Excellent posting, Uma.
Like the elephants, how many of us go through life holding onto a belief that we cannot do something, simply because we failed at it once before? How many of us refuse to attempt something new and challenging because of our so-called mindset? Very motivational lines, Uma.
When you trust your assertiveness, you have the ability to express yourself and the ability to explore your feelings, wants, and needs. You are less dependent on others and more in control of your own life.
When you assert yourself, you make your own choices. You make room for your confidence to explore. Practice confident assertion by saying "Yes" to the things you want to do and "No" to the things you don't.
Don't feel afraid or guilty for asserting yourself. You have nothing to lose. You will only become stronger and more self-sufficient, and in turn, your self-respect and self-worth will shine.