What Would You Teach a Child About Life's Challenges and Values? A Thoughtful Letter from a Parent

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LETTER FROM ABRAHAM LINCOLN TO HIS SON'S TEACHER



“My son starts school today. It is all going to be strange and new to him for a while and I wish you would treat him gently. It is an adventure that might take him across continents. All adventures that probably include wars, tragedy and sorrow. To live this life will require faith, love and courage.



So dear Teacher, will you please take him by his hand and teach him things he will have to know, teaching him - but gently, if you can. Teach him that for every enemy, there is a friend. He will have to know that all men are not just, that all men are not true. But teach him also that for every scoundrel there is a hero, that for every crooked politician, there is a dedicated leader.



Teach him if you can that 10 cents earned is of far more value than a dollar found. In school, teacher, it is far more honorable to fail than to cheat. Teach him to learn how to gracefully lose, and enjoy winning when he does win.



Teach him to be gentle with people, tough with tough people. Steer him away from envy if you can and teach him the secret of quiet laughter. Teach him if you can - how to laugh when he is sad, teach him there is no shame in tears. Teach him there can be glory in failure and despair in success. Teach him to scoff at cynics.



Teach him if you can the wonders of books, but also give time to ponder the extreme mystery of birds in the sky, bees in the sun and flowers on a green hill. Teach him to have faith in his own ideas, even if every one tell him they are wrong.



Try to give my son the strength not to follow the crowd when everyone else is doing it. Teach him to listen to every one, but teach him also to filters all that he hears on a screen of truth and take only the good that comes through.



Teach him to sell his talents and brains to the highest bidder but never to put a price tag on his heart and soul. Let him have the courage to be impatient, let him have the patient to be brave. Teach him to have sublime faith in himself, because then he will always have sublime faith in mankind, in God.



This is the order, teacher but see what best you can do. He is such a nice little boy and he is my son.

Regds,

RAJ
nikkyblue
Agree with Sandeep,

The letter itself is great; however, there is no proof that it was written by A. Lincoln.

Cheers,
Nikhil
Amul
This is for every manager. I give it to all my team members as part of their induction manual.
wingcommandersandy
Good morning, all!

Attached, please find the original letter. There are many things to note, such as the letter being written to the headmaster of the school where his son was studying, not to the teacher, and many more similar points to compare. Abraham Lincoln is also known to have written many famous quotes. Among them, the one I like the best is, "I may be a slow walker, but I never walk backwards."

Wishing you all an awesome day ahead!

Regards,
Sandeep
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chriss
Hi Boss,

I would like to know whether this was the main draft or if you manipulated this for better understanding. I once came across a different format of this passage in an autobiography book, but I forgot the name of the book.

Could you do me a favor if possible? I'm an MBA student, so please let me know where the source can be found. Thank you for taking the time to manipulate and post it.

Regards,
Christo
wingcommandersandy
Hello Christo!

It is a pity that you think it is manipulation. It goes to show how well-read you are and where your mind wanders. Please be positive and don't make such negative remarks on this site.

Regards,
Sandeep
kishwes
Very nice - I had seen this in my kid's school library wall last Saturday and was wondering where I could get a copy to posterize. Viola - here it is. Thanks, friend. About its authenticity, I don't care. The message is, simply put - superb.

Kishore
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