Nicely said, Ankit. Your problem analysis is great, particularly the lines below are 100% true in the current context.
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Passing examinations, securing good grades, and being successful in interviews doesn't mean that things are falling into the right place unless your consciousness and determination to stay on top of your game continue. This can only happen once we undergo thorough training on stress management and other influential factors that are directly related to every individual's performance at work or at home.
I am able to see many factors driving stress levels higher. I also understand that parents are pushing schools to deliver more to their children without properly understanding the basics, like the natural capacities of a child to absorb and use information correctly.
I have tried to write the problems we shared as separate points for our friends and colleagues to help us out:
1. Children are stressed because they have to get good percentage marks, but they are not able to relate the concepts correctly in real life using reasoning, despite scoring good marks. Who shall we blame: Parents, Teachers, School management, or the education minister?
2. Teachers are stressed because the management is driving them to achieve results for the school only in numbers to project for the market. Whom to blame: competitiveness in the market, competition between schools, or demand from parents?
3. The management is stressed because they only think to position their school to be no.1 in the market. Knowledge, stress, low confidence levels in children, etc., are low priorities for them. Who shall we blame? Competitive market, economic conditions (inflation, etc.), survival, or demand from parents?
The rising costs are directly proportional to the current economic conditions. This will remain until our economy improves. This is my opinion, but in India, when the price goes up, it never comes down.
But what is the ROI? Are students able to gain knowledge and improve their self-esteem and confidence? Are schools able to provide an environment where students are having the right fun and developing knowledge?
The cases of depression, suicide, etc., are cases of low self-esteem, disappointment, jealousy, anger, fear, etc.
Parents also have the big responsibility of developing many skills for their children—communication, aptitude, perseverance, tolerance, awareness, sensitivity, etc., along with the lessons. Parents should demand these qualities to be developed for their children from schools instead of demanding more from higher-grade texts to be stuffed on children and being insensitive to the child's natural absorption and understanding capacities. For everything, there is a tipping point. A comprehensive stress management program will certainly help. I am looking for more views on how this whole concept of education can be made easier for students without blaming the existing structures.
Regards,
Sundar