Resignation & Rejoining

Dear HR People
A man gives up his job rather than lose his self-respect. then for 6 month he remained unemployed and he began to stave. subsequently he is willing to take his job back even at the price of losing his self-respect.
please help me regarding this case.
thanking you

Hello Gowtami,
It would be helpful to get accurate responses IF you can give the details of the case--else most suggestions could end-up being impractical & inaccurate, which may not serve your main objective.
Some of the reasons for this suggestion are:
1] the definition of 'self-respect' varies from person to person AND the response also varies from situation to situation. 'In what context' decides how the members of CiteHR can respond to your query.
2] You have mentioned ONLY the facts--even though very briefly--of the case. What is your Query?
Rgds,
TS

self respect, honesty, integrity all look only good to tell and advise but when its question of feeding your stomach and living a simple life then all these should go to drain.

yes, i agree with Mr. Ravi. there is nothing infront of family a single can battle for the selfrespect but his or her dependend cant. in this if you can if you can help him so plz help him; thats all v can say.

Please present the entire case for us to respond.
There is no head & tail in this case
Also, there are some curious questions
1) Gave his Job for self respect - wat is that much issue that has come to losing self respect
2) he gave his job for self respect - did he not have any will power to get a job in SIX Months
3) if he is not able to get, what self respect he carries
4) now just because he wants a job, he will loose his self respect
5) if he is ready to self respect just for a job, then what else he will loose in future for this JOB
6) Job, Money is just 1 or 2 parts of life, LIFE is much MORE.....

You have not mentioned the cause so it is very difficult to give you the right sugsession, but as far as i think this self respect has no scale. Human life is not so easy, we have tendency to live & sacrifice for others(family) so most of the time we compromise with the situation/decisions because apart from job one has to run the show back at home also. So if you find him sound at his job, than go ahead with his wish.

What i understand is the man resigened because he could not overcome his emotions. He did not use his head, but rather decided to punish the management by resigning - this attitude does not work. Anyways, if he is regretting his decision then he should contact his close associates/colleagues to trigger something that reminds management of his good work and contribution and hence a fresh initiative could be taken to contact him again to rejon. This way, his so called self respect remains intact and he regains his lost job. This will not happen overnight. It's time consuming and needs lots of patience. They man has to main his cool. I did my self took a similar decision couple years back when i was transfered for no reason to an office 1800 KM from my city. It was a complete relocation. I resigned on the spot after a meeting my senior. Though i was 100% right, but i still relied more on my emotions. I suffered for few months. My decision was firm not to rejoin again. Despite calls from some seniors to resolve my issue.

Remember..every case is different and inside stories are difficult to understand.

• Man gives away job for self respect, remains unemployed for 6 months and now he is willing to take up same job back.
• One will have to decide between self respect and hunger (life).
• Was his self respect greater than job, his livelihood ?
• Is he really loosing his self respect by taking back a job ?
• Has he really gained or lost his self respect by leaving a job ?
• First comes life then self respect.
• He is taking back the job once he left to survive. If he survives he has a chance of winning self respect.