Dear Rajkumar,
Basic tips regarding your problem are provided herewith for your use.
Such problems are faced by most organizations. One or two individuals of such kind may be present in it. In my organization, we also faced these problems, not with one but with five people. We never immediately started appreciating those people. Our steps were as follows:
1. We initiated daily interactions lasting 5 to 20 minutes regarding their work/job.
2. Gradually, we introduced subjects they liked the most (e.g., their hobbies, subjects related to their work such as finance for finance professionals, etc.). Once this information sharing commenced, these individuals also became slightly interested in the communication process. They acknowledged that others in the same organization had information too. This helped the HR department build rapport with them, and they realized that HR also thought along the same lines.
3. Subsequently, we began sharing information about their family background.
4. We then started giving compliments (do not confuse this with recognition) about their work/job (and not about their hobbies). This step is crucial. Proceed with caution at this stage.
5. Later, we started inviting these individuals to weekly social gatherings. Every Saturday, we spent a minimum of 1 hour with all our employees.
6. After assessing their interest and attendance at such meetings, we began providing appreciation in these programs for their work-related habits. For instance, if they consistently arrived on time, we awarded them the Most Punctual title.
7. Following this, they became more interested and began asking us questions about other good employees. They also participated in presenting at the weekly meetings. Communication flows reversed.
8. Observing their interest, attendance, and enthusiasm over a year, we recognized their work and hobbies too.
I hope this process helps. Let me know if you plan to implement it and need further guidance.
Regards,
Shailendra