you wrote that people are giving you instructions and asking you to follow them without using your brain. If you are the HR Manager and the only person in HR, how can someone instruct you? That makes no sense.

How did you take a handover?

Did you get an explanation of how things were done? For example, did you ask the person doing the salary to explain how they are doing it? Did they understand that you will either be doing it so their workload reduces or that you will help in some parts, which again reduces their workload? Or did you come across as someone who is a threat to their job - that they have no work now that you are going to do that part?

Now that you have already landed in the mess, you need to work around it. (Quitting is stupid, how do you know you will not have the same problem next time?)

1. There is a positive response from 400 workers and external persons you are interacting with. Use that positive and focus on it. Interact more with them and less with the negatives around you.

2. Continue doing the things you had started. Newsletter, notice board, participate in the fundays, etc. How do you know no one is reading the newsletter? There are 400 workers (as you said), are you sure they didn't read it or are not missing it? Even if no one reads or appreciates it, why stop?

3. Reports that you generate and send to your director and to concerned managers, definitely continue. It is independent of the rest of the things. That is a basic part of your job. Over time, people will read and use the data (ensure you are accurate, or else you will be in trouble).

4. It does not matter if a certain section (commercial team) does not accept you. They didn't give you the job. And they are not the ones who need you. You were recruited not for the small commercial team but the whole company, which includes (as you said) 400 workers who need and appreciate.

On the rest, everyone has given a lot of advice. You can make your own decisions from them.
vijaya_kumar2011@yahoo.co.in
Dear Pooja,

Have you taken into confidence your boss? While doing all the activities, please do that. First, give all the credit to him and do all things with his name. After that, you will see the change.

Vijay
Binita B
Pooja,

You seem to be a very hardworking and proactive person with fresh ideas and a strong urge to deliver. A person like you will be an asset to any organization. But I am afraid in your current organization all your talent will go into the dustbin. So while you continue to put up your fight against the rusty management in your current company, you should keep looking for better opportunities elsewhere instead of giving your all to this undeserving organization.

Binita
Bharghavi.D
Dear Pooja,

The negative energy always puts you down. Your self-confidence is high, and I understand you are a person with a lot of energy and have an urge to do anything under the sky. Do not think that you are of a low gender and point yourself as low. Meditate for a while and take positive energy. You are very expressive and also have the magic of words which can turn anybody to your side. Use your negative character towards a positive change. Sometimes our minus points are also helpful to change the scenarios.

You need not please anybody but have to please yourself. If you are satisfied with what you are doing, you need not bother about anybody else. Satisfy your ego and your inner consciousness, and the world is yours. Create your own world, and you will be the happiest person. Do not live in the world created by others.

I strongly believe that you have the capability to handle this situation...!!!
kascco
Pooja,

There is only one thing to do; let them choose either a window or an aisle seat...you have support from your director, what are you waiting for? Demonstrate your power! Fire one or two guys who are misbehaving with you, and you will see in a week's time.

"They do not set out to be the leaders but become one by the quality of their actions and integrity of their intent."

Mohamed
Project Manager
milind.halbe
Hi Pooja,

This is very common. I have faced many such situations, but my advice to you is to wait for a good turning point. Leaving a job will always torture you in the future, and what are you going to tell your future employer? If you have support from the director, then he also knows how difficult your job role is. He wants you to take responsibilities to make such changes that he wants.

Like Sreenivasan wrote, nobody likes change, but people talk a lot about it. When it comes to execution, nobody wants to contribute. Born discipline is a very expensive gift, so do not expect it from cheap people.

Make sure you are really honest with your work and get guidance from the Director. Time is the only solution to solve this problem.

Thanks,
Milind
Manager - HR
shashikanth kanduri
Hi Pooja,

I totally agree with Sreenivasan. You should not give up. Fight until you succeed. Find a small team and try to be friendly with them. Slowly try to implement your ideas. Before you implement, discuss with your team. Don't get frustrated, be calm and cool, take everything positively. Listen to all. Try to understand each department's functions and involve. Probably, you will get your time one day.

"Who is a master of patience is master of everything else."

With best Regards,
Shashikanth.
pooja3545_sharma
Hi All,

Thanks for good suggestions! I would like to tell you that I am a fresher with only 2 months of experience for the post of HR Manager but I have a total of 3.6 years of experience. As Milind mentioned, all staff members are talking about change but when it comes to execution, nobody wants to contribute. At that time, I am the only one who used to fight. In the hierarchy, we have our Managing Director, then General Manager, then Commercial Head, and then me. I have to report to the Commercial Head, who is senior to me. He never gives me any work or guidance that I need. When I joined here, my KRA's were not defined. So, I had a meeting with all of them stating the things I should do and want to do, such as recruitment, compensation, training, performance appraisal, etc.

For example, I sent an email multiple times asking for everyone's Birthday and Anniversary dates for celebration, but no one replied. Despite that, whenever I came in and knew about birthdays, I alone made all the arrangements for celebration. At the end, it turned out well, but the Commercial Head started shouting that we can't afford cakes and decorations because they make the walls dirty. There are so many daily troubles like being told to put heavy safety iron boards in the company campus, which they said is related to HR only. They started giving me all these odd tasks. I took the help of a security guard as everyone else claimed to be busy. If the housekeeping lady was occupied and couldn't provide water within 5 minutes, they would shout at me. When I asked for an MIS sheet, they were unwilling to give it, and the Production Head provided it. If I inquired about the attendance sheet, they said it wasn't updated. They always claimed to be too busy to assist me. I made a checklist for the housekeeping lady and security guard, and they started shouting at me. Even the housekeeping ladies I changed were not willing to listen to me. I would give them instructions, and then my manager would tell them to do the opposite. Before doing anything, I used to discuss with my director and take his approval, but I don't understand what is happening.

Regarding my CTC, I believe I deserve it as my director told me directly that nobody else can work here like me, but he knows I can make everything fine here. He appointed me because he believes I have the courage. However, on a positive note, all workers called me for Friday fun today, singing some songs and sharing. All workers asked me to promise that I am not going to leave. They said I am the only person here who cares for them and works for them. For the first time, somebody has come to this company working solely for them. When I look at them, I feel like I must work for their development. But when I look at my profiles, I am losing relevant experience. They are still not ready to share their salary sheet with me. How much longer should I wait? The General Manager is a smoker who always uses abusive language and has a lot of attitude. They are not open to listening to my ideas. When I started working on Parking management, I had a big fight with all the staff members. The same happened when I started with housekeeping and employee reference scheme. Considering all this, I am unsure how much I should pay to see that salary sheet and other reports to start performance appraisals.

Please review and let me know if any further corrections are needed.
Sravanthimagic
Hi Pooja,

This is Sravanthi. I, too, was very new to the position of HR when I joined. I, too, faced the same problem as you, but with time, my problems were slowly solved.

I understand your situation may be very challenging, but even though you are trying to do something for the organization, I appreciate your efforts. Don't lose your courage.

Now, coming to your points, as you are new to your position, you are very excited to do something right. Whatever you are thinking, my suggestion to you is to take some time after all these incidents. Sometimes, time will show you the solution. Please have patience. HR professionals should have patience. As you mentioned, all your superiors are older, they may not easily accept or be convinced by new ideas because sometimes age hinders acceptance of new things. Therefore, be very friendly with your colleagues as well as with your superiors. Firstly, understand their intentions, try to understand how they listen, and communicate with them in a way that resonates with them individually. Everyone has different thoughts, so make sure to convey your ideas in a way that they can comprehend.

Moreover, as you mentioned, all others are male, and male domination may be prevalent. Everyone may question why they should listen to a woman like you. Don't let this stress you out; think logically from their perspective. They may see you as their opponent now, so try to gradually bring them around to your side. For some issues, time is the best remedy and solution.

According to the present situation, my best suggestion is to set aside your ideas for a few days, listen to them, and act according to their directives. This approach may help in convincing them gradually. Implement your ideas one by one, ensuring everyone is on board. You mentioned only the director supports you, but why not the others? The director may see the company as his own, while others may consider themselves merely employees working for a paycheck. It might not be easy for the director to take action against those who have been working with him for five years. Stay courageous and consider why they are against you, not why they are not supporting you. They may feel intimidated by your competence, so show them respect and obedience. Tell them, "I am less experienced; you have much more experience than me. I have a lot to learn from you." This approach may bring about positive changes.

If you have any doubts, feel free to ask me.
babisolmanraju
Dear Pooja,

I have tried to send seven formats as Management Information System reports. However, the attachments did not support sending through this site. I am still attempting to send the same.

Raju
krishnaok
Dear Pooja,

I read the chain of letters today only, and from all your comments, I think I got a clear picture. First of all, I am not an HR person, so my opinion will be completely different.

As per my understanding, you tried to do something in the organization which they have not heard till now. All your fun day activities, newsletters, etc., were all the baggage you carried from your IT company. First of all, please understand that most of the manufacturing companies, especially family startups, take the function of HR as the old Personal Manager concept. For the managers working in these types of organizations, these are all a waste of time, energy, and valuable company time wasted, which could have been used to increase production.

Try to change your style of working starting from recruitment, attendance, welfare, separation, and then the fun-filled activities. Whatever you do for employee satisfaction and enjoyment in the workplace, they will try to put the spanner in the works. It will take a little time to gain their confidence in you. Don't think that they are not supporting you; first understand they have not done these things in their entire career and automatically take it as a waste of time. Reduce your frequency of activities and then mostly concentrate on the paperwork, which I feel you are shirking now.

You are an MBA, and as part of the curriculum, you have studied change management; go back to your lessons and reread them. Then you will understand where you have gone wrong.

First, understand one thing. No manager's seat is cozy and comfortable. We all put dog ears to sit in this seat comfortably. Be patient; time will tell you where you have gone wrong.

Regards,

Krishna
pooja3545_sharma
Hi all,

Good news! Today, I had a meeting with my director. He asked me something, and I told him directly that I am only doing what he assigned; otherwise, I don't have work to do. I shared all my thoughts. Finally, he said he was very sorry that all this happened to me. He already knew it might happen in the future, but he wasn't fully aware. He assured me of his support, stating that he didn't want to lose a valuable employee like me. He credited me for the recent changes, especially the setup of the new canteen and managing credits. He encouraged me not to doubt my performance and promised to assist me starting from tomorrow with all tasks. He asked me about basic HR activities like performance appraisals, setting KRA's, organizing trainings, and more. He expressed determination to address why certain HR functions were not being carried out and to establish necessary HR concepts in our manufacturing plant.

We agreed to work together to make it happen. I hope to finally define my role, implement new ideas, and gain clarity on where to focus in HR. I seek your brilliant ideas to excel and manage effectively. Your support and insights have been invaluable in identifying areas for improvement.

My boss has acknowledged all issues and committed to a fresh start. He mentioned the challenge of introducing new practices to an experienced staff.

Mr. Raju: Please send me these formats to [Login to view] or my personal email [Login to view], [Login to view].

Kindly send these formats soon so I can begin updating them tomorrow. It's a new venture for me, and I appreciate your assistance.

Thank you very much! Please continue to guide me on the right path as I move forward.
pooja3545_sharma
Hi all,

One more request for help. Can anybody share an experience format for workers who are under contract? There is one person who has been working for around 4.5 years but is under a contractor. Every 6 months, he gets transferred to another contractor. Should I provide him with an experience letter or not? If yes, what should be the format, considering we need to list the names of all contractors under whom he has worked and is currently working?

Please suggest something.

Thanks,
Pooja Sharma
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Hi,

Please find attached the document detailing the existing HR system in my company. I kindly request all of you to suggest a purposeful system and highlight the main areas of focus.

Thank you,
Pooja
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Hi Abhijeet,

Please find the attachment of the requisition form and orientation checklist. Sorry, I am not able to attach the orientation sheet.
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