Dear Pooja,
I fully agree with the reply mentioned below. In terms of a girl's identity, I want to share with you that I myself work as a GM (HR, Admin & Personnel), and I enjoy my job. Nowadays, girls are not restricted to working in delicate jobs only; they are also working in production lines, maintenance, and even marketing (field jobs).
My advice to you is to go ahead as a good future is waiting for you. Best of luck.
Mrs. Veena Deshpande
Subject: Re: Compliance vs. HR
Hi Pooja, In my opinion, the personnel department is not as you described. In many organizations, the HR department is known because of the personnel department. Soft skills are not the only requirement in the HR department. If you truly want to learn something, then personnel/IR is the best platform. In IR, you can learn how to deal with government officials, how to handle uneducated people, villagers, how to address mobs, and the rules and regulations of factories, labor, PF, ESI, payment of wages, migrant workers, overtime, etc. It is necessary to be a good HR professional. In India, you can see that many top HR professionals come from a PM/IR background.
Yes, the personnel department may report to HR, but that doesn't mean HR is better than IR. In many large organizations, the IR/personnel department is distinct from the HR department, and their reporting structures are also different. I believe IR/personnel people are more knowledgeable, mature, and visionary. Always remember that every job has equal ethics and values. Respect what you are doing and what you are going to do.
So, take it easy. Don't dwell in the past, nor look too far ahead; always focus on the present.
Best of luck for the future. Bye, take care.