Dear Kamal,
Thanks for bringing up unique situations like the length of skirts issue, working couple problems, and now a supposedly 'tyrant' boss. My dear, it would be advisable if you can shed some light by providing more details on the type of organization, size, hierarchical structures, and reporting relationships, etc.
For example, if it's a manufacturing organization, then having a boss with 30-40 years of experience is a boon (or rather a miracle)! On the other hand, if it's a Software or IT company, then one wonders where you found a boss with 30-40 years of experience??
Hope you understand what I mean. Kindly devote some time and effort to give more information before you expect CiteHR members to contribute, which might not be taken into consideration by you.
Moreover, on the "bosses," there is a lot of material on this site itself that you are advised to search. A few points that might interest you:
- You have asked, "What to do in this case?" Well, is there anything that needs to be done or can be done?? The Boss is simply carrying out the job entrusted to him by the management and cannot be faulted for not accommodating the views/whims of his subordinates.
- Somewhere I read: Rule No. 1 - The Boss is always Right. Rule No. 2 - In case the boss is wrong, refer to rule No. 1.
- The boss appears to believe in streamlining operations. He is direct in his communication - "keep quiet or else look for a new job." You should take his words seriously as he seems straightforward and doesn't beat around the bush.
- I am sure if he has been appointed as the Boss to 24 employees in their early 30s, the management must have considered many qualifying criteria.
- There is an old saying that "You can choose your subordinates, but not your Boss."
- Instead of fighting the boss, cooperate in achieving the objectives of the organization.
- I do not believe age plays a role here; he is the Boss, not the father of the employees. Perhaps what your colleagues are seeking is a Chief Fun Officer in their boss. However, it doesn't always work out that way!
I apologize if I have disappointed you by not providing any sensational, spicy stories of old bosses and young subordinates that you may have been looking for.