Some psychologists suggest that expressing anger is the best way of dealing with it. But there is a difference between expressing anger rationally, by calmly letting someone know how you feel, and expressing anger irrationally, by raising your voice and/or losing your temper. Usually, people express anger irrationally: Your anger overwhelms you; You have trouble communicating it and you wind up saying things you later regret.
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