Hi
It is good that you are aware of your problem and the primary reason for that. To develop your interpersonal skills I suggest the following
- Use every opportunity to do something for those around you. This will give you the opportunity to find favor with them and it will also open the doors for you to interact with them.
- Share things that you can, which might be of the other person’s interest. E.g. If you come across a useful PPT or forward on Sales/ Finance share it with people in those departments who show an interest in such stuff.
-If you are shy because you feel your communications skills are not good enough then undergo a training related to that maybe a Personality Development program
-Dress smartly, be aware of the manners and etiquettes and use the magic words please, sorry and thank you as and when required.
-Do not take criticism personally. If you get criticized ask yourself if there is some truth in it. Learn from the feedback and improve. Do not get upset, angry or fearful because you made a mistake or you are unfairly criticized.
-Make an effort to meet more people, both within the organization and in the social environment you live in. This will help you open up and become more confident day by day.
-You are also welcome to read my Inspirational and Motivational blogs which can give you more inputs and practical suggestions.
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Best Wishes