How To Take Immediate Control Of Your Mental, Emotional, Physical And Financial Destiny
Every one has dreams from very early childhood.. As the years roll by, all those ambitions and aspirations get relegated to the realm of improbable fantasy. They cease to seem like achievable reality.
Here A Robbin says .. you need to take responsibility for creating a life in accordance with your highest dreams and desires
How is it that people from humble beginnings and disadvantaged circumstances go on to great heights of achievement and how is that those from privileged backgrounds and with every opportunity for success end up leading lives of bitterness and frustration, often littered with broken relationships and chemical addictions
‘Nothing can resist the human will that will stake even its very existence on its stated purpose’
– Benjamin Disraeli.
Usually lack of satisfaction with current state of afffairs in life provides an emotional leverage to inspire them to act and change.
Usually lack of satisfaction with current state of afffairs in life provides an emotional leverage to inspire them to act and change.
Success comes to those individuals who were driven by compelling forces of willpower, desire and imagination making them to rise above painful circumstances and handicaps of poverty and lack of education and to seize control of their own destinies and transform their lives.
Setting goals is the primary step toward turning the invisible into the visible and the foundation for success...dreams with a deadline .. What do I need to be doing today, right now, that will contribute towards my desired outcome in say six months?...
• Write down – right now – four things you really need to do but have put off.
Are you a bit
over-weight? Is that smoker’s cough getting worse? Have you let a silly falling out come between
you and a valued friend?
over-weight? Is that smoker’s cough getting worse? Have you let a silly falling out come between
you and a valued friend?
• Then write the answers to these questions beside each:Why haven’t I acted yet? What pain
have I associated with such action in the past?
have I associated with such action in the past?
An honest answer will bring home the fact that
the thing holding you back has been that you link more pain or inconvenience with the action than
with inaction.
the thing holding you back has been that you link more pain or inconvenience with the action than
with inaction.
• Next, set down all the pleasure you’ve gained by adopting this negative course.
The immediate
pleasures of indulging in a cigarette or chocolate or one too many beers are obvious. The same
goes for avoiding a difficult task or painful conversation. Writing them down focuses your
attention on your target. Change comes with new goals – think of ways to get these, or better,
pleasures without the unwanted consequences.
pleasures of indulging in a cigarette or chocolate or one too many beers are obvious. The same
goes for avoiding a difficult task or painful conversation. Writing them down focuses your
attention on your target. Change comes with new goals – think of ways to get these, or better,
pleasures without the unwanted consequences.
• Now, write the cost of not changing.
Money, ill-health, death… perhaps it is a precious
relationship that will be lost or damaged forever if you don’t act. Add up the cost over the next
year, the next 10, the next 50. Consider the effects on your self-respect and your feelings about
your life during all those years to come.
relationship that will be lost or damaged forever if you don’t act. Add up the cost over the next
year, the next 10, the next 50. Consider the effects on your self-respect and your feelings about
your life during all those years to come.
• Finally, write down all the possible pleasures which could result from acting on these issues,
now!
now!
Make the list long and lavish. Allow it to get you worked up. Let it charge your emotions
with anticipation of all those benefits. Remember the benefits for others are at stake here, too.