Dear Lakshmi Ganapathy,
Glad to know that you are employed in UAE.
Everyone on this earth, thinks always positive unless circumstances/situations makes us speak bitter facts, henceforth they sound NEGATIVE. I do understand that, there are group of people who don't value FACTS/TRUTH.
Let me share my experience with you. Since i am engaged into training activities, i love doing ANALYSIS on BEHAVIOR & ATTITUDE. I had studied the impact on EMPLOYEES 1)FACTS ARE OUTSPOKEN & 2)PRESENTING INFORMAL(NEGATIVE) MESSAGE AS FORMAL(POSITIVE).
OUTCOME:
A) Those employees who are MATURED(applied COMMON SENSE/LOGIC in their THOUGHT PROCESS) understood "TRUE MEANING" of the message conveyed irrespective of its STATUS(NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE).
B) On the other hand, employees who haven't applied COMMON SENSE/LOGIC, NOT ANALYTICAL/CALCULATIVE, LACK OF BETTER PERCEPTION SKILLS etc., reacted immediately or lets say they got DEMOTIVATED. The major reason for getting DEMOTIVATED is, "THEY FAILED TO INTERPRET THE TRUE MEANING AND ACCEPT FACTS"
Whatever we FEEL(feelings) is a STATE OF MIND. Even if i feel or receive something NEGATIVE as POSITIVE, its an ability to interpret messages/information but we forget that NEGATIVE REMAINS NEGATIVE and POSITIVE REMAINS POSITIVES unless "the whole thing is not RECTIFIED/CORRECTED".
We should learn to accept FACTS and live our life accordingly. Ofcourse TRUTH always taste bitter and many find difficult, to even digest it. Never allow NEGATIVE MESSAGES/FEELING to ATTACK your BRAIN. If you do so, then you are INCAPABLE PERSONALITY. We should develop an ability to RULE/COMMAND OUR BRAIN rather allowing him to RULE OUR LIFE.
We cannot leave everything to GOD as he said "First, help yourself to receive help from me". We need to work SMART for our BETTER FUTURE. A. P. J. ABDUL KALAM, the great personality said "We cannot change this world but, we can change our habits. Our habits will help to change ourselves, that can change the world"
Have a wonderful life.
With profound regards