Hi Asha,
Saw the post today, hence the late reply....
I am staying in Bangalore for the last 5 years, was in Chennai 5 years prior to this...
1. As many said, it depends on the location; rent would be different - places like Koramangala/Indira Nagar would be expensive. When we stay with the family, we have to look at the location too...
2. Maids are very expensive (I am paying 4k as salary + medical + dress + up and down travel (to hometown) + phone expenses + other necessary things).
3. Autos: Meter runs so fast - the best thing, if you know how much it is going to cost you, tell him the amount and get into the auto. And they will charge you Rs 10 or 20 extra if it is after 6:30/7:00 PM (People are ready to pay; that is the reason).
If you have your vehicle, that is the best thing, but you will go mad in the traffic, especially during office time.
4. Regarding vegetables and fruits: Madiwala you will get an apple at Rs 70-90. But in my place, it's Rs 120!!! (Again, it depends on the place).
5. There are many A/C Volvo buses as well, starting at Rs 13/-
6. We would get meals at Rs 25/- (in small joints). I prefer home-cooked food than this with the flu around... cheap too...
I would say the cost of living in Bangalore is high... But at the end of the day, how you handle your funds matters... buy vegetables and groceries in places where it is cheap (there are a few places where we will get groceries for less than MRP).
Appreciate your effort for helping your friend...
Simmy