The Role of HR in Interviews
My friends, the truth is that HR does not have to be empathetic, people-concerned, considerate, understanding, or sensitive. An interviewer should expect them to be the exact opposite. An interview is not a therapy session, so there is no use expecting the interviewer to want to hear or understand your side of the story.
The interviewer's job is to select a candidate based on the criteria given to him/her by HR or Management. He/She should be friendly but investigative. Nothing can be taken for granted, and no answer can be accepted at face value.
Like many people who responded to this post, I never have, nor would ever hire someone who complained about their previous company, family, friends, hometown, country, and weather. You won't believe how many people complain about the weather in an interview. Such candidates are let out the door with the response, "If you have a problem with the weather, you shouldn't be planning on working in this city."
Giving answers to an interviewer is like feeding an aardvark. You have to know what it is and what it eats before you cook for it. It won't eat anything you offer just because you think it is right. If it doesn't like what you feed it, it will hurt you.
An interview is all about convincing the interviewer that you are the best candidate for the job, and you must sincerely do everything you can to achieve that objective, including telling the interviewer what he wants to hear.
Regards,
Avinash Tavares
Aardvark